Saving Country Music’s 2023 SONG of the Year Nominees

We’ve run down the Album of the Year Nominees, as well as the Single of the Year Nominees, and now it’s time to recognize the topmost candidates that tear at your very heart and soul when you hear them.
What’s the difference between a Single of the Year and a Song of the Year? A single of the year is a ditty that gets stuck in your head and won’t come out. Ideally, it would still be well-written, but it unlocks the joy of music first and foremost. A Song of the Year nominee needs to be something that can change a life, change someone’s perspective, or change the world we live in. Yes, this is all quite a tall order, but this is where a good song can take you.
In the case of Song of the Year nominees, the writing is paramount. It’s even more important than the genre or how “country” it is. It still needs to reside in the roots music canon, and be organic and authentic. But the song is what’s most important.
PLEASE NOTE: Just because a song isn’t listed here doesn’t mean it’s being snubbed or forgotten. Picking the best songs of a given year is always even more personal and subjective than with the best albums. We’re not looking to pit songs and songwriters against each other, we’re looking to combine our collective perspectives and opinions into a pool of musical knowledge for the benefit of everyone.
By all means, if you have a song or a list of songs you think are the best of 2023 and want to share, please do so in the comments section below. Feedback will factor into the final tabulations for the winner, but this is not an up and down vote. Try to convince us who you think should win, and why.
For a Spotify playlist of all the Single and Song of the Year nominees, CLICK HERE.
Joe Stamm Band – “Dollar General Sign”
Joe Stamm Band’s album Wild Man really hits home by exploring personalities that get stuck in life’s ruts like we all do from the adverse things that weigh us down. But instead of passing judgement, songs like “The Day Before” about a drunk at a bar, “Old Man” about an elderly man that life has passed by, and “Listen” about a self-destructive type take a deeply poetic approach to trying to explain why life gets the best of some of us.
These songs, along with the song “Wrong Side of Town” from an EP they released earlier in the year are all articulate and top-notch examples of songwriting. But Joe Stamm’s writing might reach its peak use of perspective with the stunning and entertaining “Dollar General Sign,” encapsulating small town American life in the way so many singers and songwriters attempt to do, but often fail at from falling for tropes instead of the true orientation of things. It’s true songwriting mastery. (writer: Joe Stamm)
Brent Cobb – “When Country Came Back To Town”
While living through the musical moments of our era, it can be hard to quantify them in real time. You really have to zoom out, look at the bigger picture, and realize just how far we have come in country music over the last decade or so to be thankful for where we are now.
The song “When Country Came Back To Town” perfectly encapsulates what we’ve experienced in independent country over the last many years. As opposed to criticizing where country music has been in the near past—which is such an easy and appealing thing to do—Brent Cobb uses the names of artists who’ve risen from obscurity over this time period to illuminate just how far we’ve come. (writer: Brent Cobb)
Pony Bradshaw – “Holler Rose”
There is a discipline of Southern heritage deeply interested in the art of language, and not just for the stories and truths it may help tell, but writing and talking just for the sake of it, and finding beauty and wisdom in the words themselves, and how they relate to the Southern American experience. We’re talking about the realm of William Faulkner and other masters that the modern world has so unfortunately moved on from for the frenetic priority of now.
North Georgia native Pony Bradshaw is uninterested and your priorities though. Instead, he’s allured by the idea of resurrecting this proud art form in the musical realm with snapshot stories full of Southern vernacular and worthy aphorisms. It is mostly Americana in sound, but most importantly, it’s strongly literary, aided in this pursuit by a compelling voice reminiscent in some respects to the elusive Willis Alan Ramsey. (writer: Pony Bradshaw)
Wyatt Flores – “Orange Bottles”
There’s nobody moving up the ranks in Red Dirt faster than Wyatt Flores at the moment, and it’s because of the incisive and self-aware writing emblematic of a song like “Orange Bottles,” which brings it all home with a propulsive melody. For some, the song may be a little too “inside baseball” about the manic life of an up-and-coming entertainer out on the road. But it also speaks to the indecisiveness chased with crippling worry that grips so many of us in modern times, especially young men and women who tend to find the most appeal in Wyatt.
If you see the appeal of artists such as Zach Bryan, Oliver Anthony and others, but just can’t get on board because it all feels too unfocused and unrefined, Wyatt Flores is where you should point your nose. He’s the next in line, and perhaps the best of them all. (writers: Wyatt Flores, David DeVaul)
Gabe Lee – “Merigold”
The genius of Gabe Lee’s songwriting is his refusal to work in the realm of clear specificity. He instead favors poetic ambiguity that can mold itself into the nooks and crannies of the listener’s brain, making them believe each line and verse was uniquely crafted just for them. It’s this deftness of writing that have some regarding his 2023 album Drink The River as the year’s best.
But it’s been said before about previous Gabe Lee songs like “Eveline” and “Emmylou” that when Gabe Lee names a song after a woman, hold on to your emotional faculties, because they’re about to be roiled. “Merigold” might be the main character, but the big ‘C’ becomes the center of attention. (writer: Gabe Lee)
Megan Moroney – “Girl in the Mirror”
It’s official, ladies and gentlemen. Country music has entered a new neotraditional age. Not dissimilar to when George Strait and Randy Travis showed up on the scene in the ’80s and swayed everything in the direction of more country-sounding tunes, we’re seeing large swaths of mainstream country re-adopt country sounds and country sentiments in popular music.
Megan Moroney is the latest mainstream country artist making it evidently clear that it’s a new era in popular country. Not only is the steel guitar and twang pronounced throughout her new debut Lucky, the album is blessed with some great songwriting too, evidenced by this excellent track. “Girl in the Mirror” shows a patience and vulnerability that in previous eras would never be allowed in the mainstream. In 2023, it’s a hit with 12 million streams on Spotify alone. (writers: Megan Moroney, Jessie Jo Dillon, Matt Jenkins)
The Wilder Blue – “The Line”
Though the Texas supergroup The Wilder Blue is sometimes compared to The Eagles with their sound, the song “The Line” gives you chill bumps through its recollections of another top-caliber harmony group: Crosby, Still, and Nash. But that’s burying the lede. Writer Zane Williams does what all great songwriters do, which is reflect the times in which they live, articulating truths we all hold to be self-evident, but seem to never be able to articulate as well as we wish.
