Album Review – Billy Strings – “Me / And / Dad”

The moment that Billy Strings is enjoying right now is one of those that future generations will look back upon with envy at those who got to witness it in real time. Like country fans who wax nostalgic for the 70s Outlaw era with Willie and Waylon ruling the roost, or the time when grunge kicked hair metal to the curb, with Billy Strings bridging the world of jam bands and bluegrass, he’s distinguished himself as a generational talent, and something we never thought we would see in this world or any other: a bluegrass superstar.
But with the way Billy Strings likes to expand the boundaries of bluegrass when he performs live—reaching into the realm of improvisation or mashing some effects pedal and bounding into the world of rock—a sense of inevitability has hung over his career, with fans anticipating the moment that Billy abandons his bluegrass roots altogether for the unrestricted realm of some sort of genre-less, avant garde experimentalism. After all, how could any genre contain a creative force such as Billy Strings?
If there was an ideal time for Billy Strings to hop off the bluegrass train, it would be right now. He’s at the height of his powers, and the peak of his commercial applicability, selling out arenas now and setting the music world on fire well beyond the humble environs of roots music. So what does he do to codify his dominance of the live music space? He goes off and records the most straightforward album of bluegrass and country standards as possible, and invites his father who instilled him with the love of bluegrass into the studio as his collaborator. I’m not sure this crooked ol’ world deserves this young man.
These days when an artist wants to make an album for themselves, it’s usually some off-brand genre-bending self-indulgent ear screw, almost purposely composed to insult their core fan base under the misconception this somehow codifies their artistic integrity. For Billy Strings though, his passion project involves doubling down on what got him here, and delivering that straightforward album of bluegrass standards many fans have wanted from him for a while.
The goal of Me / And / Dad is quite simple: to capture the songs Billy’s dad Terry Barber taught him as a kid, and that they played together for years. It’s for posterity, and a bucket list item Billy wanted to scratch off before it was too late. Whether you or I enjoy it, whether we would have selected a different set of songs, or done something entirely different for Billy’s latest album is immaterial. This is one of those albums where the results mean more than whatever entertainment value you or I will glean from it.

To make the album as authentic to bluegrass as possible, Billy passed on using his live band, even if they could have handled the task just fine, and brought in a set of traditional bluegrass ringers, namely fiddle god Michael Cleveland, dobro maestro Jerry Douglas, fiddler Jason Carter, mandolinist Ron McCoury, banjo player Rob McCoury (basically, the Travelin’ McCourys), and bassist Mike Bub. As you can imagine, there are no wrong notes on this record whatsoever.
Sure, Billy’s dad Terry is not some spectacular singer. This is somewhat evident on the second song “Life To Go,” which is a George Jones song done bluegrass style. Nobody will ever match or surpass the singing of George Jones though. That’s not the point. When Barber and Billy harmonize though, a beautiful sound ensues that can’t be matched either. Bound by blood, these are the kind of harmonies you can’t perfect even with professional, pitch perfect singers. When father and son sing “Way Downtown” and “Little White Church,” it’s absolutely divine.
One of the only flaws on the album is that harmony singing was left off of their version of “Dig A Little Deeper (In The Well).” But one of the cool things about this album for country fans is that some of these songs are country songs done in a bluegrass style. “Dig a Little Deeper” was made famous by the Oak Ridge Boys. The aforementioned “Life To Go” was a George Jones hit. “John Deere Tractor” was done by The Judds.
And the words of songs like “John Deere Tractor” and “Wandering Boy” mean a little something more when presented on an album like this. So does “I Heard My Mother Weeping” where Billy’s mom Debra Barber also appears. It truly is a family affair. But with the playing of Billy and all the other players he assembled for the album, the album still remains a world-class offering of bluegrass.
When the legacy is written for Billy String, Me / And / Dad won’t be counted as one of Billy’s landmark releases that rewrote the rules on bluegrass. After all, it’s an album of standards, some of which have a dozen or more renditions out there. But the album will nonetheless be regarded as one of the most important albums of the Billy Strings career because beyond the music, it underscored and illustrated the character and passion he brought to preserving bluegrass and putting family and people first, even when he was at his zenith of popularity.
