50 Years Ago: The Wild Death of Gram Parsons
Gram Parsons is one of the most complex characters to regard in the history of country music. Though he wasn’t especially prolific over his truncated career, or regarded highly inside the country music establishment in Nashville or even the Bakersfield scene out in California, history has proven Parsons to be one of the most important and influential characters in the history of country music in the way he popularized country among people outside of the genre.
Though Gram started in The Byrds as nothing more than a salaried piano player, he brought his passion for authentic country music to the legendary West Coast band, persuading them to record a full-blown country album in Nashville that ended up becoming the iconic Sweetheart of the Rodeo. When he left The Byrds shortly thereafter, he became close friends with Keith Richards of The Rolling Stones, and was seminal in persuading that legendary band in a more country direction with their albums Let It Bleed and Sticky Fingers.
Then of course Gram Parsons helped found The Flying Burrito Brothers, which was the prototype of the American country rock band, and later Parsons launched a solo career that among other accomplishments gave rise to the career of Country Music Hall of Famer Emmylou Harris. It’s really hard to to oversell just how significant Gram Parsons was for conveying the beauty of country music to audiences outside of the genre’s fold.
But all of that came to a crashing end 50 years ago today, September 19th, 1973, in Room 8 at the Joshua Tree Inn in Joshua Tree, California. Gram had just finished up recording what would be his final album called Grievous Angel, and was looking to decompress after the sessions. A notorious drinker and drug user, Gram had actually tackled his heroin addiction significantly before starting the recording sessions for the album. But near the end of the project, he began using heavily once more.
So to dry out and decompress, Gram Parson’s manager—the notorious Phil Kaufman—suggested Gram take a retreat to his favorite place in the world, Joshua Tree. At the time, Joshua Tree was not the haven and destinations spot it’s considered today. It was a remote desert area than few saw use for aside from the occasional camping excursion. But Gram Parsons was one of the first to see the beauty in the landscape.
So much of the mystique around Joshua Tree these days is tied in many respects to the Gram Parsons story, and what happened afterward, which is one of the most wild accounts in country or rock ‘n roll history.
After finishing the Grievous Angel sessions, Parsons took his new Jaguar out to Joshua Tree with his high school girlfriend Margaret Fisher that he’d recently rekindled a relationship with. They were joined by an assistant named Michael Martin and his girlfriend Dale McElroy. They stayed at the tiny Joshua Tree Inn in Room 8. Parsons spent time out in the desert during the day, and they would hang out in local bars at night. There was plenty of alcohol around, and the couples were also using barbiturates.
At one point, Michael Martin was sent back to L.A. to resupply Room 8 with marijuana. While he was gone, Parsons purchased some liquid morphine from a local woman who injected Parsons and girlfriend Marget Fisher in the Joshua Tree Inn’s Room 1. Gram Parsons overdosed. They transported him back to Room 8, where they tried to help him by giving him a cold shower and coffee, but it was to no avail. They called an ambulance, and Gram Parsons was declared dead on arrival at High Desert Memorial Hospital, 15 minutes after midnight on September 19, 1973.
Though the death of Gram Parsons was definitely mourned by the music community, it wasn’t like the deaths of Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, or others of the era. Gram was really just getting started with leaving his mark on the music world, even if that mark would go on to prove itself indelible and long lasting in the future.
But what did keep the public intrigued about Gram’s death was the wild aftermath. The body of Gram Parsons was supposed to be loaded up in a Western Airlines jet and transported to New Orleans for burial by his family. However, manager Phil Kaufman had other plans. While laying to rest another critically-important California country contributor in Clarence White, Gram had intimated to Kaufman that he didn’t want to be interred in the ground. He wanted to be cremated, and his ashes spread in Joshua Tree.
