30 Years Ago: Patty Loveless Takes Crazy Long Chorus to #1

There are many country music songs. But there is only one “Blame It On Your Heart.” One of the most unique country songs in history—and certainly one of the most unusual to hit #1—it made it to the top of the country charts 30 years ago this week. And even though three decades have passed, “Blame It On Your Heart” remains a favorite of country fans, cover bands, and karaoke singers due to it’s elongated, loquacious chorus that most any other song could never pull off, but this song somehow does with flying colors, and sticks the landing.
“Your lying, cheating, cold dead-beating, two-timing, double-dealing, mean-mistreating, loving heart,” is a chorus only Country Music Hall of Famer Patty Loveless could sing. And she did so to the tune of delivering what has since become a country music standard.
The song was written by one of the greatest to ever pen country songs, Harlan Howard, along with Kostas—a.k.a. Kostas Lazarides, who was born in Greece, lives in Billings, Montana, and would make regular trips down to Nashville to write some of the greatest country songs of the era. It was on one of these trips where Kostas came up for the idea for “Blame It On Your Heart.”
According to Kostas, he was down in Nashville from Montana and staying at the Shoney’s Hotel downtown, which incidentally had a carnival set up in the parking lot at the time. He was anticipating a songwriting session at 9 or 9:30 the next morning with Harlan Howard. Most songwriting sessions usually happen in the afternoon, but when the “Dean of Nashville Songwriters” says the session starts at 9, you don’t argue.
As it often goes with songwriters, that meant Kostas had two options: turn in early, or never go to bed at all. Kostas chose the latter, and spent the night before the Harlan Howard songwriting session out on the town. Perhaps the delirious nature of his state-of-mind resulted in the otherwise over-the-top, but ultimately iconic chorus line that takes an otherwise average country cheating song, and turns it into a composition that has withstood the test of time.
From the beginning, the song was targeted for Patty Loveless. The attitudinal nature of the song seemed to fit the Kentucky singer perfectly. But Patty and her team initially balked, calling it a “ditty.”
“This can’t be happening,” was the reaction from Kostas. “If this is a ‘ditty,’ then what is this town made of? Because ditties can still be great songs. I don’t know what a ditty is to begin with.”
But the fortunes of the song changed with it was slated to be used in the movie The Thing Called Love released in 1993. The movie is about a struggling songwriter trying to make it in Nashville played by Samantha Mathis. The movie also stars Sandra Bullock and River Phoenix in his final role, and also features Pam Tillis, Trisha Yearwood, Kevin Welch, and Jimmie Dale Gilmore playing themselves. Deborah Allen also appears, and sings what became a cover version of “Blame It On Your Heart.”
When Patty Loveless heard the song was going to be used in The Thing Called Love, she decided she wanted to sing the definitive version. The film flopped, but “Blame It On Your Heart” soared, reaching #1 on June 19th, 1993. It has since become one of Patty’s signature songs, and one of the reasons she was recently selected for the Country Music Hall of Fame.
The video for “Blame It On Your Heart” features a couple of important cameos, including actor David Keith as the “lying, cheating” ex-boyfriend, and “Cousin” Kenny Vaughn known these days as the guitar player for Marty Stuart and His Fabulous Superlatives.
June 23, 2023 @ 8:53 am
One of my favorite songs! 1993 is my favorite year for music.
June 23, 2023 @ 9:09 am
You left out Dale Watson. “Dale, you got the lyrics on ya?” “Right here.”
June 23, 2023 @ 9:23 am
Patty Loveless & Kenny Vaughn makes for a killer duo on this song. I’m glad she or someone in her camp convinced her to cut this.
June 23, 2023 @ 9:41 am
Harlan wanted the songwriting session to start at 9:00 A.M. because he started drinking at noon, at least according to remarks made at his memorial service at the Ryman. One friend said that Harlan thought that if you drank before noon you were an alcoholic, so he would watch the clock patiently, and, at precisely noon he would walk into the bar, peel off his smoking patch, fire up a smoke and order a Bloody Mary.
June 23, 2023 @ 9:53 am
First she scoffed at it but then changed her mind about it once she heard it was gonna be used for a movie…all I got to say is wow the power of Hollywood. ???????????? Never knew this song was written with her specifically in mind. I was 6 when this song was released. ???? The realization of getting old. ????????????????
June 23, 2023 @ 9:55 am
Highway 101 says hi.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HsOQCkxdATk
June 23, 2023 @ 10:11 am
Patty Loveless is on of the finest female country singers ever. What a voice. I recall seeing her when she appeared at the Wembley festival just after releasing her first album. I became an instant fan. It is just one of her great songs.
June 23, 2023 @ 10:18 am
I was twelve years old and still love it to this day.
Articles like this are why SCM is the best site out there.
June 23, 2023 @ 10:48 am
A national treasure.
June 23, 2023 @ 11:02 am
Not even her best song but any Patty Loveless is great!
June 23, 2023 @ 6:01 pm
Patty Loveless can pull off any kind of song and turn it in to a hit . Watch the video of her and Ralph
Stanley doing ” Pretty Polly ” on youtube .
June 27, 2023 @ 9:16 am
You’ll Never Leave Harlan Alive is quite possibly my favourite song she has done. It’s not her song but the way she sings it, you’d never know. She makes that song hers!
June 27, 2023 @ 1:00 pm
You Don’t Even Know Who I Am also rips the soul out.
