30 Years Ago: Conway Twitty & Loretta Lynn Share Final Moment
There are some stories in country music that are almost so touching, and so crazy, they almost ask the audience to suspend disbelief. If they were spun into fiction, they would be laughed off as too extraordinary. But time after time, country music has given us these stories, and it’s helped keep the mystique of the music and artists of the past alive well beyond their shelf life in popular culture.
One of those stories, if not one of the best of them, was how fate allowed Loretta Lynn and Conway Twitty to reunite once again for his final moments in life.
Conway Twitty died on June 5th, 1993—30 years ago today. He’d been performing in Branson, Missouri and was on his bus headed back to Nashville for the annual Fan Fair that happens the first week of June (now called CMA Fest). While on the bus, Conway collapsed unexpectedly. He was suffering from an abdominal aortic aneurysm.
No true country music fan needs to be told just how legendary the pairing of Conway Twitty and Loretta Lynn was. They were arguably the greatest country duet partners of all time. Together they racked up twelve Top 10 hits including five #1’s. They also recorded four #1 albums. Loretta Lynn and Conway Twitty also earned four consecutive CMA Duo of the Year Awards between 1972 and 1975.
Apart, they seemed like polar opposites. Conway Twitty was the suave ladies man always getting his way, and Loretta Lynn was the confident woman always putting men in their place. On paper, it was an odd pairing. But on the stage and in the studio, it worked perfectly, and was the ideal compliment to their legendary careers without getting in the way.
One of the reasons the duo worked so well is Loretta’s famous husband Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn loved Conway Twitty, and Conway Twitty’s third wife Delores “Dee” Henry adored Loretta Lynn, and so did Conway’s 2nd wife Temple “Mickey” Medley who Twitty was married to between 1956 to 1984. The relationship between Conway Twitty and Loretta Lynn was always and solely professional. But one of the reasons the duets worked so well is because they also loved each other deep down.
The Conway and Loretta show had mostly wrapped up after ten years in 1981, aside from a single in 1988 called “Making Believe.” Their respective solo careers were just too much to handle on their own. They still remained good friends though, and performed together upon occasion.
But it wasn’t a reunion show or a planned meeting that brought Conway Twitty and Loretta Lynn together again on the day that Conway Twitty died. It was pure fate. As Conway laid in agony on his tour bus, his driver took him to Cox Medical Center in Springfield, Missouri for help. Completely by chance, when Conway Twitty arrived, Loretta Lynn was already at the same hospital tending to her husband Doolittle who was suffering from complications with diabetes, and was gravely ill himself.
“When they brought Conway in I couldn’t believe it,” Lynn told Ralph Emery in an interview some years later. “I just could not believe it. It was the worst thing I’ve ever been through really. I stayed with Dee (Conway’s wife) and I stayed with the band for a while, and then I’d run up to see Doo, and then I’d run back to sit with Dee. And then I’d run back to see how Doo was, because he was in real bad shape. They thought he was going to die any time. I was in bad shape myself.”
Here was Loretta Lynn in a hospital in Springfield, Missouri, running up and down the halls tending to two of the most important men in her life, both of whom were fighting for theirs.
“After so long, here comes the chaplain,” Loretta continues. “‘Do you want to see Conway?’ I said, ‘Why, what’s wrong?’ he said, ‘Do you want to see him? You’re gonna see him for the last time alive.’ I said,’ Let me take Dee.’ I grabbed Dee by the hand and said, ‘Let’s go see Conway.’ I told Conway I said, ‘Conway, don’t you die on me. You know you love to sing. You’re gonna be alright.’ Dee talked to him and said, ‘Conway, you’ve pulled through harder things than this.'”
Then Loretta Lynn left again to see Doolittle, and right as she entered Doolittle’s room, “They come up behind me and said ‘Conway died,'” Loretta recalls. Conway Twitty was only 59 years old.
If the story had transpired in Nashville, it may have not have been so unbelievable that both Loretta Lynn and Conway Twitty would have been in the same hospital in his final moments, or that friends like Loretta may have been called to Conway’s side when the worst was feared. But this was in Springfield, Missouri, and completely by chance that Loretta Lynn was there.
And that’s why country music is more than just songs, artists, and albums. It’s the stories, the friendships, the love and the heartbreak that color the moments in between that make it more than just “music.”
saintsavage
June 5, 2023 @ 10:57 am
I never knew that. Fate is strange. I saw Conway once in concert. The ladies and my Mom loved him.