So in a semi-drunken expedition, Phil Kaufman and a friend borrowed a hearse, talked their way onto the tarmac at the airport and to the hangar where Gram’s body was being kept, and even convinced the individual at Western Airlines to release the body to them under the false notion they were transporting Gram to another airplane. There was even a police officer at the hanger who helped them load the casket into the hearse. They were so nervous, as they were driving out of the hangar, they ran into a wall.
Eventually Phil Kaufman made it out to Joshua Tree, wheeled Gram Parsons in his casket out into the desert, drenched him with five gallons of gasoline, and lit him on fire, leaving him there to burn. Some nearby campers saw the smoke and alerted authorities. Meanwhile Kaufman and the hearse broke down, were involved in a fender bender getting back to Los Angeles, and eventually he got caught and charged with Grand Theft. The remaining remains of Gram eventually made their way to New Orleans where he was laid permanently to rest.
In Joshua Tree, you can find a guitar-shaped memorial to Gram at the Joshua Tree Inn. Room 8 is reserved for those who want to stay where Gram passed into the great beyond. Though many visit Cap Rock in Joshua Tree as the place where Gram was “cremated” and there is a makeshift memorial there, it was actually about a 1/4 mile away where the incident occurred. The National Forrest Service does not officially recognize the incident, perhaps not wanting others to try something similar. The story of the aftermath of Gram’s death was made into a movie called Grand Theft Parsons (2003) starring Johnny Knoxville.
The life of Gram Parson was marked by planting country music seeds in fertile ground that would eventually grow into a deeper appreciation for the genre well beyond its conventional borders. But his death also left a significant mark that continues to be felt in country music and beyond. There is a reason why so many artists choose Joshua Tree as the setting for their album covers or promotional photos, and continue to adopt the Gram Parsons take on Western fashion. He made country music cool.
JP
September 19, 2023 @ 8:42 am
Hat tip to Chris Hillman who’s often overlooked in the Gram Parsons mythology but whose importance to the genre can’t be overstated.
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 1:30 pm
Unfortunately for Hillman’s legacy, he didn’t overdose and die young.
thegentile
September 20, 2023 @ 2:25 pm
did gram parson’s fuck your mom and never call her again or something? lmao
CountryKnight
September 21, 2023 @ 8:48 am
Who is Gram Parson? I think you mean Gram Parsons.
Man, Gram Parsons must be your wet dream because you won’t stop simping for the addict.
The fact is, the mysticism about the man is overblown. He was a footnote in country music history. If he died of TB, no one cares.
Trigger
September 21, 2023 @ 10:15 am
Please folks, let’s move on.
CountryKnight, you’ve made your opinions on Gram Parsons very clear. This article wasn’t attempting to canonize him and didn’t even mention the Country Music Hall of Fame. It was simply telling the wild story of his death on the 50th Anniversary.
Donald H
November 21, 2023 @ 11:15 am
Parsons went to Harvard.
Which Ivy did you attend, Trumpster?
Roflmfao!
Conrad Fisher
September 19, 2023 @ 8:57 am
What a bizarre story. I knew there was some wild circumstances around his death but never read it laid out so well. Great article.
Today is my wedding anniversary, too. haha. That is weird.
Lim Jahey
September 19, 2023 @ 12:01 pm
Happy anniversary.
James
April 30, 2024 @ 7:19 am
I think Parsons is a legend in Country and Western circles, but then what do you expect from a former member of the Byrds and the Flying Burrito Brothers.
Give the man a little well deserved respect already.
Joseph W Robson
September 19, 2023 @ 9:33 am
He went to High School In Jacksonville, Florida. A Prestigious Private One…The Bolles High School….
bigtex
September 19, 2023 @ 9:49 am
Is it true that white guys from the South who love Graham Parsons’ music are known as “Graham crackers?”
durks
September 19, 2023 @ 12:53 pm
His first name was actually ‘Ingram’, not ‘Graham.’
AdamAmericana
September 20, 2023 @ 7:07 am
His name is spelled “Gram”.
Geez…
Big Tex
September 20, 2023 @ 9:13 am
Correct. I apologize for that serious mistake, and, later today, I am going to my church and ask the Parrsson for forgiveness.