For a Song of the Year nominee, the sound of “The Line” is rather cheery. But the subject matter might be the most serious and poignant of all of the nominees. The loving lullaby “Sometimes Forever” to close out the new Wilder Blue album Super Natural deserves honorable mention as well. (writer: Zane Williams)
The Steel Woods – “You Don’t Even Know Who I Am”
It has to be something special to break all rules and decorum for a Song of the Year candidate, and allow what’s ultimately a cover song to be considered, especially one that’s a previous hit, and wasn’t even written by the original artist that popularized it in the first place. Then again, if you hear The Steel Woods’ version of “You Don’t Even Know Who I Am” written by Gretchen Peters, and originally recorded by Country Music Hall of Famer Patty Loveless back in 1995, you know why it’s being inserted into this discussion.
The rule of thumb is that a Song of the Year candidate must have the capacity to change a life, and make us realize something about ourselves previously undiscovered. “You Don’t Even Know Who I Am” fits that definition perfectly, and the way Steel Woods frontman Wes Bayliss delivers it makes a previously-released song feel brand new. (writer: Gretchen Peters)
Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit – “King of Oklahoma”
“King of Oklahoma” is a perfect example of Jason Isbell’s character study and storytelling when he’s at the top of his game, and it’s a taste of vintage Isbell, if you will. The half time shift in the chorus drives home the emotion of this song, and the fiddle compliments the rootsy nature of the setting. “King of Oklahoma” is certainly in contention for the best song on Isbell’s new album Weathervanes, which in turn puts it in contention for being one of Isbell’s best songs ever.
“King of Oklahoma” feels like an era-defining anthem that speaks to the struggles of our era better than most.
Lori McKenna – “Happy Children”
Leaving it to mother of five Lori McKenna to release the song in 2023 that best encapsulates everything important in life, diffuse the anger and envy that feels so effusive and ever-present in this moment in time, and write a song about the most important things in life and what we all should aspire and dream for. Then on top of it, McKenna delivers a performance that makes you savor every single word of it, and lean in to listen intently.
You could take the track list from McKenna’s 2023 album 1998, throw a dart at it, and land on a song that probably deserves to be in the conversation for Song of the Year. But forced to make a hard decision, “Happy Children” is the one that hits the hardest. (writers: Lori McKenna, Chris McKenna)
Charles Wesley Godwin – “Miner Imperfections”
In a time when it seems like everyone wants to tear at the fabric of society and bulldoze everything established in favor of some new version of life, Godwin makes a simple plea for stability and family, which in this moment might be one of the most radical proclamations one can forward.
“Miner Imperfections” with its play on words referring to the region’s coal industry along with our fallible nature delivers keen insight into how none of us are perfect, but it’s the yearning to be true in all your actions that is most important. Just as Godwin forgives those who came before him for failures and shortcomings, he hopes his children will give the same grace to him. It’s from Godwin’s new album Family Ties. (writers: Charles Wesley Godwin, Zach McCord)
December 7, 2023 @ 9:57 am
The Steel Woods have pivoted production to feature the vocal a bit more. And it’s a bit too much.
December 7, 2023 @ 9:58 am
I would have liked to have seen “Another Leaf” instead of “Miner Imperfections” for CWG. My vote goes to “When Country Came Back to Town”.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:01 am
Man this is a murderers row, but as a father Lori’s Mckenna’s Happy Children just grabs me in like nothing else. I love most of these songs, but nothing brings me in like that one
December 7, 2023 @ 5:54 pm
I like Killing Me from that album too.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:16 am
King of Oklahoma for me. One of the best Isbell songs. Glad to see Steel Woods get noticed for a hell of a cover
December 7, 2023 @ 3:18 pm
Agreed – though my favorite song off the album was “Miles”- not very country, but a huge, epic tune that really pushes some boundaries and lets you settle in for more than couple of minutes when the time is needed.
December 7, 2023 @ 5:44 pm
Miles was a hell of a closer for that album!
December 7, 2023 @ 10:17 am
Theres a few I still need to check out, but at this point it’s “country came back to town” or “King of Oklahoma”. But man what a list pulled together, tons of great choices.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:19 am
Wyatt Flores was just announced this morning as an addition to the Windy City Smokeout lineup on the Cody Johnson (Saturday) day, (as was 49 Winchester), so Midwesterns can pencil that day in now.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:21 am
King of Oklahoma. An all timer.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:30 am
Was hoping to see Where Daniel Stood from Miles Miller on here. That song has been sticking with me.
Going with The Wilder Blue from this list.
December 7, 2023 @ 6:37 pm
Great tune. I’ve been kinda surprised Miller hasn’t been mentioned more in these lists and their comments. Heck of a debut album.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:32 am
Dollar General Sign for sure for me!
December 7, 2023 @ 10:41 am
Definitely “King Of Oklahoma” although anything by Wyatt Flores is good and Gabe Lee was close. I’d never heard the Joe Stamm song but like it too.
Given the definition between single and song my vote for single which wasn’t mentioned is “Next Rodeo” by Molly Tittle. Definitely a ditty
December 7, 2023 @ 10:42 am
If we are giving Isbell Album of the Year then let’s throw CWG a bone on this one. Such a damn good song.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:48 am
Got to give credit where credit is due, I would begrudgingly go with Jason Isbell. Charles Wesley Godwin is deserving as well.
December 7, 2023 @ 10:53 am
“King of Oklahoma”
No question and no need to look any frther.
December 7, 2023 @ 6:21 pm
“Frther?”
LOL
December 8, 2023 @ 6:59 am
big sad.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:07 am
It’s clearly Rich Men North of Richmond ..
December 7, 2023 @ 12:30 pm
Huge snub. Even if you aren’t a fan of the message (not saying Trig is or isn’t) you can’t ignore the cultural impact of the song.
December 7, 2023 @ 1:34 pm
I think you can make a better case for RMNoR as a “Single of the Year” candidate than you can for Song of the Year.