8/10
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November 21, 2022 @ 9:26 am
Been loving this album the last couple of days. The fact that Billy’s dad Terry isn’t a great singer just makes it that more real and genuine. You actually hear where Billy’s voice comes from. Just a beautiful record, kind of tears at the heartstrings.
November 21, 2022 @ 10:02 am
I’m not a big fan of Billy’s jam band type stuff, it’s just not my style as I love lyrics and vocals. But the first time I heard Dust in a Baggie I was blown away. This album is just what I needed. It is such and authentic album and every song is great and what a great person Billy is doing this with his dad.
November 21, 2022 @ 7:18 pm
I first heard that video on YouTube when I was watching a Zac Bryan video to see if I liked him, dust in a baggie was next on the feed. Being drunk at the time and because the video quality was terrible on both, I thought for a night that Zac Bryan played that song and I was turned into a fan. A little sobriety and googling later and I figured it out. Can’t wait to hear this album!
November 21, 2022 @ 10:07 am
Saw him four times this week! I’m totally on the bus.
November 21, 2022 @ 10:45 am
We don’t deserve Billy Strings.
November 21, 2022 @ 11:49 am
Saw Billy for the 5 time last week. I will definitely see him again.
This album is a sweet project with some of the best musicians in the world. Kid is alright.
Sometimes with people talking, they get carried away with talking about his experimentation and the different directions he goes. He plays a helluva lot of straight bluegrass at his shows too. And it seems like he is even playing more lately.
November 21, 2022 @ 3:35 pm
I agree with you Stringbuzz. I feel like folks want to pull Billy Strings away from bluegrass for various reasons, whether it’s his bouts of experimentation, or the people they see at his concerts. But I’m unafraid to call him bluegrass and bluegrass first. If you watch a band like the Travelin’ McCourys, Billy Strings is engaging in just as much “jamming” as they are. He should be considered a bluegrass artist, and this album underscores this. I’m sure at some point he will veer more off the page. But what I continue to see from him is signifyers that bluegrass is where his heart is.
November 22, 2022 @ 6:28 pm
am going to see him for first time in london in 3 weeks, can’t wait, can’t remember the last time i was this excited for a gig
November 22, 2022 @ 8:04 pm
No matter how high your expectations, it will exceed them.
November 21, 2022 @ 1:34 pm
I love that Billy String put this album together. I also think that when Terry and Billy harmonize, it’s a much better effect than Terry alone, although I think Terry’s still a good singer. If you watch the behind the scenes thing that Billy’s channel put on youtube, Billy gushes about Terry’s singing ability. I guess I’ll also be the guy that points out the harmonization isn’t bound by blood as Trig noted, as Terry’s not Billy’s biological father. But they’ve been doing their thing together Billy’s entire life, so it’s as close as you can get.
November 21, 2022 @ 5:11 pm
The one thing I appreciate is Terry is not Billy’s father – he is his stepfather – but you know by the title of the record that he took the role of father seriously – their story is an up and down of drug addiction but they made it through and we would not have the talent that is Billy without the guidance of Terry – I have never once seen a Billy Strings performance that was not amazing – but it would not have happened without his step-dad – great story.
November 21, 2022 @ 9:52 pm
Hi, loved this album. The promo video for it is worth watching too for the reverence that Billy shows for the music and his family. I also do like Terry’s voice- it’s like a rougher, amateur Roy Acuff in places.
Minor correction though: John Deere Tractor was famous in the bluegrass world from the Larry Sparks version, which I’m pretty sure predated the Judds recording it. Billy talks about the Larry Sparks influence on the “making of” video for the album:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cak46GUOgE
Larry Sparks is, in my opinion, the first-generation king of bluegrass guitar and undoubtedly an influence on Billy, you can hear it if you listen carefully.
November 21, 2022 @ 11:05 pm
Didn’t mean to dismiss the Larry Sparks version of “John Deere Tractor.” I was more trying to illustrate that there are a few songs that folks who come to bluegrass from the country world might recognize, like “John Deere Tractor” through The Judds. “Dig a Little Deeper in the Well” has also been done in the bluegrass world, but the Oak Ridge Boys probably did the definitive version. I think this small country element to this album makes it that much more cool and accessible.