Grahame
September 20, 2023 @ 3:31 pm
His name is spelled “Gram” , which is short for Ingraham, not “Graham”..so the answer would be No. My name is Grahame , and I live in Valdosta, Georgia. Gram had lived in Waycross, Ga. , 45 miles away.
PJinAtl
September 19, 2023 @ 9:53 am
It also served as the inspiration (I believe) for some of the most powerful lyrics in Emmylou Harris’s catalog.
The last time I felt like this
I was in the wilderness and the canyon was on fire
And I stood on the mountain
In the night and I watched it burn
I watched it burn, I watched it burn
I know all of the reports omit her name, and Graham was there with Margaret Fisher, but I have this strange sense that when she learned of his OD Emmylou found a way to be there.
John Edmund Reuter
September 19, 2023 @ 10:39 am
No. Graham crackers are not white. They are larger and brown. You’re confusing Graham Crackers with Saltines.
Linda Scates
September 19, 2023 @ 6:04 pm
Also the song “The Road,” which is a lovely tribute. https://genius.com/Emmylou-harris-the-road-lyrics
CountryKnight
September 19, 2023 @ 10:22 am
He still doesn’t belong in the Country HOF.
thegentile
September 19, 2023 @ 1:37 pm
wrong.
David: The Duke of Everything
September 19, 2023 @ 7:08 pm
That’s a wild story. Had heard of him but didn’t really follow him. Simple message, don’t do drugs my friends.
trevistrat
September 20, 2023 @ 2:28 pm
ESPECIALLY with Keith Richards.
James
April 30, 2024 @ 7:23 am
Yor damn right he belongs in the HOF .
wayne
September 19, 2023 @ 10:49 am
Weird as I just finished watching his documentary for the umpteenth time. I guess great minds think alike, though I can’t speak for Trigger (just kidding).
His influence probably cannot be accurately measured. There were others involved in this creation, such as Hillman mentioned above.
Not to ruffle feathers, but I think Parsons became “hip” to many afterwards, especially in later years. Kind of like Keith Whitley or Johnny Cash. For many artists, especially non-country artists, it became hip to wear a Cash T-Shirt. Or in EVERY interview with a country star, especially up-and-coming, Whitley is cited as an inspiration. Probably some do not even know the lyrics to his songs. And this is no knock on these artists whatsoever.
Sometimes the hip factor clouds the measure of influence. I think this is especially true in Gram’s case.
Parsons was a trust-fund child whose wealth was not tied to his artistry. He was drug and alcohol addicted. He was notoriously unreliable as stated in interviews with his co-workers and others.
He was also very gifted and belongs in the long line of artists that “could have been”.
Avis
June 30, 2024 @ 6:42 am
Almost every influential adult in Grams young life was an alcoholic so it comes as no surprise that he dealt with addiction. He was running from a past that he didn’t have the tools to cope with and overcome. My mother (Avis) once wrote that she never felt loved by her mother and I would bet that Gram would echo that sentiment. Being a trust fund kid really just ended his life all the faster. The sheer stupidity of Phil Kaufman and ‘friends’ to steal his body and half burn him in the desert is a tragic legacy and not one that my uncle deserved. Some people remember his life through his love of making music and some people just idolize his tragic ending that has been made into an elaborate fantasy for story telling. I think his fans might reflect on what it is about Gram that draws them to his story. My sincere hope is that his love of the music overcomes the story of his demise. ‘Sound as ever’.. Avis
Vivian Hopper
October 12, 2024 @ 11:02 pm
Avis, personally my interest in your brother is predicated in his music, vision for his creations, and his performances. Fifty years ago the term “dual addiction” was unknown, and treatments for addiction were ineffective and often cruel. Having two parents who were alcoholics meant Gram didn’t have much of a chance avoiding it. Despite these major challenges he carved out a new way to think about music, and influenced The Rolling Stones and Dylan. Not too shabby. His very early death makes me wonder what else he would have done. It is tragic that the circumstances of his death have blurred Gram’s achievements. He deserves so much more. I think it is brave of you to come here to defend your brother’s memory. So many of us hold him in our hearts and smile with him in videos. He’ll always be my ole boy. Thank you so much. Vivian
Jerre Yeager
September 19, 2023 @ 11:01 am
Great article! Not sure if you heard it or not, but Phil Kaufman was on the Buddy & Jim show on Sirius/XM Outlaw Country a couple of weeks ago and told the story in his own words. It was totally bizarro wild, and funny as hell. Your article does a great job of telling the same tale. Thanks!!