Tom
June 5, 2023 @ 11:47 am
It sounds like you’re saying that your mom wasn’t a lady.
Sir Adam the Great
June 5, 2023 @ 1:35 pm
In my mind she’s still a lady and that all I’m gonna say…
CountryKnight
June 10, 2023 @ 2:33 pm
According to Trigger, that song is questionable. Haha.
Redwood guy
June 7, 2023 @ 10:50 pm
Troll. Pointless comment.
TwangBob
June 5, 2023 @ 11:17 am
The missus and I were in Nashville – on vacation – at the time and scheduled to leave the next day. When we heard on the radio that Conway had died, we drove to Demonbreun Avenue where the Conway Twitty Record Shop was located. Around the entrance doors were a wreath of black balloons. The next day, before leaving Nashville, we drove up to Twitty City in Hendersonville where the entrance sign displayed “Goodbye Darlin'”. Yep, Conway departed this ol’ earth way too soon. Fortunately we have still his music to enjoy.
Sir Adam the Great
June 5, 2023 @ 12:07 pm
I remember traveling to Florida with my family listening to the radio when the news came on. Crazy how some things like that stick with you. Also, the older I get, the more I realize how young 59 is. An absolute legend.
FUZZY TWOSHIRTS
June 5, 2023 @ 12:13 pm
The reason the chemistry worked so well between Conway and Loretta is because they appealed to a specific need in a lot of people. That is to say, women, love to be revered and wanted and Conway delivered that. A lot of those same women also love the idea of being able to stand up to no good men who are just bums and boozers
To a lot of women, Conway and Loretta were literally the best of both worlds. Having their cake and eating it too.
And there are people who would have fawned over Loretta Lynn singing duets with Barry Manilow, simply because Loretta was an instant teachers pet of the diehard country music fans, dare I say, people like Honky Who judge country music by its authenticity.
And Loretta’s authenticity and direct link to a bygone era in American history, was her major selling point.
To the people most in touch with the roots of that part of American culture, Conway might as well have been Barry Manilow. I don’t believe he ever did quite ingratiate himself to a certain subset of country fans, specifically, the people who wanted the most honest, true to life imagery.
Since you didn’t say, they were arguably the greatest country music duet pairing. Let’s have a friendly little argument.
Let’s say, for the sake of being included on this list, a country music pairing had to have superstardom independent of their duet status, at least one legendary song apiece, plus one between them,
And that their stardom is roughly equivalent. So no George Jones and Melba Montgomery
I’m excluding Johnny and June, because I think her career got a huge boost from him, and I think that her stardom was always less than his
We are basically left with Waylon and Willie Conway and Loretta, George and Tammy, Porter and Dolly, and Dolly and Kenny Rogers
I’m going to axe Porter and Dolly right here, because, even though I think they sounded the best together, and had some of the coolest songs, Porter Wagoner was an established star, and Dolly was still a newcomer working on his program. She was destined for stardom any way you see it, but once she hit that stardom, they didn’t do any more work together. The Porter and Dolly duets were recorded early in her career.
If it were me, I would eliminate Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton, because of the sheer limited amount of work they did together. The fact that they are basically remembered for one song together, whereas everyone else on this list is remembered for way more than that, I think makes the case plain
So we have George and Tammy, Conway and Loretta, and Waylon and Willie
If we were going by my personal favorites, I would give it to George and Tammy right here.
But I’m gonna use their hee haw performances as a direct comparison.
No matter how great their songs were, no matter how awesome their albums were, seeing George and Tammy on TV together, they just kind of stood there and saying into the microphone. They looked at each other a little bit. But it was a very stiff, formal presentation.
To see Conway and Loretta, on that same program, on that same stage, the connection between them is tangible. They are animated, full of joy, full of vibrance and enthusiasm. There is this almost visceral counterpoint in their body language, where you can see their touching on each other’s mannerisms on stage, Loretta is Exuberant, you see her smiling at Conway is it trying to get him to lighten up while he’s standing there as stiff and straight laced as ever, and you can see the smile creeping across his face at her energy.
And I’m going to eliminate Waylon and Willie, from consideration on the ground that they recorded how many albums together? A bunch. But between all of that only one song comes to mind in the general country music consciousness. Good hearted woman.
It’s not that good hearted woman is a bad song, it’s that the sheer amount of material they recorded together relative to the lasting hits that anybody who came out from under the rock has to have heard, They simply made more material and made less of an impact with it. Sure everyone has heard those albums, and anyone who really loves country music has their favorite, Waylon and Willie albums, and Waylon and Willie performances.