December 7, 2023 @ 2:25 pm
Yeah I said in another post that I wasn’t sure which category it fit better
December 7, 2023 @ 8:38 pm
No offense to the song. I would have taken another round of editing with it, but I’m not a knee jerk hater of it. Clearly it had a massive impact, but nobody needs me to verify that here. It’s also VERY polarizing, and ideally a Song of the Year or Single of the Year would be something the resonates more universally.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:07 am
King of Oklahoma for me. Just spent hours marveling at the guitar tone coming from P90’s 0n the Austin City limits version ????
December 15, 2023 @ 10:19 pm
You know what’s crazy, I go crazy for his tone so much. I went and saw him once in Chicago and it sounded awful. Not hating, I just chalked it up to a bad sound guy or the theater has bad acoustics. I was just bummed I didn’t get to hear that tone.
December 16, 2023 @ 5:01 am
I saw him last February and the sound was great but he never got out the Goldtop or the Redeye Repro 🙁
December 7, 2023 @ 11:21 am
Get in here JB! “Dollar General Sign” because: it’s country, it’s catchy, it’s observational but has such a deeper meaning and doesn’t take multiple listens to figure it out. The message is not hidden but it’s not blatant either. The song captures the reality of small towns and small town life perfectly both in the simple pleasures they hold and the despair. Although not as melancholy, I would put this song on the same plane as “The River” by Bruce. It’s real life in the simplest of forms. Dreams dreamt and crushed, progress made and demolished, life happening and not happening at the same time…all in 3 minutes. Simple and simply brilliant song that speaks volumes. Sparrows drive me nuts while working in the yard as they protect the nest they built in the bush I’m trying to trim. But Joe makes me care about the one in this song. I actually hope the sparrow residing in the “O” does find a proper home after the Dollar General gets leveled.
Now I will offer that if JSB winds up with AOTY for “Wild Man”, and not to be too greedy and expect SOTY as well, then “Merigold” should get this one. It’s exceptionally beautiful and haunting and every bit as much of a gut wrencher as “Elephant.”
December 7, 2023 @ 2:24 pm
Yes yes yes……I could’ve been first here, but I wanted to let the anticipation build!!! Besides, we’ve been having a lot of fun on Joe’s Facebook page whoring him out to the Dollar General folks for tour support and the song for a possible commercial……….we’ll see what happens… Of course it gets my vote for #1, but I also love CWG’s Miner Imperfections, Brent Cobbs opus When Country Came Back To Town, and I wouldn’t be myself without giving a little love to a lady…….Megan Moroneys Girl In The Mirror a wonderful song of self love and self respect you’re all more valuable than any mans opinion……you can’t love the boy more than you love the girl in the mirror…………
December 7, 2023 @ 11:32 am
I think it would be interesting to open a discussion on the ‘Top County Moments of the Year’ This could be refined to be the top moments that have broadened the general public’s exposure to what we would call ‘good’ country music. There could be some interesting debates and discussion on this and would help bring forth these good memories as we close out the year. It really was a great year.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:36 am
A lot of great songs here! In order for me:
1-Happy Children
2-Miner Imperfections
3-Merigold
4-When Country Came Back to Town
5-Dollar General Sign (I would have chosen Second Coat of Paint)
6-King of Oklahoma (Cast Iron Skillet and Volunteer are my favorites from Weathervanes)
7-The Line
8-Orange Bottles
9-Holler Rose
10-Girl in the Mirror
11-You Don’t Even Know Who I Am-I love the Steel Woods, but I had a really hard time getting into this album.
I know he’s polarizing, but I think Zach Bryan put out a lot of great stuff this year. I’m really surprised he didn’t show up on any of your EOY lists. Also, I was disappointed in Childers album, but I would have put “Rustin In the Rain” on Best Singles List and “In Your Love” on Best Song list.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:37 am
God, this is a great list. I felt like it was a weaker year for albums (for my taste at least) but there were some truly phenomenal songs.
King of Oklahoma would be my pick I think. Runner ups are Dollar General Sign and Miner Imperfections.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:46 am
My vote is for Joe Stamm Band — “Dollar General Sign.” It’s real – but there’s hope.
December 7, 2023 @ 11:48 am
King of Oklahoma gets my vote. It’s incredible how well Isbell can tell a story like that in such few words.
For example, in the first verse, Isbell sings “Molly don’t believe me, says she’s gonna leave me” and then flips the order in the second verse, which develops the character and story while keeping the words familiar.
And finally, in the final chorus… “I’d act like I was sleeping ’til she walked back through the door”. That line hits like a gut-punch.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:05 pm
If we go by the criteria you have set…life changing and such…my opinion would go to either Gabe Lee or Charles Wesley Godwin. I enjoy Brent Cobb’s song too…and Lori McKenna’s Happy Children hits you too.
But if we are talking about songwriting…striking a mark…and making you think…Gabe Lee sets the standard pretty high.
That’s my pick from this list.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:16 pm
It’s gotta be King Of Oklahoma and honestly don’t think its too close this year. Of the nominees, i’ll also shout Holler Rose and Dollar General Sign. Happy Children is killer too. Some of these nominees i’m pretty surprised are in the conversation though. Maybe last year was just a much stronger field in my eyes.
WRITE IN VOTE(s): Levi Turner’s “Time Will Tell” and/or “Cutting the Grass” deserve consideration. I’m shocked there’s been no discussion of his debut album on here. If you’re into good songwriting and lyrics you gotta dig into, his album is for you.
Jeremy pinnell is this guy who some say rips and i find myself agreeing with those people who say that. I guess its all about balance, or the lack of it
December 7, 2023 @ 12:17 pm
If you haven’t listened to Dollar General sign, do yourself a favor. I know I crow a lot for Joe Stamm but there’s a reason.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:19 pm
How does The Rut not make either list? By far the best song off Cat in the Rain
December 7, 2023 @ 1:56 pm
My favorite was Brought Me, but I was surprised to not see one of them on the list!