Happy Dan
September 19, 2023 @ 11:15 am
That was a wild and great interview! What a life the Road Mangler has had. Needs to be a movie!
RedDirtCyclone
September 19, 2023 @ 11:07 am
“Gram Parsons used to sing about the streets of Baltimore, but honest words and simple rhymes don’t sell much anymore” – Jason Boland
Shastacatfish
September 20, 2023 @ 12:47 pm
“Gram Parsons used to sing about the streets of Baltimore, but honest words and simple rhymes don’t sell much anymore” – Eleven Hundred Springs (particularly Aaron Wynne)
VernTobyTrace
September 23, 2023 @ 7:23 am
that streets of Baltimore song sucked… had to play it in a band once.. what a lousy song
Aaron Perlut
September 19, 2023 @ 11:15 am
Great piece. Fascinating. You’re right, such a complex character. I interviewed Chris Hillman on the Load Out Music podcast and he had a lot to say about Graham. Chris was a wonderful guest but there’s clearly some animosity and bitterness built up and he believed that Graham‘s life imploded because he was a trust fund baby and never got beyond that in terms of personal responsibility.
Di Harris
September 19, 2023 @ 11:30 am
“Eventually Phil Kaufman made it out to Joshua Tree, wheeled Gram Parsons in his casket out into the desert, drenched him with five gallons of gasoline, and lit him on fire, leaving him there to burn.”
If Kaufman hadn’t been such a drunken idiot, there would have been S’more of Gram to lay to rest in New Orleans.
Gram is one of those people losers love to hold up as great.
Mainlining morphine?
There’s something you want to promote.
thegentile
September 19, 2023 @ 1:39 pm
well i guess we can’t listen to music by people who have abused substances anymore. woops there goes music.
Di Harris
September 19, 2023 @ 5:10 pm
Poor baby.
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 5:05 am
Pretty telling how badly he/she is jousting for a dead addict’s honor.
Trigger
September 20, 2023 @ 6:40 am
Pretty telling how reductive you are of people who happened to struggle with addiction. We’ve learned a lot more in 50 years.
jimincincy
September 20, 2023 @ 7:38 am
Thank you Trigger, that really needed to be said. I am sure many people who read this site have lost friends or family to addiction. People need to educate themselves that addiction is not a choice, but is a brain disease. He was only 26 years old for goodness sake.
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 8:03 am
Trigger,
I get it. Parsons is a musical hero of yours.
But the guy’s fame and value to the genre is overblown. There are plenty more singers and writers who should receive HOF push but Parsons soaks up the attention just for dying young. A death driven by his decisions.
Addiction to anything is a choice. He made his choice. So did Hank. I love Hank but the man chose to wreck his life. As did Parsons.
Trigger
September 20, 2023 @ 8:34 am
Dude, Gram Parsons is not sucking up any attention from anyone else for the Hall of Fame, any more than the Maddox Brothers and Rose are. I recommend both of these performers each year knowing they may never get it, but believing they should be. I also recommend a host of others artists that are more likely to get in. The problem is the Hall of Fame backlog, not my recommendations.
thegentile
September 20, 2023 @ 9:10 am
what a square
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 10:05 am
Not celebrating addiction equals being a square in 2023 America. Or, at least, in the depraved minds of people like thegentile.
