Little Big Town’s “Better Man” (written by Taylor Swift)
Taylor Swift should be releasing a new record right now. She’s released a new record in either October or November every other year for the last decade. But 2016 will be where she breaks that cycle, likely from the sense that she’s overexposed, despite the lack of new music, and due to the recent attention-grabbing headlines from high-profile breakups with celebrity beaus, and of course the whole Kanye West/Kim Kardashian business. In fact in the notorious recorded phone call between Taylor and Kanye, Swift said then she was worried about overexposure—something she’s been prescient of throughout her career.
But like all songwriters, Taylor Swift remains burdened by the desire to say things and share them, so apparently she reached out to Little Big Town to record this new track. It’s a little bit of a strange scenario, but also seems to make sense in some regards. Frankly, Taylor Swift’s involvement in this song is the most interesting thing about it. Whether you have your nose deep in celebrity tabloids or couldn’t give a shit, you still can’t help but think this is Taylor Swift expressing her heartbroken frustration with one (or both) of her very recent loves with Little Big Town as the vessel. Why else would she be so exercised to get it out to the public now?
There had to be a lot of pressure on Little Big Town to get “Better Man” right—to really buy into the narrative being conveyed. And they do, especially Karen Fairchild who takes the lead on the song. It’s also smart how in the video for “Better Man” they allowed Fairchild to sing a chorus live into the camera, putting an extra bit of breathing emotion into the effort. Little Big Town really sells their performance of this song as more than just a random, unexpected Swift cut.
But the problem with “Better Man” is the problem with every Little Big Town song. They’ve gone from sort of this rootsy vocal group to wrangling away the title of today’s country mainstream dry adult contemporary perennial from Lady Antebellum. The production of this song couldn’t be more pallid, uninteresting, and non-country, which is a bit of a shame because the chorus actually works great for a country song, and so could the theme. But this track endured a whitewashing with electronic drums and such as opposed to putting any sort of signature sound stamp on it.
“Better Man” sounds like a Taylor Swift song in the way the chorus rises and it speaks to her seemingly ever-present man troubles. But on this track Swift appeared to be more willing to blame others, and only expresses vulnerability by admitting she misses this man she wish was better. What mistakes did Taylor Swift make in the relationship? See, these are the kinds of thoughts that run through your head when hearing it. You almost have to remind yourself Little Big Town is even involved.
Granted, the song does carry a good bit of emotion, and it’s likely to do well, especially with a nudge from Taylor Swift whose not going to allow anything she’s involved in to go overlooked. All of a sudden Little Big Town has become one of the biggest performers in contemporary country. They’ve won the CMA for Vocal Group of the Year the last four opportunities, and are beginning to put a Miranda-esque run together. But what do they do that’s signature? Compare this with the contributions of the Oak Ridge Boys or The Statler Brothers from country’s past who you would immediate recognize when they came on the radio.
“Better Man” is interesting for many reasons. Unfortunately, most of those reasons have little to do with the music itself. But this track is far from the worst transgressions on country radio, and it is refreshing to hear song that’s not all rosy targeted to the mainstream set. It will perform well as a cozy winter single tiding over Taylor Swift fans for another few months. “Mostly harmless,” is probably the most fair assessment of “Better Man,” I suppose.
November 7, 2016 @ 9:08 am
Wait. The Big Swift wrote a Pearl Jam cover? 🙂
December 15, 2016 @ 7:47 am
why did Taylor swift not write this song
November 7, 2016 @ 9:18 am
I rate this a solid “meh.”
November 7, 2016 @ 9:21 am
I love how you put “Written by Taylor Swift” in the title hahaha.
November 7, 2016 @ 9:48 am
Well on the bright side it looks like we will have another number one song written by one person instead of a committee. I have to admit that LBT is my guilty pleasure, you can’t deny their vocal abilities. Have seen them live and nobody out there can outsing them from a technical standpoint.
November 7, 2016 @ 10:32 am
I call them the Fleetwood Mac of pop country!
November 8, 2016 @ 7:01 am
Agree with ya, they are very good live.
November 7, 2016 @ 10:00 am
Can we trade Little Big Town and get Highway 101 back? They had so many good songs. Wishful thinking.