December 7, 2023 @ 2:56 pm
Brought Me was on the Best Single nominee list.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:42 pm
Can’t believe Rich Men North of Richmond isn’t listed. Disappointingly huge snub. Of those listed, Miner Imperfections getting a very slight advantage over You Don’t Even Know Who I Am. Only because it’s an original
December 7, 2023 @ 4:30 pm
I think it has a stronger case as a “Single of the Year” candidate than “Song of the Year”. To me, Song of the Year should really highlight amazing lyricism, vocals, and/or backing musicians.
Not sure RMNoR qualifies for that. It isn’t bad by any means, but I think the message behind the song is stronger than the actual song in terms of the things I listed above.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:57 pm
Hands down, Dollar General Sign. I do plan on reviewing all the nominees again, but DGS was the one song that really popped out.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:58 pm
There are a lot of great songs here, but anytime Jason Isbell is included, beating him will be an uphill battle. King of Oklahoma is the best song of the year because, in classic Isbell fashion, it tells the story of a man whose life is falling apart on various fronts, which is a universal theme. But instead of being a downer of a song, the character remembers when “she used to make me feel like the king of Oklahoma,” which was a sweet time, and it gives hope that he can feel like the king of Oklahoma again. Thisreflection on a better time comes via a beautiful and singable chorus. Additionally, it takes on the opiate crisis in an artful way that is nonjudgmental.
December 7, 2023 @ 12:58 pm
“King of Oklahoma” for sure. “Merigold” is a close second.
Trig, to me that Wyatt Flores record is everything you criticize Zach Bryan for (none of which I hear in Zach’s music). I like Flores, but it sounds like an immature, uneven, half-finished jumble of unconnected ideas and bad production. I liked his stuff to that point, but damn that record confuses the hell out of me.
December 7, 2023 @ 3:46 pm
And to say he sounds like a more polished.
December 7, 2023 @ 8:44 pm
I think the production of the Wyatt Flores album is leagues away from Zach Bryan. There are parts of the Zach Bryan album where they can’t even stay in time.
What I did say in my review of the Wyatt EP is it felt like a disjointed set of songs smashed together. That’s probably because they’re purposely releasing stuff right now just to see what sticks. It’s not meant to be taken cohesively. It’s a work tape.
December 7, 2023 @ 1:04 pm
King of Oklahoma. This is Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit in peak form from the guitar work to the lyrics and everything in between. It’s just a monster of a song and a heartbreaking story.
You can’t really go wrong with any song on this list though. Solid year for story telling and heartbreaking songs.
December 7, 2023 @ 1:38 pm
My choice. Great lyrics and music. I feel the music is discounted too much in this exercise.
I fell in love with his vocals first in DBT and the “coooofee every morning” modulation is great
December 7, 2023 @ 1:10 pm
Cry a river.
All the Isbellies, running another loser addict Isbell song, up the flagpole.
At least good ol’ Jason is predictable.
How ’bout he pen some songs talking about how people take responsibility for themselves?
Radical concept, I know.
But, he will be rewarded and lauded.
Because what loser era is it now?
Oh yeah, the mental health era.
Now that pushing over statues is no longer in vogue, the lazy and fragile will affect a downcast gaze, and bitch and moan about addictions.
Poor things.
December 7, 2023 @ 8:34 pm
I’m counting this comment as five votes for Jason Isbell from how craven and disrespectful it is to the otherwise fruitful conversation we’re having here.
December 7, 2023 @ 9:28 pm
Be my guest.
Give it 10 points.
But sincerely asking that you not see it as an attack, but as a comment on how all of the songs lamenting foisted addiction(s) are not healthy.
Nor are all addictions foisted upon people.
Not all you want to see, is bullying, but comment for thought.
Saying this with respect.
December 8, 2023 @ 2:03 am
Hi Di,
You seem like a nice person generally and I also think Isbell is a jerk, BUT I disagree about this song and your attitude to it.
This is song about a guy who would take responsibility and work hard and everything else. Then he had an accident at work and now he can’t work anymore and his life is falling apart.
Its a “there but the grace of God go I” story.
Myself (and every other physical worker) face this risk every day. If we get injured, we lose everything. Our income, self respect, respect from other people etc. And most likely there will be people saying we’re faking it when we would be pushing through pain.
Going from the stereotypical big strong independent construction worker to a broken shell of a human would suck. This is a song about how much it sucks.
I’m hoping that if I ever get injured then my friends will be sympathetic, not tell me to take responsibility etc.
Respectfully
December 8, 2023 @ 10:30 am
Hi Blackhat,
Appreciate your point of view.
“This is song about a guy who would take responsibility and work hard and everything else.”
What responsible person, plans to meet with their buddies to rob a worksite of copper?
That is not responsible. That is theft.
Plain and simple.
If you can go on a copper raid, you can damn sure get out of bed, and interact with your family.
Oil field and gas field workers are not the only people who have to deal with, and fight through pain.
Injuries and pain are prevalent throughout the world’s population.
Here, we get into a two part discussion. Three part, actually.
Where there once was an outlet for relief in the form of legal schedule drugs (with those same drugs often being over prescribed) the pendulum has now swung to the other extreme of not being able to get drugs to help alleviate serious pain.
Unfortunately, in cases of extremely challenging pain, it becomes the responsibility of the individual to find alternative and oftentimes healthier solutions to that pain.
Yoga, prayer, meditation, some form of exercise, movement, that will help counteract.
Also, prayer is definitely a good option for dealing with a medical addiction, instead of climbing into a bottle, to exacerbate a narcotic problem.
“Going from the stereotypical big strong independent construction worker to a broken shell of a human would suck. This is a song about how much it sucks.
I’m hoping that if I ever get injured then my friends will be sympathetic, not tell me to take responsibility etc.”
Yes, it would suck. And does, for many injured people out there.
And, of course family and friends should be caring, helpful, and sympathetic.
But the last thing you want is for people to become a crutch.
Your excuse down the road, to wallow in your addictions.
Your real friends/family, will help you tough through it, help find solutions.
And what may look unsympathetic, at times, can actually be compassion at its rawest.
December 9, 2023 @ 2:14 am
At some point there is no way to make.it bearable.
And worse yet, people (who are not in constant pain) tell you to try anything from yoga to prayer when you know the truth is that you have failed at the life you wanted. Your girlfriend is leaving, you have no money and no one is helping. So you get so desperate you try turning to theft and even that fails.