Hence, the reason this country is rapidly dying.
Trigger
September 20, 2023 @ 10:49 am
Let’s please not with back and forth here folks. This isn’t even a contentious topic.
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 10:07 am
Trigger,
Parsons is 333rd in line by any reasonable metric for the HOF. If he didn’t overdose, there is no aura or call for it. The resume simply isn’t there. This isn’t a Cline or Whitley situation.
AdamAmericana
September 20, 2023 @ 7:08 am
Why haven’t you been banned yet?
Di Harris
September 20, 2023 @ 3:11 pm
: D
ST
September 20, 2023 @ 10:43 pm
I don’t see anyone promoting drug use here
Scott Southworth
September 19, 2023 @ 1:23 pm
Love this story, would love to see an actual good movie made about this some day…Johnny Knoxville’s was not it. Ha!
Daniele
September 20, 2023 @ 6:59 am
agreed, that movie is real trash
TXBrian
September 19, 2023 @ 1:42 pm
I always liked Gram’s song “Return of the Grievous Angel”. His Rendition of “Love Hurts” with Emmylou is a fantastic take. It cannot be overstated enough the monumental influence he had on music at the time. He found the right blend on country and rock and influenced many artists along the way. Without Graham, the Eagles would probably not be anywhere as successful. He was truly underrated.
Also, be sure to check out the Swedish folk-country group First Aid Kit. They cite Gram as a major influence on their music.
Shastacatfish
September 20, 2023 @ 12:57 pm
Worth mentioning that Eagles founding member Bernie Leadon played with Parsons in the Flying Burrito Brothers. Leadon paid tribute to Parsons a year after his death with the Eagles’ song “My Man”. The song sums up a lot of what Trigger has recounted here and about how contemporaries felt about him at the time. The line about hickory wind is a kick in the gut.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sCqmMKwPqlg
Shastacatfish
September 20, 2023 @ 1:25 pm
Worth noting too was Parsons’ relationship with Richie Furay. The two knew each other going back to the mid 60’s. Poco’s fifth album was named after the song that Furay wrote about Parsons, well before he died. That album also included a cover of Parsons’ song “Brass Buttons” recorded before Parsons’ own version (my favorite song by him. I love the line “she was a dream much too real to be leaned against too long.”). This was all done before Parsons died.
I think the point of all this is that yes, Parsons’ wasn’t well known in country but his influence was really bringing country into rock. I know that is what Trigger is angling at. I think his influence traveled through rock and circled back into country.
Personal note:
One of my favorite shows I have ever seen was Dwight Yoakam at Schinerfest in Dallas back in 2005 (part of one of the two best days of my four years in Texas). When I moved to Texas I hated country (all I knew were Wilf Carter and Garth Brooks and disliked both). By the time I left, that was almost all I listened to. There were a lot of musical roads in that journey, mostly outlaw and Texas oriented. Gram Parsons was part of that journey too though. When I saw Yoakam, I was pretty familiar with Parsons’ by that point and was greatly impressed when he opened his show saying that he was about to come out with an album (Blame the Vain) and wanted to spend the evening playing covers and old favorites before he toured and played the new songs so he “can turn them into old favorites too”. The first two songs of the entire show were Wheels and My Uncle, from Gilded Palace of Sin. The entire show was amazing, going over 3.5 hours.
TheRealBobCephus
September 19, 2023 @ 2:44 pm
For the record, the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band released their debut album a few years earlier than the Burito brothers, always feel like they get left out of these conversations.
TheRealBobCephus
September 19, 2023 @ 2:46 pm
If we are talking about country rock, the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band released their debut album a few years before the Burrito Brothers. I always feel like they get left out of conservations on here.
Di Harris
September 19, 2023 @ 5:09 pm
The Nitty Gritty Dirt Band – much more influential than Parsons.
