Joey Feek of the Country Duo Joey + Rory Has Died
Joey Feek’s long, courageous, heartbreaking, and inspiring battle with abdominal Cancer has ended. The singer, and one half of the Grammy-nominated husband-and-wife singing duo Joey + Rory passed away Friday, March 4th at 2:30 p.m. at her home according to her husband Rory Feek, surrounded by family. She was 40-years-old.
My precious bride breathed her last. And a moment later took her first breath on the other side.
Joey Feek was first diagnosed with cervical Cancer in June of 2014, shortly after the birth of the couple’s daughter, Indiana, who was born with Down Syndrome. Feek underwent surgery and numerous treatments, but the Cancer continued to return. But Joey and Rory’s faith never wavered, despite their story unfolding like a tragedy whose every next turn became more unbelievable and tragic. Then on October 23rd, 2015 after a terminal diagnosis from doctor’s, Joey + Rory decided to cease treatment.
“So we did what you do when the medicine isn’t working, and the doctors are at a loss”¦and when the ‘statistics” say you can do more chemo, but it will only buy you a little time”¦We came home. Not to die. But to live,” Rory Lee Feek said in a blog post.
Throughout Joey + Rory’s struggle and well into Joey’s hospice treatment, Rory kept fans, friends, and family informed in poignant and touching letters on his This Life I Live page, sharing pictures, memories, and moments in Joey’s final days, including many instances of life and hope. On January 9th, Rory informed readers that things had taken a turn for the worse.
“And now, here I sit beside my dying wife,” Rory said, “I don’t say those words lightly. As a matter-of-fact, I haven’t said them at all. But my beautiful bride has said them to me in these couple of days. Her pain and discomfort has continued to increase daily and so has the morphine to help her be comfortable. The dosage she’s needed to keep the pain away has quadrupled in the last four days. I’d like to tell you that she’s doing great and is going to beat this thing. But I can’t. Yesterday with tears in her eyes and mine, Joey held my hand and told me that she has been having serious talks with Jesus. She said she told him that if He’s ready to take her”¦ she’s ready to come home.”
But Joey Feek defied the odds and made it until the Grammy Awards on February 15th, and her daughter’s birthday, also in February. The duo had been surprised by a Grammy nomination for Best Country Duo / Group Performance for the song “If I Needed You.”
Then on February 29th, Rory informed the public Joey had reached the final stages of life.
Joey has done all she set out to do”¦ even right to the very end, and by sheer will-power (and God’s grace), she was still here to to see our baby’s 2nd birthday. Over the last number of weeks her pain had gotten worse and her health had continued to decline rapidly. And not long after Indy’s birthday my wife decided that ‘enough is enough’. She was ready to stop fighting and she told me so. She said the flowers would soon be blooming back in Tennessee. It’s time to go home.
Joey Martin was born on on September 7, 1975 in Alexandria, Indiana. Her first public performance was when she was 8-years-old and sang Dolly Parton’s “Coat of Many Colors” at a first-grade talent show. In 1988, Joey moved to Nashville to pursue a career in country music, first working at a veterinary clinic for horses, and eventually signing to Sony Records in 2000. She recorded an album for Sony, however a business dispute resulted in the record being shelved, and Joey’s career was put on hold. Joey married songwriter and performer Rory Lee Feek in 2002, and first worked with Rory professionally to release a solo album called Strong Enough to Cry on Rory’s independently-owned Giantslayer Records. They soon began performing as a duet, and competed as part of CMT’s Can You Duet competition in 2008, placing third.
The CMT opportunity landed the couple a deal with Sugar Hill Records, who released their first album The Life of a Song in October of 2008. Their lead single, “Cheater, Cheater,” became a Top 30 hit and put the duo on the map. Another song, “When I’m Gone” from 2012, was their highest-charting single, coming in at #21. The song, along with the music of Joey + Rory has enjoyed a resurgence of interest during Joey’s very public Cancer battle.
