Song Review – Eric Paslay’s “She Don’t Love You”
Some would argue it has been a dereliction of Saving Country Music duties that the name Eric Paslay has failed to be exclusively featured here for your reading edification previously. When you’re populating lists of mainstream artists that traditionalists or independent-minded fans might find appealing, this ginger-headed 30-something from Abilene, TX signed to EMI Nashville is an easy candidate to include.
However Eric Paslay, like many of these critically-lauded mainstream artists, presents a difficult and dualistic face. Just because something is good for the mainstream doesn’t mean it’s good in general. Truth is, even the worst acts of what the mainstream has to offer can impress you with a few of their album cuts, just like some of the best can let you down with their singles. Shuffle Eric Paslay into the latter category.
Though the heavily-acoustic instrumentation of Paslay’s lead single “Friday Night” was hard to not tap your toe to, you got the sense pretty quickly that you’d heard this song before, and by artists who are usually preceded by a hyphenated “Bro” qualifier. “Song About A Girl” was an even worse offender, and even though Paslay’s self-titled debut album had some really choice cuts like “Country Side of Heaven,” you were worried that as soon as you got behind this guy completely, he could reveal himself as a Florida Georgia Line starter kit.
But maybe as Bro-Country begins to wane, an artist like Eric Paslay will find himself in the cat bird’s seat. If you’re looking for an artist with proven commercial success and youthful appeal that can still deliver some substance, Eric Paslay fits the mold.
Eric Paslay’s self-titled debut album was somewhat infuriating in how it made you want to hate it just as you were warming up to it (or vice versa), but the gem of the project was a song called “She Don’t Love You.” And lo and behold, the song has found itself on deck as the singer’s third single, and one that is already sharing the Top 20 in country radio and climbing. With a new video just released today (3-11), the song could continue to surge as country attempts to answer the question “What’s next?” and hope that it’s something of more substance.
“She Don’t Love You” is a classic contemporary country song, from the structure and the instrumentation, to the way the lyrics resolve in a manner that will be universally resonant many years from now, just like all of those classic country songs we still love to listen to today. This is the type of song careers are built from, regardless if this truth turns out to be recognized by a wide audience.
This is a songwriter’s song first and foremost, penned by Paslay and Jennifer Wayne from the group Stealing Angels. How the perspective of the song shifts at the end to go from a song focused on either the girl herself, or a man who may find himself enamored with her, to a song about heartbreak and loss is the type of dedication to songcraft we just don’t see anymore from really any sector of the music world. The timing of the final words creates such an aching environment rife with anticipation and tension, and the way Paisley allows you to realize where the story is going before it goes there is downright sinister.
The video is a worthy compliment, at first feeling somewhat cliché with the pretty girl and the crumbling, abandoned building where it seems most videos are shot these days. But the way the plaster starts to replace itself, and the illusion of the theater putting itself back together as the story resolves shows an understanding by the videographer at what’s at the heart of Paslay’s narrative.
It’s one thing to write and record a song like this. It’s another to see it ultimately be successful, which is where “She Don’t Love You” seems to be headed.
Two guns up.
March 11, 2015 @ 6:49 pm
Best country song of 2014. Yeah, I know you put ‘Everything’s Gone’ by Lydia Loveless at the top of your list (and it made mine too, #48), but this song hits me like a fucking ton of bricks and the gut punch of the ending gets me every time.
I’ve been cheerleading for Eric Paslay since before this time last year, and I’m shocked and a little amazed this is becoming a hit. Please let this chart and chart long – we don’t get many songs like this.
March 12, 2015 @ 12:34 pm
Yes, Mark, we KNOW that you’ve been cheerleading for Paslay. You’re practically the only one around these parts 😛 (the irony of that statement coming from me notwithstanding). It’s good to see that this song is becoming a hit, as everyone is noting. Perhaps it will free Paslay from the shackles of the Bro mold to create a whole album with songs like this instead of an album of party tunes with a single great ballad. That latter point, debatable or not, is probably why so few people have been championing Paslay. The fact that this song was released as a single as opposed to just relishing in obscurity on his album will win him some much deserved respect and recognition, as it has already. After all, if his next single weren’t this song, it’s a cinch that Trigger would have left him on the backburner.
March 11, 2015 @ 6:49 pm
Beautiful song. Gives me chills every time I hear it on the radio.
Underneath the beautifully lush traditional production, there is a progressive “airy” sound present in this song that was also prominently featured in a number of other songs that reached prominence in the second half of 2014, such as Kacey Musgraves’s “Keep It to Yourself”, Randy Houser’s “Like a Cowboy” or even Justin Moore’s “This Kind of Town”.
If that type of sonic flourish replaces the bro sound as the dominant style in country music, then we will have won a huge victory.