I agree with you that one take-away from the song could be that better medical insurance/welfare could save a person from losing everything and turning to theft.
There is a point where you need help. If its obvious (like losing limbs) then people help you.
This song is about the poor guy who is so bordeline that he has to struggle without help AND people even blame him for his life becoming hell.
I am all for personal responsibility, and I’d love a happy ending where he finds a new girlfriend who teaches him a new job that isn’t physical work and he gets back on track. But that isn’t happening if no one gives him any sympathy.
December 9, 2023 @ 2:18 am
Also, you mention real friends and family.
What if he has none?
Family might be unable to help (he may have been supporting them) and friends get mighty thin when you’re broke.
Christ, the bloke even needs help to steal copper. And his buddies didn’t try to help him, they went along with his plan.
December 9, 2023 @ 9:27 am
Di,
From 2000 to 2004, I had a fantastic support system. I also tried yoga, counseling, meditation, Chiropractic, acupuncture, injections, and two extremely major surgeries all to try to alleviate back pain that was profoundly crippling. Life simply would have been unbearable without what was at one point 140 mg of morphine per day.
During this time, every single bit of my life fell apart even though I had as good of an attitude as you could expect under those circumstances, but also the best decisions I could make. I can tell you that until someone lives that hell, they are simply unqualified to pass judgments. A will of absolute iron is the only thing that got me out of it and I cannot imagine many people being able to do what I did.
Grace and mercy and a heavy avoidance of the fundamental attribution error are the best things we can do in this life!
December 9, 2023 @ 10:42 am
Blackhat,
“Also, you mention real friends and family.
What if he has none?”
Then prayer becomes that much more important.
Not negating that the guy has physical and emotional pain.
And, have extreme compassion and concern for people in these situations.
December 9, 2023 @ 11:31 am
@RJ,
“From 2000 to 2004, I had a fantastic support system. I also tried yoga, counseling, meditation, Chiropractic, acupuncture, injections, and two extremely major surgeries all to try to alleviate back pain that was profoundly crippling. Life simply would have been unbearable without what was at one point 140 mg of morphine per day.”
First, want to say Very Sorry that you went through this.
Glad you had a fantastic support system.
“I can tell you that until someone lives that hell, they are simply unqualified to pass judgments. A will of absolute iron is the only thing that got me out of it and I cannot imagine many people being able to do what I did.”
Really didn’t want to go here, and the gentile is going to have a fit, … but so be it.
Yes, a will of iron is what it takes.
December 2004, woke up in Fletcher/Allen Research Hospital in Burlington, Vermont, with 105 temp. on a morphine drip, along with a lot of other crap attached.
A stranger was sitting close by.
When looked over, she smiled beautifully with a Hello dear, my name is _______. I’m with the Amici/Italian group and we are sitting with you ’round the clock. The older couple i was renting from (great people) were members of the Burlington Amici group.
Long story short, after 2 surgeries, was taking nuclear finals, with a bag of urine velcro-ed to my wrist, attached to a tube coming out of right kidney.
For 10 days straight, and talking Dr. Jackson into letting me go “home” instead of being cooped up in the hospital, I was shooting 10 CC’s of saline into a 3 way stopcock, attached to the tube coming out of kidney.
There’s a good time. About passed out, each time.
45 mg’s of morphine, did not cut the pain enough.
At 5’1″ that was the upper limit of safety.
Realized was in trouble when was extremely antsy during a nuc. physics class.
Went to the restroom, was sweating profusely, paced back and forth a little, then realization hit.
Said, Oh Shit, i’m addicted to morphine.
I know Exactly what it’s like.
A thunderbolt of Oh, shit, i’m in trouble.
After a few minutes of dealing with the realization of being addicted, started praying right there, in that bathroom.
Hit my knees when got home to “my” room.
Told God, need help.
I can’t do this alone.
Had zero time to slow down.
The Winter ’05 semester, completed an entire semester of clinicals, during the month of January, with the approval of the Nuc. Med. Director, the Dean of Biomedical Technologies, and Dr. Thomas Jackson, who just happened to be my surgeon, and who also sat The Board of Regents, at UVM Med. school. We became thick as thieves.
So Yeah, know what it’s like, and i am quite certain, there are people on this site that have had, & are familiar, with medical addictions. Not to mention other addictions.
I get it. I know what it’s all about.
December 9, 2023 @ 11:41 am
No more comments on this thread. It is a tangent.
Di, I have requested of you over and over and over again, this is not your LiveJournal. This is the comments section of a country music website. It’s not here for whatever YOU want to talk about, or want to sway the conversation towards. Quit disrespecting this website, these comments sections, and the other commenters.
Final warning.
December 9, 2023 @ 11:10 am
Incoherent babble
December 7, 2023 @ 1:19 pm
Awesome list.
“King of Oklahoma” seems like a forgone conclusion, but “Miner Imperfections” and “Merigold” are definitely up there too.
I’d also add
“Basements”, John R Miller (My SoTY pick, FTR)
“Roll”, Jason Hawk Harris
“I Remember Everything”, Zach Bryan
“Devils Taxidermy”, Willie Tea
“Twenty on High”, Drayton Farley
December 7, 2023 @ 1:37 pm
My write-ins would be Basements, The Rut, and Childer’s version of Help Me Make it Through the Night which I personally feel is country music perfection.
Great list though.
December 7, 2023 @ 1:51 pm
King of Oklahoma has my vote
December 7, 2023 @ 2:28 pm
The Megan Moroney song is sublime!
December 8, 2023 @ 10:44 am
It actually is quite good and showcases her voice well. It’s still hard to take her seriously with that silly “I’m not pretty” getting more play than this one.
December 7, 2023 @ 2:40 pm
Even though I’m a huge CWG fan, I’m going with King of Oklahoma.
December 7, 2023 @ 3:03 pm
Pony Bradshaw hands down. Been following him a few years now and just know he’s destined for greatness!