TheRealBobCephus
September 20, 2023 @ 6:21 am
I hope you aren’t being sarcastic…
Di Harris
September 20, 2023 @ 8:17 am
Not being sarcastic.
Love the NGDB.
James
April 30, 2024 @ 2:18 pm
Yor damn right he belongs in the HOF .
Roger
September 19, 2023 @ 3:09 pm
In the mid-90’s Phil Kaufman was bartending at an Irish Pub next to the Exit Inn in Nashville – that dude had story after story – so fun listening to them…
Jeff
September 19, 2023 @ 3:17 pm
1973 was a sad year for us Byrds fans – the death of Gram, the death of Clarence White, and the reunion album that stunk.
trevistrat
September 19, 2023 @ 3:18 pm
And tomorrow will be the 50th anniversary of the death of Jim Croce. Today I heard an ad for a show featuring his son , A.J. Croce. It is called “Croce plays Croce” and will be at the Peace Center in Greenville, SC on February 3, 2024. The 65th anniversary of another airplane crash that changed music forever.
CountryKnight
September 19, 2023 @ 3:37 pm
Croce is a real legend, unlike Overdose Parsons.
thegentile
September 19, 2023 @ 7:49 pm
jim croce sucks tho
CountryKnight
September 20, 2023 @ 5:05 am
Every opinion you have is terrible.
Trainwreck
September 21, 2023 @ 5:51 pm
Why are you like this?
Di Harris
September 19, 2023 @ 6:19 pm
: D Love A.J. Croce.
https://youtu.be/5sxrQD_6dJs?si=yV9AM865T0Iq98nR
Jeff
September 20, 2023 @ 6:07 pm
And his partner-in-crime Maury Muehleisen. Gifted guitarist.
Cooter Brown
September 19, 2023 @ 3:35 pm
It’s a bizarre story and one that helped create and feed the Gram mythology.
Hillman’s been touchy about Parsons for years. It’s understandable–he’s said more than once that almost every interview ends up being more about Gram and less about The Byrds and Hillman’s other work, of which he is rightly proud.
As “wayne” said above, Parson’s one of those artists who’s had a sort of fetishistic cult built up around him, sort of a litmus test of hipness even among people who wouldn’t otherwise be caught dead listening to country music. And that can get a little annoying.
But when you winnow out the music from the hipster T shirts, and the cult, and the knowing nods of the phonies, there’s the music, much of which is as listenable and relevant today as it was half a century ago. He really did that stuff with the Byrds, and the Burritos, and the Stones–he really made that fine Grievous Angel album. His work really did introduce country music to people who might not have found it, at least as soon as they did through his influence.
I love his stuff with Emmylou. There’s a quality to the harmony of siblings that’s hard to quantify but it’s there. You hear it in the Carters, the Louvins, the Everly Brothers, the Gibbs, etc. Gram and Emmylou had that quality as much as any non-siblings can. Listen to “We’ll Sweep Out the Ashes in the Morning” and you can hear it. Larkin Poe seems to be mining the idea of that quality in their new release “Blood Harmony”.
So yeah, every once in a while I’ve gotta spend a little time with the kickers and the cowboy angels.
James
April 30, 2024 @ 2:32 pm
Gram and Emmylou , together, were the best. Any
person serious about true Country and western would agree. Maybe I’m a little partial, because i grew up with the Byrds and the Grateful Dead .
Most people don’t associate the Dead, with country
and Western , but indeed they were .
Bryan Bridges
September 19, 2023 @ 4:04 pm
I wrote a song about this a few years back. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNDGE9zjdIM My information was mostly correct, according to this article
DCinOK
September 19, 2023 @ 5:55 pm
I love Gram Parsons, his music, and the influence he had on so many of my favorite bands and singers of today. Drug addict? Yep. Some kind of connection with Jesus? Yep. That combination both frustrates and fascinates me. I wish I could have known him. Thanks for your time on earth, GP.