But the fact that, for all those albums, they only had one truly major hit, speaks not to a lack of commercial appeal of Waylon Willie, it’s at the greater number of hits relative to record output speaks more to the commercial appeal of Conway and Loretta. That is to say, everybody loved Conway and Loretta, arguably more than they did Waylon and Willie.
Kevin Smith
June 5, 2023 @ 2:34 pm
Fuzzy, you forgot the monster Waylon/Willie duet hit Mamas Dont Let Your Babys Grow Up to Be Cowboys.(written by Ed Bruce)
Other great Country duets: Frizzell and West- Your the reason God made Oklahoma
Meet me in Montana: Dan Seals and Marie Osmond
Kenny Rogers and Dottie West : When two Fools Collide, Dont Fall in Love with a Dreamer
Haggard and Jones: Yesterdays Wine
Willie and Merle: Pancho and Lefty
Fuzzy TwoShirts
June 5, 2023 @ 3:55 pm
DOH
How silly of me!
I will confess I always interpreted that song as being their cover of the Ed Bruce hit… since it was HIS recording that was included in GTA San Andreas, and subsequently the most likely version to be exposed to later generations
I didn’t ‘overlook’ them so much as decline acknowledge that the pairing made A specific impact on the greater country music industry, but as individuals and as a pairing. I think most of those instances are excluded from my shortlist, as being worthy of a Conway and Loretta comparison for the virtues and reasons outlined above. Specifically the Porter and Dolly and Kenny and dolly situation. Most of those duets were at least either one off recordings, or one of the participants was overshadowed commercially by the other.
CountryDJ
June 6, 2023 @ 5:08 am
Don’t Fall In Love With A Dreamer was a duet by Kenny Rogers & Kim Carnes (not Dottie West)
Kenny & Dottie’s duet was titled Every Time Two Fools Collide. It was the first of their five top ten hit singles.
Marian Carraway
June 6, 2023 @ 5:28 am
I saw Conway and Loretta together about 20 times. She was my favorite from the 1st time I saw her on the Wilburn Brothers Show. She was truly down to earth country. She didn’t pretend, she was real. I liked Conway also but when he stood next to her on stage, he became more agile and down to earth also. I also saw them separately several times. Some of the greatest shows of my life.
Luckyoldsun
June 5, 2023 @ 5:04 pm
There’s something that strikes me as a tad disrespectful or tone deaf about carrying on about where exacty you would fit Waylon and Willie among twoomes of Conway and Loretta, George and Melba, George and Tammy, Porter and Dolly, Kenny and Dolly, and Johnny and June.
Can’t put my finger on just what it is, but I’ll venture that I’m far from the only reader who got that sense.
Joe Johnson
June 5, 2023 @ 6:56 pm
The sense I get is that you’re a “Neil”, which is a male “Karen”.
Fuzzy TwoShirts
June 6, 2023 @ 5:22 am
Since when is Neil a male Karen? Isn’t that… Brian or Ed?
Really? Neil
Joe Johnson
June 6, 2023 @ 10:13 am
Yes, Neil. And to be clear Fuzzy, I wasn’t referring to you, I was referring to Luckyoldsun. He comes off as a know-it-all and whiner….a Neil.
Cheryl Phillips
June 6, 2023 @ 1:25 pm
I felt that the article was disrespectful too. Entertainers on the road month after month, year after year, to be pigeonholed holed and dismiss to to a writer I might be wrong little jealous.
bigtex
June 5, 2023 @ 7:09 pm
Sorry, Fuzzy, to be a critic, but methinks you need another hobby in addition to country music. Too much minutiae. Reminds me of my grandfather who, decades ago, on a trip to Tennessee, asked a local at a gas station how to get from Dyersburg to Martin, and later told me, “Not only did he give me directions, but he described every damned fence post and culvert along the way.”
Fuzzy TwoShirts
June 5, 2023 @ 9:48 pm
Would you like me to infodump about fire emblem? I bet I know that franchise almost as well as my country music
Big Tex
June 6, 2023 @ 6:04 am
WOW! That says a LOT! For those of you, like me, who had no idea what “Fire Emblem” is, it’s a . . . get ready for this . . . video game. According to Roger Anderson, esteemed Stanford University psychologist, the game particularly appeals to “that certain subset of men-children who, even past the age of thirty, still reside in their mothers’ basements.”
Trigger
June 6, 2023 @ 7:06 am
Why are we cutting each other down here? Can we have a single article where folks just focus on the topic at hand?