December 7, 2023 @ 3:23 pm
“King of Oklahoma”, but, as even Spotify knows, there’s really only one song for me this year, and it’s
Esther Rose ft. Hurray for the Riff Raff – “Safe to Run”
December 7, 2023 @ 3:42 pm
Pony Bradshaw has a beautiful voice and a great song writer. . Every song he sings touches your heart, mind, and soul❤️
December 7, 2023 @ 3:59 pm
I saw the steel wheels a couple years ago opening for Whiskey Myers and ‘You don’t even know who I am’ made me cry it was so beautiful. Unfortunately much better live than the production on the album. That being said, King Of Oklahoma all the way.
December 7, 2023 @ 5:05 pm
Miner Imperfections
December 7, 2023 @ 6:20 pm
Its looking like King of Oklahoma.
My issue with that song is that its not a song that can be picked up and covered and still bring a tear. To me me thats a test of a song. Also, it took me a few listens to pay attention to the story.
But the line “emptying my bladder off a 40 foot ladder” is just genius.
I still think “Joe” by Luke Combs is my vote. And I’m more an Americana fan than commercial country, but the lyrics are just so good.
It deals with recovering from alcoholism so well and still stays overall positive.
I have friends with alcohol problems and maybe thats why it means more to me, but a song to convince people that there is hope is a great song.
December 7, 2023 @ 6:25 pm
“King of Oklahoma” isn’t country and it isn’t good.
Where is “Chipping Mill” or “Brought Me?”
Both were excellent songs about the human condition.
The list forgot “The Regular” by Corey Smith.
Disappointing list.
December 7, 2023 @ 6:45 pm
Time of the cottonwood tree by Vincent Neil Emerson could easily be included. The lyrics are deceptively simple but pack a punch.
December 7, 2023 @ 6:55 pm
Guys what are we even talking about here. It’s king of Oklahoma. Although you could throw a rock on that album and hit a song of the year candidate. It’s really strange to have such an infectious melody for a song about foster kids in volunteer, but here we are. It seems the triggernometry has added up, and it’s isbell for the win.
December 8, 2023 @ 2:36 am
“You could throw a rock on that album and hit a song of the year candidate.”
I didn’t realize we were discussing Lori McKenna’s 1988.
December 7, 2023 @ 8:05 pm
The Joe Stamm Band has a real winner in the song Dollar General Sign. Why? Firstly, it tells a story, it paints a picture of a scene we can understand and its a clever tale, about the store, the sign, the bird that lived in the sign, the guy who wistfully looks back on what might have been, but nonetheless comes to the conclusion that his life took a certain path, and that’s OK. But, heres what sealed it for me, this website is Saving Country Music, not Saving Americana Music or Saving Heartland Rock Music…its Saving Country Music. With something as important as a Song of The Year, the winning selection should at the very least sound like COUNTRY MUSIC, people! And make no mistake, this song is undeniably a honky-tonk number with the Waylon beat, some marvelous Waylonesque telecaster and steel, baby…and ( wait there’s more!) a dude named Stamm,who has a killer weathered COUNTRY voice! What a find, Trig! This guy has labored in obscurity long enough, and I’m thrilled you brought him and this song to our attention. Now, that said some of you are already saying, well sure its a good old fashioned Country number, but this category is for SERIOUS songwriting, and we want something more with a songwriter presentation to it. There just so happens to be a professionally recorded solo acoustic version of the same song, found easily on You Tube, and listening to that one, Stamm comes across very much like Robert Earl Keen or perhaps even Guy Clark. So, two versions of this great song. Thats my pick off of your list.
Now for the elephant in the room in the comments section. All the Isbell folks are out in full force for some reason, and I don’t see that Trig owes Isbell anything, and Isbell is already big time, so whats the point in naming his song the SCM song of the Year? Do you really think he would even care? ( Thinking about the history of their contentious relationship here) Oh shut it, Kevin, its the song King of Oklahoma, and its a dandy, so listen to it, like the people here are saying…
Ok…so I have listened to it, here are my thoughts on it. Firstly, I do like the song, I know characters like the worker in the song who are hooked on substances, would steal from their own family to get money, yeah sadly I’ve had guys on my job-sites like this. Hats off to Ol’ Isbell for creating this crusty character study song, that messes with your emotions and has you almost siding with a dude who’s a rat. Thats the power of good writing. So, in terms of an Americana masterpiece, its up there. ( Puts me in mind of some other gritty story songs like Out Of Control by Dave Alvin or Mary Brown by him.) But, the overall sound and vibe of this song to me comes across very much like a typical Drive-By-Truckers song in style, as in rock based, and dark with a certain cadence and singing style the Truckers are known for. ( Jason’s former band) Thats not a bad thing either, I like said Truckers. But…dont call it Country, cause it ain’t. Isbell is the King of Americana, period. He gets massive love from those folks, so leave them to it. Hes the sainted Grammy boy.
Make SCM song of The Year an actual award for COUNTRY artists. The wife and I both went through Kyles list and compared notes. Her favorites are the Charles Wesley Godwin song and the Joe Stamm, and she also mentioned the Megan Moroney tune as impressive. We both agree that The Steel Woods ( a fav of both of us ) have just nailed the Patty Loveless song. Wes Bayliss voice is soooooo impressive. That is all! Great list!
December 7, 2023 @ 11:27 pm
Buddy this is all great points here but it’s been quit a while ago the country music this site wants to save became an umbrella term for many different genres. I don’t mean that as a bad thing. I’d argue the Americana genre has done more to help save country music than country music has done to save itself in a lot of ways. So should a damn good song have extra consideration since it has steel in it? Probably sure. But the spirit of country music thrives just as hard in songs made by folks that use electric guitar instead of a fiddle. ( I know shires play fiddle in the 400 unit I was just makin a point)
December 8, 2023 @ 9:11 am
Covering alt-country, Americana, and post-punk roots has been part of this website since it was founded in 2008. These alternatives to mainstream country play an important role in preserving the roots of the music and emphasizing songwriting, still offer better choices to listeners than pop country while not receiving nearly the same amount of coverage.
December 8, 2023 @ 2:34 am
You pretty much nailed it. I could even imagine Bruce Springsteen delivering a great version of “King of Oklahoma” (which is a good thing).
December 8, 2023 @ 4:44 am
I imagine you could dig deep into some kind of silver tongue conversation and find a way to make this song country, but it is not country. The tunes that were the furthest from country that the Truckers did were these open chord with distortion ones.