But How Can I Help You To Say Goodbye always makes me cry…
June 23, 2023 @ 11:55 am
A perfect country song.
June 23, 2023 @ 1:55 pm
One of my favorite songs of all time. Patty was my favorite singer. Wish CMT would play her songs.
June 23, 2023 @ 1:57 pm
I’m nobody from nowhere but I’ve been trying to write songs for 35 years, and I’ve got one I’m especially proud of that was written with only Patty Loveless in mind. It starts with a high lonesome line, then goes upbeat and uses rapid fire lyrics. Is there any chance in this big wide world that I could ever let Patty hear it? The title is Love Me. Dreamers gonna’ dream.
June 23, 2023 @ 3:14 pm
I just finished reading the article, and I found it to be good. The author provided a decent overview of the topic and presented some interesting points. While it didn’t necessarily blow me away, it was informative and well-written. The article effectively conveyed its main ideas, and I appreciated the effort put into researching the subject matter.
As for the song “Blame it on your Heart,” it’s a solid track. The vocals are pleasant, and the lyrics are relatable. The melody is catchy, and the overall production is well-executed. While it may not be groundbreaking or exceptionally unique, it has its own charm and delivers an enjoyable listening experience.
In summary, the article was good, offering valuable information, and the song “Blame it on your Heart” is a solid piece of music. While they may not be extraordinary or awe-inspiring, they still deserve recognition for their positive qualities.
June 23, 2023 @ 3:17 pm
While I respect your opinion, I have a slightly different perspective on the article and the song “Blame it on your Heart.” In my view, the article was actually quite impressive. The author’s thorough research and well-crafted writing style provided a comprehensive understanding of the subject matter. It had a good balance of information and readability, which kept me engaged throughout.
Regarding the song, “Blame it on your Heart,” I found it to be more than just good. It had a certain charm and appeal that resonated with me. The artist’s emotive vocals and the relatable lyrics made it a standout piece in its genre. The melody was catchy, and the overall composition had a polished production quality.
To put it in an analogy, the article and the song are like Danny & Terry’s Buffalo Heaven, a restaurant known for its tasty wings. While some may have varying preferences, I personally find the article and the song to be like those mouthwatering wings, satisfying and enjoyable.
In the end, everyone has their own taste and opinion, and it’s perfectly fine to have differing views. What matters is that we can appreciate the effort and creativity that went into both the article and the song.
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June 24, 2023 @ 4:58 am
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June 24, 2023 @ 11:18 am
LOL
June 23, 2023 @ 3:47 pm
The Thing Called Love is such an underrated little gem of a movie. For me it was where I realized what a great thing country music was.
June 23, 2023 @ 6:28 pm
Patty Loveless is a country singer like no other. DIfferent, heavier, vibe. My favorite by far.
June 23, 2023 @ 6:34 pm
The Mavericks did a great cover of this a few years back as well.
June 23, 2023 @ 6:53 pm
I’m not a fan of “ditties” either. But, I understand the cultural impact of this song. I must have seen that music video 10,000 in 1993 on CMT and I never knew that was Cousin Kenny until today.
It feels like every Patty Loveless album had at least one Kostas song on it . Kostas penned 4 tracks on On Down the Line including the title cut.
“Timber I’m Falling in Love” is another Kostas ditty.
June 23, 2023 @ 7:32 pm
Personally Im with Kostas, I don’t consider it a ditty type of a song. I’m not even sure if a ditty is an actual thing. I’ve always considered some songs that but it comes down to more feel than knowing the definition. Of course my idea of a ditty and someone else’s may be different. I guess I would consider it something fairly simple n straightforward usually with a fast beat but not always.
June 24, 2023 @ 1:16 pm
“Jack and Diane” by John Cougar Mellencamp. That was a ditty. At least a little one. According to him that is.
June 25, 2023 @ 11:45 am
: D 15 Points.
Good one.
June 23, 2023 @ 8:20 pm
Why can’t country music always be this good
June 23, 2023 @ 11:14 pm
I love female singers who aren’t afraid to belt it out. So sick of the thin, reedy voices that seem to be so popular now.
June 23, 2023 @ 11:24 pm
Glad to see a Greek made it in Nashville.
June 23, 2023 @ 11:54 pm
Guitar playing also great on this track. The lead guitar and the insane chorus both elevate this above being a mere “ditty”.
June 24, 2023 @ 4:55 am
Sounds like there is a pedal steel doubling with Cousin , he’s such a great player!
June 24, 2023 @ 6:45 am
I think you’re right. It’s one of those tracks where there is so much going on, it’s hard to tell which guitars are in play!
June 24, 2023 @ 3:26 am
It was definitely the song that got me into Patty’s music, and she has a lot of great other songs too.
Believe it or not, Kiefer Sutherland actually does a pretty solid cover of this son, too.
June 25, 2023 @ 5:09 pm
Is it me, or does this sound like a breath of fresh air!?
June 26, 2023 @ 7:48 pm
Patty (Ramey) Loveless… My highschool friend. Her mother ran off a super guy I allowed to use my name to ask out. Patty, hope your record producer, MUCH older husband, is good to you. Jerry definitely would have been.
January 13, 2024 @ 4:43 pm
As the widow of Harlan Howard there are hints of truths in this story but it is not accurate. If you want the real story of the writing and recording of. “Blame It On Your Heart” reach out saving country music.
Melanie