In total, Joey + Rory released eight studio albums, won Top New Vocal Duo of the Year at the ACM Awards in 2010, and were also nominated for Top Vocal Duo three times by the ACM’s, and twice by the CMA’s.
Joey + Rory were also favorites among more traditional country fans and country fans of faith. They also had their own television show on RFD-TV, The Joey + Rory Show. Their music and story has inspired many, and Joey’s Cancer battle became a story of national interest well beyond the country music world.
Joey Marin Feek is survived by her husband Rory, daughter Indiana, two stepdaughters Hopie and Heidi Feek, and four siblings—Jody, Julie, Justin and Jessie.
63guild
March 4, 2016 @ 4:45 pm
Great remembrance writing Trig and may Joey now find peace. Thoughts to their family
Gena R.
March 4, 2016 @ 4:59 pm
RIP Joey. 🙁 Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends…
Tezca
March 4, 2016 @ 5:17 pm
http://thislifeilive.com <—-I thought the second paragraph of the newest post implies Justin already dead unfortunately.
Also I know I said I named a Pokemon in Joey's honor in Pokemon Reborn but my game data got wiped when I got a new laptop so I decided I'm gonna name Mew after her once I do the Mew Glitch in Pokemon Yellow with the VC on the 3DS. And I'm gonna use that Mew in my party.
Also this way I don't have to worry about any data being wiped upon getting a new laptop. Plus I can transfer it onto the next Pokemon games. Joey the Mew will be badass just like Joey was badass in her attitude in all of this tragic turn of events and her singing.
RIP Joey
Greg Green
March 4, 2016 @ 6:11 pm
Justin was killed in a car crash July 1994. Joey + Rory dedicated To Say Goodbye to him, released in July 2009.
I saw their TV show and I thought the song, See You There, released in 2006, was about his last day and crash:
“You”™d think after 10 years, it wouldn”™t make me cry
But it”™s almost like you must”™ve known, that night you said goodbye
That you were headed up to heaven, not to the county fair
When you closed the door and hollered See you there
See you there, see you there
See you there, oh, I”™ll see you there.”
So now she gets to see him there.
Patricia Clegg
March 4, 2016 @ 7:34 pm
God bless you rory and your whole family and Joey’s family. My prayers and thoughts are with you’ll. She passed away on my grandson Colton Lee birthday. We lost him when he was 3 yrs old. He turned 3 in March and died in August on the 6 2014. Colton Lee will welcome Joey to the pearly gates. God bless you and I am so sorry for your loss. God bless sweet angel girl Indiana.
Grady Shades
March 4, 2016 @ 5:21 pm
Glad her battle is over thoughts are with the family. Well said Trig.
Wes
March 4, 2016 @ 5:36 pm
That video with her and Dolly on the latest post … No words. Glad she’s at peace.
Smokey J.
March 4, 2016 @ 5:48 pm
Knowing that it is coming never seems to soften the blow.
Rorys blog appears to be down, probably too much traffic.
Peace and light to him and the rest of her loved ones.
Chris
March 4, 2016 @ 6:36 pm
Rest in peace Joey, forever in the arms of God.
RedDirtCyclone
March 4, 2016 @ 6:43 pm
As Stuart Scott said, “When you die, it does not mean you lose to cancer. You beat cancer by how you live, why you live and in the manner in which you live.”
Joey beat cancer. Her and Rory beat cancer by living how she wanted to.
Thank you Joey for the great music. Thank you for touching my life through the gift of song.
Shadow Z
March 4, 2016 @ 6:50 pm
Great piece Trigger.
R.I.P Joey Feek. Thank you for reminding us what strength really is.
Razor X
March 4, 2016 @ 6:58 pm
I’m glad she is now in a better place, beyond the pain. Thanks for the music, Joey, and the inspiration. Rest in peace in paradise.