November 22, 2022 @ 8:05 am
Ah, thanks both for the reply, I had no idea that John DeereTractor was a big song in the country world b/c of Judds, appreciate the history lesson.
November 22, 2022 @ 8:22 am
I’ve been tracing it back into your wheelhouse since the track list to “Me and Dad” was released. I stumbled onto a few Sparks’ versions including one recorded with Alison Krauss in 2005 I very much it.
November 22, 2022 @ 3:55 am
Sparks earliest recording of “John Deere Tractor” was 1980. But, don’t dismiss the importance of “JDT” to The Judds. They released a version of it 3x and it was a staple in their set lists. The Judds first recorded it for their debut EP in 1984. It was a bonus track on the UK version of Heartland (1987) and the Judds re-recored it for their final studio album Love Can Build a Bridge (1990). It’s a very important song to The Judds and they introduced it (multiple times) to an international audience.
November 22, 2022 @ 7:03 pm
Hi Hoptown, and Trigger, I just listened to the Judd’s version of JTD, and I’m amazed they left off the last verse (“and she laughed, and called me country boy”). That’s the most important verse! WIthout it, it’s about not fitting in to city life- OK, fine, that’s a good topic for a song- but with that final verse, the song is about being humiliated because of one’s background, especially with the hint that the city girl (or boy) set the whole thing up as a cruel joke.
I realize I’m being Pedantic Internet Guy, but hey, if we can’t discuss country music lyrics here . . . .
November 22, 2022 @ 2:24 am
love this album, love the idea behind it and love Billy’s genius!
Curious that another great version of “dig a little deeper” just came out on the Dailey and Vincent’s new album.
So Strings is not his real surname? is it a stage name? if so it perfectly fits!
November 22, 2022 @ 8:04 am
Yes, Billy Strings is a stage name/nickname given to him by an aunt when he was a kid, because he could play anything with strings.
November 22, 2022 @ 5:51 am
Love it. Best artist going across all genres for me currently. Not a fan of arenas, but the best show I’ve seen in years. Also the most humble thankful artist I’ve see in years. Kid can’t get much better.
November 22, 2022 @ 11:41 am
Long Journey Home – LOVE IT.
November 23, 2022 @ 4:39 am
“it’s usually some off-brand genre-bending self-indulgent ear screw” Zac Brown’s face is getting red after reading this.
November 23, 2022 @ 7:31 am
This is the first time I’ve read comments on a Saving Country Music article. I love the warmth of this album. It reminds me of my experience when I first came to love Bluegrass through Flatt and Scruggs albums. I just want to thank all of the commenters for being so respectful and generous to each other. You seem more interested in sharing your love of music than in proving how much you know. I very seldom see this in the online comments sections of other publications. Many thanks!
November 26, 2022 @ 1:30 pm
Reading the comments is not always such a joy!
April 28, 2024 @ 8:32 am
Speaking of great fathers – flawed but graciously doing all they can for their kids – hey Daddy! Great to see you on here. Just saw Billy again last night in KY and wanted to marinate in this memory and dive deeper in my learning of country/bluegrass this morning. I agree with all you said, Dad. The folks on here love the music and that is evident in the commentary. Thanks for all you’ve done to instill a love for this music in us. Roll us up and smoke us when we die!
November 24, 2022 @ 3:58 pm
He is a surprisingly good writer, to boot.
November 25, 2022 @ 1:29 pm
I must have heard it wrong. It’s not about the Pakistan cricketer Javed Miandad, then?
November 27, 2022 @ 1:35 pm
LOLOL. You win the internet, or at least our little corner of it.
November 26, 2022 @ 6:59 am
I’m blown away by this kid. Keeping it COUNTRY is not that kool anymore. The CRAP that is forced on us is an INSULT TO
THE REAL COUNTRY FANS!’!! Thanks BILLY AND DAD
July 3, 2024 @ 12:37 pm
I first saw Billy play with Tommy Emanuel. it blew my mind! For those who think he has forgotten bluegrass in his concerts, watch his encores….bluegrass to the core!Alex