November 7, 2016 @ 2:03 pm
And also Baillie & The Boys. Does anyone remember them? They were kind of pop-country, but in a good way: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYaDf6BF_IM&list=PLNdELIiK-rA5pu5t_1V2gSM5zd6M9duO6&index=2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtYPzABoPaU&list=PLZF7Hqv-TQ_dgBuP29umnRKCjpakEQrIf&index=5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KflDmusTUQ&index=4&list=PLZF7Hqv-TQ_dgBuP29umnRKCjpakEQrIf
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MemOQRST2Jo&index=3&list=PLZF7Hqv-TQ_dgBuP29umnRKCjpakEQrIf
November 7, 2016 @ 10:11 am
Such losers.
November 7, 2016 @ 10:24 am
Trigger it’s Karen Fairchild not Kimberly. Your thinking of the blonde Kimberly Schlapman.
I love this song so relatable and what I love most is how all vocalists in LBT can sing and aren’t glorified backup singers. It’s a shame radio has basically forced them to release only Karen lead songs. I also love the piano usage in the song as usually when their is Piano in the song it’s really good for me (why I like “Make You Miss Me”). Also where is there electronic drums, seems like their is only Piano and guitar in the song. I mean yeah there is no fiddle or banjo, but their is plenty that makes this song country (imo).
November 7, 2016 @ 10:55 am
And now, the real “Better Man”
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uv_x4DWiS_s
November 7, 2016 @ 11:17 am
^ Amen, brother.
November 7, 2016 @ 11:42 am
All of Taylor Swift’s Ex’s got together and wrote a song called “Maybe It’s You.”
(stole that from some comedian)
November 7, 2016 @ 1:11 pm
It’s not terrible. Reminded me a little of Faith Hill’s umpteen pop hits.
November 7, 2016 @ 1:19 pm
“They’ve gone from sort of this rootsy vocal group to wrangling away the title of today’s country mainstream dry adult contemporary perennial from Lady Antebellum.”
Well put; I find the tune and performance similarly pretty but kinda bland. These are the same folks who gave us “Boondocks” and “Little White Church”? :\
November 7, 2016 @ 1:56 pm
Lyrically, it’s a little bland even by Taylor Swift standards. Usually she adds details that seem so specific to her life. But this is just “meh”. The song is fine and all. It certainly doesn’t cause any further embarrassment to country music… which is always a good thing.
I just wish that LBT mix it up a little. Give a lead single to Kimberly or something. Give that girl something to do. She is always underused.
November 7, 2016 @ 5:12 pm
One of the few times i’ll disagree with you. I think this song is amazing. I don’t like Taylor Swifts music at all, but she gets nothing but respect from me for writing this. I don’t know, maybe you have to be a woman to appreciate this.
November 7, 2016 @ 5:17 pm
This is just a boring song no matter who wrote it …self righteous and borderline ego-tistical lyrically with the same four chord musical progression 99 out of 100 pop and country songs have used in recent years , a generic arrangement overall including the mandatory hand-clap machine ( WTF are we clapping about ….the singer’s emotional pain ?). This must be the absolute most perfect available woman on the planet to be able to blame EVERYTHING on the guy .This is NOT an empowering lyric . If you need to really understand how wrong it is ,imagine a guy singing ” I wish you’d been a better woman ” . Listen to the whole lyric as though a guy were singing it . It would sound like some sort of bullying attempt or at the very least elicit a ” just get over her dude and move on …stop whining…you aren’t perfect y’know ” kinda reaction . Obviously being able to promote this thing with the Taylor Swift side-storyline attached will bolster initial interest . I’d suggest that if the song DIDN’T come with that ‘pedigree’ it would have been at the bottom of the demo pile on some publisher’s desk …..or show up on TS next record .Whatever
And no …not more country than Sam Hunt , unfortunately .
November 8, 2016 @ 9:15 am
I think the song is fine. Nothing special but there’s way worse stuff on country radio. And I wouldn’t go quite as far as your takedown of the lyrics, but I had pretty similar thoughts. Like it was CLOSE to being relatable, but just too self righteous as you said.
November 8, 2016 @ 12:15 pm
I didn’t think it sounded egotistical, but I’m picturing the guy being a real ass-hat, so maybe that’s why I’m more sympathetic to the singer.
November 7, 2016 @ 5:54 pm
While I did like this song on first listen, it’s starting to sour on me. This song doesn’t feel like something that is a true representation of Taylor’s above-average songwriting. At least it is better than This Is What You Came For, which is easily one of the most generic songs of the year.
November 7, 2016 @ 10:34 pm
I actually like this lyrically, and I have always liked Little Big Town somewhat, they remind me of a modern country Fleetwood Mac. But this production is just boring. Their early stuff was much better.