James
April 30, 2024 @ 2:33 pm
You and I think alike brother.
kapam
September 19, 2023 @ 6:03 pm
I have an anthology of his songs (on CD, with a booklet describing his crazy life). The music on the discs represents a broad sweep of his career from start to finish.
To me it comes across as a sort-of template for the country/rock acts that followed from Gram’s legacy.
I doubt that I have anything in common with Gram (personality-wise). He sounds like a major misfit to me, but I sure do love his music!
dan
September 19, 2023 @ 6:22 pm
“When the legend becomes fact, print the legend”
(From the film, “Who Shot Liberty Valance”)
weak knee-ed willie
September 20, 2023 @ 4:15 am
50 yrs ago, my college roommate introduced me to Gram, Prine, Kris, Doug Sahm etc. Here’s to you DV wherever you are
Wally
September 20, 2023 @ 6:26 am
Love me some GP and the Burrito Brothers could swing that beat like no other.
“So much of the mystique around Joshua Tree these days is tied in many respects to the Gram Parsons story”
As a lover of all things Joshua Tree guy, I’d have to disagree with you Trig. The place is dripping with mystique outside of Parsons death and in fact that same mystique is what made him want to be cremated and his ashes spread there. The place is oozing with currents of energy, oddity and high weirdness.
Influencers go to Sedona, AZ and the Real McCoy’s go to Joshua Tree.
And then head south to Salton Sea.
CountryDJ
September 20, 2023 @ 6:49 am
Reality check.
As a lifelong fan of country music (60+ years) I am always surprised at the significance accorded to Gram Parsons. In 1973 like most other country fans of that era I was listening to the major country stars like Johnny Cash, Merle Haggard, Buck Owens, George Jones, Charley Pride, Tom T. Hall, Loretta Lynn, Tammy Wynette, etc. Myself and most other country fans at that time had NO IDEA who Gram Parsons was. I had not even heard his name until Emmylou Harris mentioned him several years following his death.
In 1973 if you were a country singer and your music was not played on country radio you were not part of the conversation. You could get some regional support as some Texas based artists did but with no internet or social media country radio was the sole conduit to the mass country audience.
From accounts that I’ve read Parsons’ music apparently did influence a handful of other artists. But in fact he had no real impact on country music at that time. Had he lived perhaps he may have found success as Waylon & Willie were expanding the boundaries of country music in the 70’s. But we’ll never know.
What I do know is that 50 years after his passing his influence on country music has been significantly overstated by those who were not country fans at that time.
Trigger
September 20, 2023 @ 7:07 am
Country DJ,
“What I do know is that 50 years after his passing his influence on country music has been significantly overstated by those who were not country fans at that time.”
That’s the exact point I am trying to make. I’m not saying he had a lot of influence on popular country at that time. They barely knew he existed. It was people outside of the country fold who were awoken to the beauty of country music through Gram’s efforts, and those were the efforts he specifically undertook. He didn’t want to preach to the choir, he wanted to grow the flock.
Kevin Smith
September 20, 2023 @ 8:17 am
Country DJ,
You are correct. I’ve been listening to Country music for decades as well, and I can vouch that the masses had no clue about him even in the early eighties. It was the Rock and counter- culture journalists who were touting him and most of the fanatic superfans tend to come out of the rock world with little knowledge of actual Country music. The hippies loved him because he was a Byrd and smoked lots of weed and had long hair. To many of these folks, Gram is this messianic figure who somehow came to represent the pinnacle of Country music greatness. It’s delusional, and some of these folks desperately want him in the CMHOF, ahead of successful career Country artists. What is true, is that he did influence a lot of musicians, particularly later on, long after his death. Marty Stuart is indeed one of them. And as time has rolled on, the passion for his music has not waned. I’m a casual fan of his music and I play his stuff frequently in rotation with more mainstream Country of the past. To me, great songs, great musicianship speaks for itself. I think the commentor above called Cooter phrased it well from my point of view at least. The music is rewarding to listen to, but the hipster hype and over the top fan- boying can be a turn- off for some of us. That said, the article makes me want to drop The Flying Burrito Bros on my turntable and give it a spin!