This song has violin in it – not a fiddle. The solo is rock. The arrangements are dad rock.
If Trig agrees with you after reading, it certainly gets tough on him because now he has countless votes for a song that isn’t country.
December 8, 2023 @ 9:07 am
Hey Kevin,
I appreciate the comment.
It would be unfair for me to calculate who might get more benefit or less benefit from being given this distinction when making the final decision. All of our jobs here are to vet out the best song as a community, and award that song regardless of the ramifications. Jason Isbell has made it clear that he thinks I am a vile human being, and nobody who has been more critical of Jason Isbell in print than myself. This is all the more reason I have an obligation to be objective in this situation, and simply do what I can to make sure the best song wins.
If I had not nominated “King of Oklahoma” for this, it would have been a scandal level controversy, and that’s all this comments section would be about. I completely recognize that it’s more of a rock song, but in the studio version of it, there is prominent fiddle, and it comes from an Americana artist and an Americana album, meaning it fits within the roots music canon.
I say every single year when nominating Song of the Year that this is the one category where genre gets weighed secondary to the song itself. It has to fit within the roots music world, but as long as it does, it’s eligible. Does genre still weigh into the decision? Sure. But we’re looking for the best song first.
December 8, 2023 @ 5:04 pm
Trig,
I am sorry but you are completely off base on one point. You have not been the most vocally critical of him. I know part of why you are saying that is to make a point, but your articles were always tastefully done. The virtue signaling is real. His hate and finger pointing is real. This means that anyone with these behaviors should be expecting some public vitriol, but you have reported with class.
December 7, 2023 @ 8:12 pm
We need a category for “Guilty Pleasure of the Year” — a song we’re not supposed to like for whatever reason — cover song, bad production, Brantley Gilbert — but play on repeat anyhow. My nominee is Aaron Watson’s cover of “Back on the Chain Gang.”
December 8, 2023 @ 5:04 am
…toying with our dark side(s). the emperor and vader would be over the moon. but to follow your lead: track 45’s “grew up on”.
December 7, 2023 @ 8:23 pm
As per SOP, SCM has a terrible list for song of the year. All anyone should care about is Single of the Year. If King of Ok wins, it’s akin to the current Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductees.
December 8, 2023 @ 1:13 am
The Rut by Turnpike Troubadours would be a major contender for me
December 8, 2023 @ 9:01 am
Lucille for me.
December 8, 2023 @ 2:49 am
From this list, my vote is for “Miner Imperfections” with “Happy Children” a close second.
If I could do a write in, my pick would be CWG’s “Dance in Rain.” It’s the song I’d want to write for my kids – my daughter, particularly – if something should happen to me while they’re still young.
December 8, 2023 @ 3:58 am
Oh My! Heavy weight league here for sure….Lori, Jason, Gabe, Pony; incredible songwriters.
I ll go With Brent Cobb simply because for a country fan that song is the perfect snapshot of the zeitgeist ( and a hell of a funny song).
December 8, 2023 @ 4:26 am
Pony Bradshaw Holler Rose
December 8, 2023 @ 4:38 am
…with “happy children” lori mckenna – more or less accidentally – put forward a universal concept for the (peaceful) coexistence and prosperous future of mankind. got to beat one. that sparrow in the “o” of the general dollar sign – what an observation to start more careful observations. “king of oklahoma” is just another great sounding example of how good an album jason isbell has delivered again this year. megan moroney sucked at the cma awards when singing with old dominion – then again, who wouldn’t? “girl in the mirror”, however, nicely displays much of her talent. every time i listen to gabe lee i’m kinda impressed in all departments – except humor maybe. there is a reason, why we loved john prine that much. cwg i still have to explore further and the wilder blue are new to me – but kinda interesting. pony bradshaw – is there a better name for an american singer/songwriter? a bit like colt mccoy for a quarterback or a lawman. the absence of oliver anthony’s cry from the woods on that list? no bother, unless you’re fudge round perhaps.
December 8, 2023 @ 6:42 am
As a life long and proud resident of rural America, “Dollar General Sign” may just be one of the best reflections of true small town life I’ve ever heard. This includes anything composed by Evan Felker. It’s made me check every single DG “O” for a sparrow or swallow nest as I go by.
December 8, 2023 @ 7:22 am
I know King of Oklahoma is getting all the praise but I love Volunteer so much more. It was one of my most listened to songs of the year.
December 8, 2023 @ 7:44 am
1 – Fox Hunt; unique story, excellent lyrics, strong instrumentation and authentic to country music with a one off sound.
2 – Happy Children; unique perspective/story, excellent lyrics, good instrumentation, authentic
3 – Merigold/Girl in the Mirror; deep & excellent lyrics, lacks full instrumentation, authentic
4 – Line; avg lyrics/subject; wicked strong instrumentation, a touch rock/cali.country but overlaid with bluegrass.
December 8, 2023 @ 12:58 pm
I honestly loved the Megan Moroney song. It wouldn’t hurt my feelings.
December 8, 2023 @ 3:21 pm
All good tunes but for me the one I can’t stop listening to is Levi Turner’s “Allergy Season”
December 9, 2023 @ 12:19 pm
So many great songs. Yesterdays Burn by Love & Treaty of High Horses from Chris Stapleton for me but so many close challengers including many on the list. My mind changes from day to day as to my favourite.
December 9, 2023 @ 12:41 pm
Dollar General Sign for me. Instant country classic – the vocals, instrumentation, and writing is perfect.
Miner Imperfections a close second (though I think Another Leaf was actually the best and most interesting song on the album.)
I’m surprised there were no Turnpike songs on here. The writing on that album was fantastic – multiple song-of-the-year level candidates, including the title track.
December 9, 2023 @ 1:01 pm
It has to be Happy Children. Lori McKenna’s music ages me, a college student with no children, in the best possible way and makes me nostalgiac for parts of my life I haven’t even lived yet. That’s how powerful her music is, and that’s why Happy Children is the runaway in this category.
December 9, 2023 @ 1:25 pm
I’d give it to Charles Wesley Godwin for Miner Imperfections. The stand out highlight of a great album. Just a great, well-written song.