November 8, 2016 @ 8:46 am
Seen them compared to Fleetwood Mac here a couple of times and I think that is way underestimating Fleetwood Mac to compare one of the great bands of all time to a B list pop country act.
Fleetwood Mac’s four album stretch of ‘Fleetwood Mac’/’Rumours’/’Tusk’/’Mirage’ is very hard to beat. There hasn’t been many bands with better musical chemistry in my opinion and Lindsey Buckingham is one of the most underrated figures in rock history. And Christine McVie also.
So, I get it the surface comparison of male/female groups where some members are/were involved with each other but that is really where the comparison ends.
One is legendary, one is just there.
November 8, 2016 @ 1:50 am
She just won’t go away quietly.
November 8, 2016 @ 9:40 am
I think it is a fraud to put out a song, lie about the songwriter to see how it is received, and then say it was written by Taylor Swift. This the first song I have ever erased from my downloads. I don’t like to be lied to, and I think Taylor Swift is a child writing about childish things. Pity Little Big Town. I liked them alot but now I don’t trust them. It is all a marketing tool. And they have treated their fans like tools.
November 8, 2016 @ 1:39 pm
‘I think Taylor Swift is a child writing about childish things’.
Works for the ‘ children’ into her pop stuff . But country SHOULD be something much more . Or at the VERY least , country music should far better crafted and clever ( nuanced ). This song is just grade school stuff
November 8, 2016 @ 12:11 pm
I agree with your points Trigger, and will also add that the song is elevated from “meh” to “whoa, yes” as a woman who has been in relationships exactly like the song describes. Maybe an obvious point to make – that songs mean more to people who have had similar life experiences. I think this particular theme is very relatable to many women… that’s Taylor’s songwriting strength. I agree I wish this theme and chorus had been given a chance to be a truer country sounding song!
November 9, 2016 @ 9:12 am
Update: Lori mckenna’s halfway home does this story better.
November 8, 2016 @ 1:15 pm
From Bob Dylan’s I Shall Be Free:
Now, the man on the stand he wants my vote
He’s a-runnin’ for office on the ballot note
He’s out there preachin’ in front of the steeple
Tellin’ me he loves all kinds-a people
(He’s eatin’ bagels
He’s eatin’ pizza
He’s eatin’ chitlins
He’s eatin’ bullshit!)
November 8, 2016 @ 1:16 pm
Oops! Wrong Thread!
November 9, 2016 @ 4:24 pm
Here’s the thing- I love Little Big Town. I think they are four incredibly talented people and together they are magic. That being said, when I heard they were releasing a new song I told my daughter ” $30 says Karen sings lead” and sure enough. They are this close to being Karen Fairchild with Little Big Town. Phillip and Kimberly are criminally underutilized. And as soon as they said TS wrote it, I knew it would be number one on iTunes at the very least. All the Swifties made that happen. That’s how Taylor works.
November 10, 2016 @ 4:17 am
I actually thought this was pretty country for a mainstream song, both lyrically and sonically.
I really dig it.
November 11, 2016 @ 12:42 pm
I don’t think the lyrics are self-righteous at all. The way I hear it, it tells the story of emotional abuse. Which unfortunatly is something that I’m not unfamiliar with. “The bravest thing I ever did was run” says it all for me.
But I agree that it’s bland. And defiantly lacking personality.
December 24, 2016 @ 1:56 am
Twit needs to go away. Sociopathic woman. And Karen and this production sounds like theyre trying to be Shania Twain “From this Moment On ” or “You’re Still The One” or “Forever and For Always”
January 2, 2017 @ 8:57 pm
I’m not a fan of this song, and in my opinion it’s completely obvious that Taylor Swift wrote it. I used to really like LBT, they used to be my favorite band…but they’ve drifted further and further away from their roots and I just shrug and tend to switch the station now when I hear a song of theirs come on. For me, it’s incredibly distracting knowing that Taylor Swift wrote this song for them…because as the author of the article said, it sounds just like something she would sing for herself. Out of all of Taylor’s songs, the majority of them are all about broken relationships and blaming the boy for whatever it was that went wrong. The author in this article asks what it was that Taylor did for the relationship to go south, but those questions are never shared in any of her songs…she never admits to being at fault without putting more blame on the guy. I’m sad they recorded it, I’m sad they released it, I’m sad that they aren’t who they used to be…and in my opinion, they changed directions to become popular, to become mainstream. It’s sad.