March 11, 2015 @ 6:52 pm
Great Song.
1st and last time i probably say that this year.
March 11, 2015 @ 6:56 pm
Now this is what iv been waiting for to hit country radio.
March 11, 2015 @ 7:06 pm
I remember hearing this song, I wanna say, a couple months ago and just loved it.
If I was forced to find something negative to critique about it I’d say the drums are a little heavy. Especially the snare. But that’s just a matter of taste for me than anything.
Great song!
March 11, 2015 @ 7:29 pm
LOVE, LOVE that song! A lot. Honestly, didn’t know who sang it though until now.
March 11, 2015 @ 7:34 pm
The thing that stands out about this song to me is that it actually has some substance to it. With the exception of the Jake Owen song there is almost a total lack of substantive songs out now.
Sadly there have been comments by radio programmers that they can’t play this song because in their words it ‘breaks format’ which I guess means it harshes the upbeat party theme that country radio is obsessed with right now.
March 11, 2015 @ 8:00 pm
To already be in the Top 20 in radio play I would count as a victory.
March 11, 2015 @ 9:04 pm
I think it fits in pretty well with what is on country radio right now. Jake Owen’s “What We Aint Got” is played often, and that is very far from an upbeat party song. Alot of the songs on country radio now are very depressing.
March 12, 2015 @ 8:27 am
That Jake Owen song is played a lot but it is extremely underrated. Might be the best song on the radio right now. Would love to hear Trigs take on it.
March 11, 2015 @ 9:08 pm
Saying that this song “breaks format” takes some serious gall. It seems like these radio people have no idea about their own genre, and worse, will insult it at every opportunity with comments like that.
March 11, 2015 @ 9:12 pm
Totally agree. That was a Sean Ross tweet from the Country Radio thing last week about the radio guys. Almost nobody releases ballads for singles anymore. All radio wants is tempo, tempo, tempo.
March 11, 2015 @ 10:08 pm
I first heard this traditional leaning song on KRTY (my local “country’ station), looked at the display on my car radio, and thought “Who’s this new Paisley guy?”. As the song finished playing I found myself thinking that it was surprisingly good, and then being even more surprised that KRTY was playing this. Because they don’t play country music very often these days, sad to say.
March 11, 2015 @ 10:11 pm
KRTY is my local station too, and I have been fairly happy about how often they have played the song.
What is even more impressive is that KRTY has actually featured Brandy Clark’s “Hold My Hand” a few times over the past few weeks. I actually read an article a few days ago mentioning how it was the only station in the country that played the song more than once.
As disappointing as it can be, KRTY is a cut above the corporate “country” stations.
March 15, 2015 @ 8:47 am
Finally a song that has a clean country sound. Lyrics that have depth. We need to get back to the roots of country music! Great song.
March 11, 2015 @ 8:19 pm
Love this song. I cannot say enough good things about it, however I am still unsure about Eric Paslay as an artist overall. I found his debut album to be pretty underwhelming, but this song clearly shows the talent that he truly has and is capable of. Hopefully this allows him to be able to write and cut more songs like this, rather than some of the more generic songs that filled up his album.
March 11, 2015 @ 8:43 pm
I really like this song and, I like it better than his last two released singles. 2 guns up.
March 11, 2015 @ 8:46 pm
Saw him live at a joint near my house in Florida. He did not have a great live voice, but hey, he is a step up in substance.
March 13, 2015 @ 1:22 pm
Perhaps that was an off night for him. Paslay was really good live when he opened for Dierks Bentley in Hershey.
March 11, 2015 @ 9:02 pm
Eric Paslay is a great artist and I enjoy most of his music, but I personally don’t like this one. Great substance in the lyrics, but I don’t like the music.
March 11, 2015 @ 11:20 pm
“…at first feeling somewhat cliché with the pretty girl and the crumbling…”
To be truly cliché the girl would need to be about 12. That woman actually looks to be about his age. That’s a huge step for music videos.
March 12, 2015 @ 12:12 am
The age of the woman nicely complements the theme of the lyrics. She looks like she has weathered some rough experiences in life and love, which is of course the point of the song.
March 12, 2015 @ 3:08 am
I may be in the minority here with this comment… But this song when I first heard it just rings loudly Garth Brooks, I feel like Garth would have killed it with this song. This is the type of song that should have been on his new album. Good tune all the way around.
March 12, 2015 @ 5:38 pm
Actually it was pitched to George Strait before he retired
March 12, 2015 @ 5:10 am
won of the most outlaw thangs Ive seen in cuntry music in the last few yeers was win eric pasley picked up those hookers an drove around lower broad way recklessly in that convertable in his friday nite video. now thats outlaw county.