JC Eldredge
March 4, 2016 @ 7:02 pm
I’m glad she is finally at peace, but my heart hurts so bad for their little baby girl.
judd
March 4, 2016 @ 7:04 pm
What a loss. One of the great duos in country music. Lost my mom to cancer when I was 15. Been 11 years ago now.
Prayers to Rory and all of country music for the loss.
Orgirl1
March 4, 2016 @ 7:41 pm
So sad. Rest in peace Joey. You were a light and a beautiful spirit. We’ll see you when we get there. You will be remembered.
PETE MARSHALL
March 4, 2016 @ 7:42 pm
R.I.P. Joey Feek now you are with the angels now.
Doug
March 4, 2016 @ 7:52 pm
It was coming like a freight train. The day no one wanted to come. At last she is free of pain. “Wish I could see the angles faces, when they hear your sweet voice sing” R.I.P. J.F.
Bill
March 4, 2016 @ 8:57 pm
God bless them.
Erik North
March 4, 2016 @ 9:02 pm
She fought as good a fight as I think anyone could have, given the cancer that she was up against. I believe she can’t be in anything other than a better place, and at peace.
Camie Jo
March 4, 2016 @ 9:08 pm
That was sweet, Doug. I’m sad. 🙁
I imagine the site probably crashed with all the traffic. I’m sure there are many who wish she was still with us rather than gone. I don’t find it a relief that it’s finally over. We weren’t there to help out. Do the dishes, fix some meals. All I can think about is her baby.
Christina
March 4, 2016 @ 9:16 pm
It saddens me to hear of another person losing their fight to cancer. Joey you are truly an inspiration to many of us. May you rest in peace sweet lady. God gained another angel today. God Bless you Rory and your family.
ElectricOutcast
March 4, 2016 @ 9:19 pm
Mother’s Last Day by Ruth Morris
I held her hand as she silently whispered her goodbye
A last breath as I watched her die
Her skin swollen-battered and bruised
By all the things that they felt they needed to use
I stroked her hair and wiped her eyes
Wanting so much for them to open and see
That I was alone there in the world
Alone with the agony growing inside of me
I watched those around me shed their tears
And utter their words of sorrow
How could they know that I was dying inside?
I couldn’t and you wouldn’t – face tomorrow
One last time I kissed your face
And held your hand to touch my cheek
I wanted to carry you away from there
My fragile mother who was just too weak
I heard the people all around me
The silence of the machines now so loud
And I walked away – my heart now broken
And tried to face the waiting crowd
Summer Jam
March 4, 2016 @ 9:40 pm
Only good people die this young. Rest in peace.
Eric
March 4, 2016 @ 11:42 pm
I knew that this news was going to come anytime, but even so I can’t help but feel a deep hollowness tonight.
May she rest in eternal peace, may Rory and the rest of the family find some comfort amidst these dark days, and may this tragedy serve to inspire a final cure for cancer as fast as possible.
Doug
March 5, 2016 @ 2:16 am
You’re welcome Camie Jo! You too Joey! I only hope I can be 1% of the husband Rory is one day! Rory you are a Cowboy! God Bless you and baby Indiana!
marc
March 5, 2016 @ 2:55 am
Tonight my heart breaks. In her songs I found the strength to carry on….God bless and God speed Joey Feek. P..S. the stranger who reaches out to you, well that’s my mom.
AC_86
March 5, 2016 @ 3:16 am
So heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. How many other people the world over are going through this same thing, it doesn’t bear thinking about. I pray everyday that a cure for cancer is found. It’s such a devastating disease.
RIP Joey
BwareDWare94
March 5, 2016 @ 8:34 am
I may have closed the bar I work at last night to Joey + Rory’s music. 40 is way too soon :(.
Razor X
March 5, 2016 @ 6:44 pm
I don’t think I’ve been this affected by a celebrity’s death since Tammy Wynette died.
Acca Dacca
March 5, 2016 @ 10:43 pm
Walk free from pain.