July 28, 2018 @ 10:52 pm
In ‘Back To December’, she admits fault without blaming the guy at all. There are are multiple other songs which she takes partial blame, like in ‘All Too Well’ and ‘I Knew You Were Trouble’. She does put the blame on guys a lot, but you must consider, many songs come from how one feels for only a short period of time, some from even a single moment. Therefore, if you feel extremely hurt by a guy, when channeling that feeling, you’re less likely to think about the part you’ve played. Also, I disagree that this was obviously a Taylor Swift song. Maybe in hindsight you can pick out something if you really squinted. What ‘Better Man’ lacked which would have actually made it an obvious Taylor Swift song is the lack of lyrical minutiae. The most specific a line gets is the part it talks about standing in front of the mirror at 4 am. In retrospect, Taylor Swift does love a good time reference. However, her go-to is usually 2 am. Therefore, it doesn’t sound that much like a Taylor Swift song. In theory, since she is a female singer who sings about love, she could have sang it herself. However, by that logic, so many others could have as well. Since, your biggest evidence that it sounds like her is that it is a song about a relationship, I’d like to easily rebut this. Taylor Swift did not invent songs about relationships, exes, love, or the bashing of those who have scorned her. To say that the majority of music in general is not about love is some form is a ridiculous claim to make. Everyone writes about love and love lost. She just gets attacked for it.
January 2, 2017 @ 8:59 pm
*I posted a comment just a minute ago, but forgot to include this thought: why was it released that Taylor Swift wrote it? Have they ever shared any of the other songwriters publicly for their contributions like they did with Taylor?
January 2, 2017 @ 9:07 pm
The songwriters for most country songs are a matter of public record, and it’s even customary to discuss the songwriters since country is one of the industries where professional songwriters are used so prolifically (as opposed to rock where they are used sparingly). In this case, it was also probably used for marketing purposes, because even though Taylor Swift is known as a songwriter, she rarely writes songs for others.
January 5, 2017 @ 7:12 am
I love the song. I don’t see anything wrong with the lyrics. Yes, women make mistakes in relationships too. But that doesn’t mean that every song has to tell both sides of the story. The story is that the man was kind and sweet at first, but then his abusive side became apparent to the woman, and she chose to leave because of it. Having lived through that perhaps gives me a different perspective than other commenters. Certainly women are capable of being total jerks in relationships too; let a man write THAT song. This song is from the woman’s perspective. I think that because Taylor Swift wrote it, it is subject to a much higher level of criticism. This song/story touches a place in my heart, and I thank Taylor Swift for being brave enough to write it.
January 30, 2017 @ 11:27 am
”Certainly women are capable of being total jerks in relationships too; let a man write THAT song. ”
This was my point above. If this was a male singing this song , the ‘powers’ would be all over him . Its a double standard at work . A guy could never get away with singing…” I wish she hadn’t been a ( hooker , cheater , alcoholic , negligent mom , physically abusive , psychotic , a bully etc etc …your choice ) and had been a ” Better Woman “. THAT’S what makes this lyric so wrong , so one-sided and so self-righteous . And dumb .
And its a HUGE hit ! Go figure …..
June 7, 2017 @ 5:28 pm
If you listen to all the songs on their albums, they do a very Fleetwood Mac-esque thing and split up all the lead vocals. It is a shame most of the radio singles have Karen at the front. However I absolutely love Little Big Town (Fleetwood Mac is my favorite band) and they have a lot of great material. “Save Your Sin” from Pain Killer is a great Kimberly performance and so is “Beat Up Bible” from The Breaker. “We Went to the Beach” is a pretty good song led by Phillip.
Also just to note this to everyone, Little Big Town live in concert is absolutely unmatched. Lady Antebellum wishes they could sing live like Little Big Town does. You might not like Little Big Town but their live vocal harmonies are unmatched nowadays. Listen to their cover of “The Chain” it’s incredible. Their new album The Breaker is pretty great (with a few exceptions) but it honestly reminds me very much of Mirage
Speaking of Mirage, With the comparisons to Fleetwood Mac, It’s not just a shallow gender comparison, You could argue Tornado made Little Big Town explode just as Rumours made Fleetwood Mac explode.
January 29, 2018 @ 3:46 pm
You mean it sounds like a “Pearl Jam” song. Lyrics are way too similar. Meaning behind it is way too similar. Perhaps Taylor should rethink how relevant Pearl Jam really is before she rips off their music!! Just saying