March 12, 2015 @ 6:58 am
Great review. I didn’t realize this song wasn’t already released as a single. I heard it a few months ago on Sirius XM in my wife’s car. I actually interrupted her, “I’m sorry, can we just stop talking for a minute?,” cause the song grabbed me.
Of course, then it grabbed me so hard that I could barely talk afterwards anyway. Helluva song.
March 12, 2015 @ 8:36 am
‘cuz your wife reached down your throat and ripped out your vocal chords for cutting her off–right?
(Just nod in agreement.)
((jk))
March 12, 2015 @ 8:03 am
A beauty of a song, and I like how the vocals/lyrics are front-and-center throughout. 🙂
March 12, 2015 @ 11:27 am
I think this is an excellent song. If the singer was better it would kill. Paslay doesn’t strike me as ” bro-country”. He does remind me of Chris Young, although Young has a better voice. They are both singers capable of singing great country songs, but playing the country version of game of fame so that they are heard on the radio.
March 12, 2015 @ 11:28 am
It’s, hands down, one of the best songs on the radio among all formats at the moment; in addition to Jake Owen’s “What We Ain’t Got”, Mickey Guyton’s “Better Than You Left Me”, Tim McGraw’s “Diamond Rings & Old Barstools” and the newly released “I Got The Boy” by Jana Kramer.
It is such a rarity these days to hear a relationship song that makes you sympathetic towards BOTH the narrator and the subject. If anything, most songs of this sort saturating the charts as of late make you feel annoyed towards both characters because of how spiteful and arrogant they sound. Think of all those acerbic break-up songs clogging the charts of all formats since the beginning of the decade. “Somebody That I Used To Know”. “Forget You”. “Blow Me (One Last Kiss)”. And so on. All they do is make you annoyed towards both of them.
This is the real deal. Here, we have a song that not only makes you feel sympathetic towards the subject and maturely looks back without any calculated intent on trying to guilt-trip her into a new relationship or making excuss as to her struggles……………..but feel your heart sink sympathetically for the narrator when he admits with ache that HE is all but certainly the reason why she has such struggles trusting anyone or dancing with wild abandon like she used to. It’s moments like those where your eyes water and you mouth: “Oh…………..I see………….” and you just want to give them both a hug! =(
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Damn, I sure hope this finds a way into the Top Ten. This is simply too grand to have a solitary life in its initial chart run. I’m just worried this has already burned through too many weeks on the airplay chart for radio to maintain allegiance to it for another eight-ten weeks. Hope they demonstrate otherwise.
March 12, 2015 @ 12:43 pm
Dang, I had never heard this.
For commercial country music, that was exceptional.
Man… that’s how it’s done. This song is a thousand miles away from boilerplate bro-country “party” fare.
Also, thematically, it strongly reminds me of “She’s Not For You” by Willie Nelson.
March 12, 2015 @ 3:42 pm
Trig, have you heard Tim Mcgraws new single diamond rings and old bar stools? It’s starting to get a lot of airplay where I’m from and it’s some pretty solid stuff.
March 12, 2015 @ 4:35 pm
Yes, I talked about the song when I reviewed McGraw’s album. I may do a song review soon.
March 12, 2015 @ 4:44 pm
Dam right two guns up .
The steel guitar alone is worth ONE gun . The piano is good for another half . And oh yeah ….great write and performance . Now was that so hard to do Nashville ?
The ” air-iness” referred to above is what happens when you don’t have three Les Paul’s cranked to 11 competing with each other for ear-space on a track . Less is more ….just ask Brandy or Kasey . Lovely production which totally serves the sentiment . ” Pro-Country ” ..as it were .
March 13, 2015 @ 4:14 pm
“Pro-Country”
Hey, I like that.
March 13, 2015 @ 7:50 pm
Wow, just wow!
March 15, 2015 @ 12:38 am
When he came through Rockford Illinois last summer, a number of local bands were in the running to open for him. My band was the only one his”people” selected because he grew up listening to Waylon, Cash, Merle, etc . And we play exactly that. In the green room prior to the show, he and his team were working on songwriting, and he was kind and gracious to all of us. He showed himself to be a class act and true artist. Yeah, he has some tunes that fit irritatingly into the pop country template, but I’m not surprised that he’s being considered as a legitimate artist who may provide a shred of validity for mainstream country music. One can only hope he’s brave enough to carve out his own path.
March 15, 2015 @ 8:08 am
This song is NOT Country, but it is a very well written soft-rock ballad.
March 15, 2015 @ 11:54 am
Could you explain how this is not country? The sound is too acoustic to count as soft rock.
March 16, 2015 @ 9:52 am
The first time I heard this on the radio I thought there was a mistake or they had a guest DJ or something. The song is too good to fit in with the current format.