Move on please.
Redwood guy
June 7, 2023 @ 10:48 pm
Maybe not the only one, but clearly you’re looking to be offended. There is the context to the statement, and then there are folks looking to be slighted or cant wait to catch someone in a gotcha moment. You are really reaching on this one
robbushblog
June 6, 2023 @ 10:18 pm
I wouldn’t forget “Luckenbach, Texas” or “Just to Satisfy You” either. I don’t know that either song would have been as popular without the two recording them together.
Corncaster
June 5, 2023 @ 12:36 pm
People back then were stories instead of brands.
JB
June 5, 2023 @ 12:40 pm
I loved it when Loretta would sing those suggestive duets in concert with her son standing in for Conway. Her son really played up the comical creepiness of the situation. He also told a great (offensive to many) golf joke.
Also, as far as duos, I’d put Conway and Loretta 2nd behind Porter and Dolly, George and Tammy a distant third if that (love them both individually, but together not as much).
old and in YOUR way
June 5, 2023 @ 1:05 pm
I have read that the reason Loretta and Doo were at Cox was because she was actually supposed to play the show that Conway performed. Doo had became ill and she canceled and Conway was scheduled to take her place.
Countryfan68
June 5, 2023 @ 1:11 pm
They were great together just like George and Tammy, one of my favorite songs of Conway and Loretta was the very humorous YOU’RE THE REASON OUR KIDS ARE UGLY. look it up on YouTube, it is a hoot, don’t know if it was ever released on an album, or was even a hit. But it is one of my most favorite songs of theirs. I miss them both.
Patricia Ann Bye
June 5, 2023 @ 5:02 pm
I love and miss Kenny and Dolly doing duets. Kenny I love and miss you everyday. What a beautiful soft voice????????
Countryfan68
June 6, 2023 @ 5:55 pm
Hey Patricia. Kenny rogers has a new cd of unreleased material 8 songs and 2 rarities, and one of those songs is a kenny and dolly song, name of the kenny rogers cd is LIFE IS LIKE A SONG And is on sale at Amazon. Just thought you would like to know.
JB
June 5, 2023 @ 7:44 pm
Thanks for the recommendation. I’ll check it out, as soon as I hang up the phone.
Tap
June 6, 2023 @ 4:56 pm
It really is a great, fun song. The melody is just as catchy as the lyrics. It’s on Honky Tonk Heroes.
Countryfan68
June 6, 2023 @ 6:32 pm
Thanks for the info.
Amanda
June 5, 2023 @ 2:54 pm
Love this story so much. I believe I remember Loretta saying she also called out to Conway’s spirit after he’d died and hollered for him to come back down. Legendary. Might have to go hunting for my VHS tape of Loretta Lynn on the Record with Ralph Emery!
Mary
June 6, 2023 @ 5:16 pm
I just read that in the new Conway Twitty book. I started reading it last night thinking I would read a chapter but couldn’t put it down. Unfortunately, I had to stop or I wouldn’t have made it to work. No TV tonight, getting ready to read some more tonight.
Carolyn Baker
June 5, 2023 @ 3:18 pm
My husband called me that morning to say Conway had died. I cried the entire day.
Nancy
June 5, 2023 @ 4:56 pm
These were two of the absolute greatest in country music! I grew up listening to every song they sang whether as a duet or independently. My 82 yr old mother still listens frequently, as do I. She is a huge fan and was heartbroken over his passing years ago and hers more recently. One thing is certain: they left behind some wonderful songs to be enjoyed for years to come.
bigtex
June 5, 2023 @ 7:34 pm
Sorry to repeat something I’ve posted before, but it’s so great I cannot resist. The late, VERY GREAT Lewis Grizzard did a routine concerning Conway and Conway’s smarmy, shallow, creepy “women songs,” and said, “I want Conway to take a long, cold shower right before he goes into the recording studio!”
JB
June 5, 2023 @ 7:56 pm
I’ll try to tell this joke as best I can. Want to do it justice especially for anyone who’s never heard it…
Back in the ‘70s, a preacher new in town started around,
going door to door, introducing himself.
The first house an old widow answered the door and said, “why are you Conway Twitty?” (Similar haircut I guess)
“No m’am, I’m the new preacher” he said.
He went to the next door and a mother with three young kids hanging around her said “goodness why you’re Conway Twitty!!!”
Exasperated, he repeated what he had said to the widow.
Finally he went to the third house. Knock, knock, knock. Eventually a young, pert blonde girl opened the door, wearing just a towel, having just gotten out of the shower.