December 9, 2023 @ 2:14 pm
A few days ago, I listened to each of the ‘single’ suggestions and then today each of the ‘song’ suggestions. I really enjoyed each of the ‘singles’ and found it challenging to select the best, but Corralling the Blues by Colter Wall was my eventual pick. However, I was surprised that I found few of the ‘song’ suggestions something that I even wanted to musically listen to the end of. In my experience, the message is of no value if the musical ‘sound’ is not appealing. I like all kinds of country music (old and new) but often wish there was a current Don Williams both in sound and in messages. Trig said that, a Song of the Year should “change a life, change someone’s perspective, or change the world we live in.” For me, Rich Men North of Richmond changed countless people’s perspective(s). For example: Who knew that a cell phone could be as successful as a professional sound studio especially if authenticity is valued? We all know that the powerful influencers on each side of the polarized spectrum use people for their own gain. But who knew that an imperfect song that the creator didn’t think would be heard by many needed to be perfectly ‘politically correct’ from everyone’s perspective (an impossibility). As a Canadian, I had to google what those little fudge cookies are, but I did understand that it was similar in contextual meaning of when we take ‘Kraft Dinner’ boxes as non-perishable donations to a food bank or a entry donation at a Christmas event. Yummy, but fattening. Why are poor people overweight is a complex issue I am sure. In my books, I highly respect Trig and he sits on a pedestal for many reasons. But, I have to disagree with him that selecting Rich Men North of Richmond would be too controversial. The very controversy it caused was an authentic spotlight on how power and polarization go hand in hand. Trig, it would be my proposal to stand up against the power of that polarization as opposed to shying away. This was an authentically imperfect song. How perfect is that! I listened to it along with the songs you have suggested and to my ears, ‘it makes me want to listen right to the end to actually think more about the various messages’. (His enunciation is superb.) It’s not Don Williams melodic calming sound though, but it is a song of 2023 that showed all of us regardless of our political leanings that one song can cause people to question many, many things. And…questioning is a good thing don’t ya think, eh?
December 9, 2023 @ 4:18 pm
This is a stellar list of songs. Only scandal is that cover of the Patty Loveless tune. Ain’t nobody ever gonna sing that one like she did. Check out her HOF performance this year – this cover don’t come close!
December 11, 2023 @ 11:12 am
I’m a die hard Patty Loveless fan and though I prefer her version to the steel woods (Slightly) I will say they did a great job with the song. If either version of the song pops up at a party I would be happy. It’s just a fantastic song. That being said I wouldn’t choose a cover for song of the year when their is great original music being written today. I would vote for “Dollar General Sign” or “King of Oklahoma” if pressed.
December 9, 2023 @ 11:42 pm
Dylan Gossett belongs on this list.
December 10, 2023 @ 12:15 am
Respectfully, Dylan Gossett has a long way to go before “Coal” or any of his other songs are on par with those listed above. He writes well, but other parts of him seem to be stuck in the growing phase. I’m sure he’ll get there.
December 10, 2023 @ 1:34 pm
Lots of good choices here!
Holler Rose by Pony Bradshaw and Merigold by Gabe Lee are my definite favorites of the official nominees (though The Wild is my top favorite by the latter).
King of Oklahoma is also very good, but Volunteer is my favorite on that one, followed by Death Wish (and then King).
I really dig the CWG album, but not Miner Imperfections. I feel Family Ties is a much better choice, and I like Headwaters, Cue Country Roads, 10-38, and The Flood just as much.
Girl in the Mirror is also good, though I’d rank I’m Not Pretty, Sad Songs for Sad People, and Tennessee Orange higher.
I also really like Blues Comin’ On by Channing Wilson, Joe by Like Combs, You Turned into a Dragon by Brennen Leigh, as well as Standing Here by Colter Wall.
December 10, 2023 @ 1:34 pm
Tbh Southern Star should have been the nominee from Brent Cobb’s album, it’s a better (fantastic) song
December 11, 2023 @ 4:12 am
Is it just me, or does Orange Bottles sound uncannily like Traveling Soldier?
December 11, 2023 @ 1:08 pm
“King of Oklahoma” for me, and it’s not close. This is the kind of character study and storytelling that defines country music, and on a mostly rock album that is indeed incredible but is not country enough for SCM’s AOTY, this song actually feels country in instrumentation and songwriting. It also remains accessible and able to be replayed many times, which is the ultimate test of time. HM’s to “holler Rose” and “Merigold,” but they are very distant HM’s.
December 12, 2023 @ 11:24 am
Lot’s of good songs to choose from. Doller General is not in my top 3 of JSB’s album but it is the most “country” of them all so that’s a good mark. When Country Came Back is a great anthem. Holler Rose, I love as well as well as The Line, Merigold, and Girl in the Mirror. I agree with others that Miner Imperfections is not in my top 3 on the CWG album but a solid song none the less. Ultimately JSB and Cobb probably earn a spot in my top 3. But one song stands above the rest. Its catchy, raw, impeccably written and with superb guitar and fiddle. Its the best song of the album to appeal to a broad base and that is King of Oklahoma.
December 12, 2023 @ 9:19 pm
I kept waiting for the title “Happy Children” in Lori’s song to be explored a bit more other than just stated a few times in the lyrics. I’d like to have heard in the lyrics why she, the songwriter, thinks it matters (for those ignorant on the subject) to have “happy children”. Nice song but it seems to be one of those list tunes…naming all of the random things she wants you to have…not exactly Song of the Year material.
December 13, 2023 @ 3:04 pm
When Country Came Back to Town is the song of the year–because it narrates what most of us readers of this website are feeling about country music in 2023. Even us getting old guys and gals know that country music has never been better than right now.
And for what it’s worth, I usually detest name-dropping songs. Nor am I necessarily a Brett Cobb fan. But this song is lightening in a bottle. I hope it wins!
December 14, 2023 @ 5:34 pm
Nice list! Dollar General Sign is definitely a stand out on what is an excellent album from JSB. I would have welcomed the addition Bella White’s “Dishes”, and/or ‘Brought Me’ given how often I had the latter on repeat…