Trigger
September 20, 2023 @ 8:31 am
This is the opening paragraph of this article:
“Gram Parsons is one of the most complex characters to regard in the history of country music. Though he wasn’t especially prolific over his truncated career, or regarded highly inside the country music establishment in Nashville or even the Bakersfield scene out in California, history has proven Parsons to be one of the most important and influential characters in the history of country music in the way he popularized country among people outside of the genre.”
That to me sounds almost exactly like what you and Country DJ are saying, though you’re couching it as counter to what I said.
Kevin Smith
September 20, 2023 @ 9:10 am
Oh I agree with you Kyle, great article, btw. DJ just sparked a reaction out of me and I’m glad to see I’m not the only one with this take. I did enjoy DJs perspective that in 1973 no one in Country music fandom was listening to GP. I’ve noticed that with the uber Gram fans, you can point that out all day long, and they just keep reverting back to ” but have you listened to his solo albums? You know he discovered Emmylou! Or some variant of yeah, whatever, hits dont matter, it’s the influence man!” He NEEDS to be in the HOF, and now would be the right time…..and so on….
????
Daniele
September 20, 2023 @ 7:06 am
He sure had a deep impact on me and was one of my main gateways to country music, the short lived International Submarine Band should also be mentioned.
Tommy
September 20, 2023 @ 2:52 pm
Really good write up, trig. I’ll be honest, I didn’t know the circumstances around his death and the wild shit after. Learned a lot!
DCinOK
September 20, 2023 @ 3:26 pm
Watch/listen to Whiskeytown doing GP’s “A song for you” on youtube. American music at its best. You’re welcome.
DCinOK
September 20, 2023 @ 3:30 pm
Watch/listen to Whiskeytown’s cover of GP’s “A song for you” on youtube. American songwriting and playing at its finest. You’re welcome.
Duval Dave
September 20, 2023 @ 4:18 pm
Alison Moorer in the late 90s recorded a good, largely overlooked tribute song in Parsons’ memory, “Send Down An Angel.”
Corncaster
September 20, 2023 @ 4:21 pm
Gram’s biggest legacy was Emmylou’s self-confidence, and that was an immediate and lasting influence for which all country music can be grateful.
RichardP
September 20, 2023 @ 10:05 pm
In My Hour of Darkness – Gram Parsons
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KzuSeaMy-aU
EmmyLou Harris penned the one below, which implies a closer connection of the heart than probably existed. I’ve read that she had the chance to marry Gram and turned it down. To me, that sort of gives the lie to this song.
Boulder to Birmingham – a heart wrencher for anyone who has loved and lost:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_xX5XY49dSU
Erik North
September 21, 2023 @ 7:37 pm
What should be put on the record here is that, during Gram’s tour in early 1973, one stopover was in Houston, where he and Emmylou and company were performing in a hippie honky-tonk a stone’s throw away from the Sam Houston Coliseum, where Neil Young was headlining, and Linda Ronstadt was his opening act. Neil and Linda stopped by after their show; and it was there that Linda and Emmylou met (and, needless to say, sang) for the first time, forming a mutual admiration society that has lasted to this day.
Linda had known Gram since his short stint with the Byrds in 1968; and while she did admire his zeal when it came to country music, she was also a fair bit less impressed with the way he publicly comported himself, and, being the straight talker she was (and still is), she let him know it. All the same, he invited Linda to add a harmony vocal alongside Emmylou’s for the final track on his final album GRIEVOUS ANGEL, “In My Hour Of Darkness”. A few weeks after that, of course, Gram fatally OD’d at Joshua Tree; but not long after that, Linda invited a very despondent Emmylou back out to L.A. to sing with her at her shows at the newly-opened Roxy on Sunset Boulevard in West Hollywood.
And the rest, as they say, is American music history.