She screamed “Conway Twitty!” as the towel dropped to the ground.
“Hello darlin”
Big Tex
June 6, 2023 @ 2:56 pm
I told that IDENTICAL joke about Conway some years ago to an elderly man I worked with and he informed me that the FIRST time he heard that joke was back in the 1960s, except Nat King Cole and “Ramblin’ Rose” were substituted for Conway and “Hello Darlin.”
Tao
June 6, 2023 @ 5:03 pm
That’s funny. It always worked well in my mind with Conway because he was sportin’ that Southern Baptist pompadour. In fact, I was listenin’ to Conway the other day. One of my daughters walked by, saw the cover art, and said, “Daddy, that boy looks like Elvis with a bad haircut.”
Luckyoldsun
June 6, 2023 @ 12:34 am
Bada bing!
Sharon M Umstead
June 6, 2023 @ 4:04 am
They were the best duo ever. That will never change. They were unbeatable . I always loved Loretta. She was the queen of country music in my eyes. I loved Conway too. Boy could he sing. So sad to have now lost them both.
Linda Henry
June 6, 2023 @ 4:32 am
I have seen Conway Twitty a few times and listened to wonderful voice over and over.
I also loved and still do love Loretta Lynn and to put the two together. ,was finomil.
I never knew the whole story until now. That reunion was meant to be.
CountryDJ
June 6, 2023 @ 5:32 am
For the record although this sad chapter of country music history may be unknown to many of today’s country fans, it was was widely covered and reported at the time of Conway’s passing. TNN (The Nashville Network) cable TV channel in particular gave it extensive coverage and offered multiple tributes. The fact that Loretta was present for her beloved singing partner’s passing made the situation even more tragic.
Due to his relatively young age Conway’s sudden death shook country fans around the world. It cast a very dark shadow over that year’s Fan Fair Because Conway was well known for not having a hard living lifestyle that included heavy drinking or drug abuse it made his untimely death even more shocking and surprising.
“The Best Friend A Song Ever Had” remains his legacy 30 years later..
DMI
June 6, 2023 @ 5:37 am
The only time I ever saw Loretta was at the 9:30 Club in D.C. in either 2008 or 2009. She told this story from the stage – it was very cool.
Twila Leedle
June 6, 2023 @ 6:15 am
I remember when I went to see the both of them where in Phoenix for a concert. Eddie Rabbit was there opening ack. I didn’t know who he was but I sure loved his music. I was the very first one at of all the people that where there to get there autograph. I miss all three of them.
Di Harris
June 6, 2023 @ 5:37 pm
“I stayed with Dee (Conway’s wife) and I stayed with the band for a while, and then I’d run up to see Doo, and then I’d run back to sit with Dee. And then I’d run back to see how Doo was, because he was in real bad shape.”
““After so long, here comes the chaplain,” Loretta continues. “‘Do you want to see Conway?’ I said, ‘Why, what’s wrong?’ he said, ‘Do you want to see him? You’re gonna see him for the last time alive.’ I said,’ Let me take Dee.’ I grabbed Dee by the hand and said, ‘Let’s go see Conway.’”
These things describe Loretta to a T.
Total Class.
hoptowntiger94
June 6, 2023 @ 7:12 pm
That’s one hell of a story.
Traci
June 7, 2023 @ 11:03 am
Conway’s son sounds just like him!!
Dana
June 7, 2023 @ 1:37 pm
We were so blessed to be at that concert in Branson the last one he ever did. My mom took us, and she had seen him several times before. She told us something was off with him that night. He was very talkative that evening. And after the show, he was sitting on stage visiting with all of us. Best concert ever, until he passed a few hours later. Memories…..
Shawn Droze
June 9, 2023 @ 2:40 pm
I saw Conway in 1990 here in Columbia South Carolina at the Carolina Coliseum. It was a wonderful show. I have over 100 of his CDs and cassette tapes. I really loved him. His birthday was September 1, 1933. I was born on September 1, 1960.
Beth Anderson
July 7, 2024 @ 2:29 pm
I really don’t think you can compare them with anyone! They all had something different but wonderful to add to the ” real” country music. They all just ‘fit’ with each other. Most of us know that if Conway was mentioned automatically, Loretta popped in your head too! To me all of them are legends and their music will never die! All of them are classic and legendary!
Ramesh Sheodin
December 2, 2024 @ 6:29 pm
I love them. That song by Conway and Joni lee is unforgettable.