50 Years Ago: David Allan Coe Records the “Perfect Country & Western Song”
We all know what the perfect country & western song is, because David Allan Coe told us what it is. He also told us why it was the perfect country & western song, and who wrote it. There’s no reason to debate what the perfect country & western song is. Well, you can, and maybe will. But you’ll be wrong. At least according to David Allan Coe.
50 years ago today—August 20th, 1974—David Allan Coe walked into Columbia Studio A in Nashville and recorded “You Never Even Called Me By My Name.” It would ultimately become part of his album Once Upon a Rhyme released in June of 1975, and would be the third single released from the album. It would also become Coe’s first Top 10 single, and arguably put Coe on the national map.
The musicians who played on the song that day were some of the best that country music has ever seen, including Country Music Hall of Famer’s Pete Drake on dobro and steel guitar, and Hargus “Pig” Robbins on piano. But it’s really the songwriters that tell the deeper story of the song that would go on to help define David Allan Coe’s career, country music of the ’70s, and country music at large.
As fellow songwriters who emerged from the Chicago folk scene, John Prine and Steve Goodman were good buds, and at times, co-writers. That was the case for “You Never Even Called Me By My Name.” Steve Goodman included a version of the song on his 1971 self-titled album, but neither Goodman’s version nor David Allan Coe’s included John Prine in the writing credits.
“You Never Even Called Me By My Name” was written in a luxury suite at the Waldorf Astoria Hotel in New York City—not exactly where you would expect the “perfect country & western song” to be written. As budding songwriters, neither John Prine nor Steve Goodman had any business being in a Waldorf suite, but they had just been signed by the same people who were managing singer Paul Anka at the time, and Anka was playing a show at the Waldorf in New York on the day Prine and Goodman happened to be in the city finalizing their contracts.
“They gave Paul this grand suite that everybody that plays there gets at the Waldorf Astoria as a dressing room,” Prine explained in a 1987 interview on WNEW-FM. “So Paul didn’t need it because he resided in New York City at the time. So he said, ‘Why don’t you and Stevie use it if you want to write or something?’”
Goodman retired to the suite, but Prine decided he wanted to go down to Greenwich Village for a while, hitting up a couple of bars and clubs, and returned to find Goodman working on a song.
“I look over his shoulder and he’s got two lines down: ‘Well, it was all that I could do to keep from crying. Sometimes it seems so useless to remain.’ And I felt kind of goofy so I got up and started jumping up and down on the bed and started playing an imaginary fiddle. I said ‘Steve, oh you’re right, a real weeper.’ I started getting on his case. So we started laughing. And since it was a dressing room for Paul Anka, they had a full bar set up. So me and Goodman took a bunch of different liquors and poured them in the sink with the plug in the sink, and we mixed a special cocktail punch … I said to Stevie, ‘We got to make this a funny song.’”
As funny as it turned out, a sober John Prine decided later that he did not want to sign his John Hancock to the composition. “I wouldn’t put my name on it ’cause I thought it sucked,” Prine remarked in his 2016 picture and lyric book, Beyond Words. “Then it went to number one! That’s how I found out what a number one song is.”
Well, “You Never Even Called Me By My Name” didn’t quite make it to #1. It officially hit #8 in country. But it did make Steve Goodman a healthy chunk of cash. David Allan Coe also dropped Steve Goodman’s name in the iconic final verse of the song where it’s officially made “perfect” by naming off “Mama, trains, trucks, prison, and gettin’ drunk.” This also gave Steve Goodman quite a boost in name recognition, at least among country music fans.
All of this left Steve Goodman feeling guilty for not cutting John Prine into the credits. So in lieu of royalty payments, Goodman bought Prine a top-of-the-line Wurlitzer jukebox. For many years it sat in the Butcher Shoppe recording studio in Nashville that Prine opened with famed producer David Ferguson.
An official post from John Prine in early 2017 further clarified that Prine “…didn’t want offend the country community, so he refused a writer’s credit,” speaking to the character of Prine, and his respect for the country music community that he never quite fit in perfectly as more of a folk-oriented songwriter, but still found plenty of positive reception from throughout his career.
In October of 2023, John Prine’s family donated the legendary Wurlitzer jukebox to the Country Music Hall of Fame where it will be preserved forevermore as a physical representation of the success of David Allan Coe’s version of “You Never Even Called Me By My Name,” and of the friendship between two legendary songwriters, John Prine and Steve Goodman.
Meanwhile, here 50 years later after its release, “You Never Even Called Me By My Name” remains one of the most recognized and beloved songs in country music history. It symbolizes country music’s ability to make fun of itself, and to embrace it’s clichés. But it also symbolizes how country music speaks to the everyday lives of rural Americans, their triumphs, their struggles, their heartbreaks, and of course, mama.
Hoss
August 20, 2024 @ 7:53 am
I was a teenager when it was first released, and it just knocked me out. I had to have it, and I ran a needle through the record.
Strait
August 20, 2024 @ 2:39 pm
Shame how many old phrases don’t hold any meaning anymore.
Saying “played it til the home button stopped working on my iphone” doesnt hit the same.
Michael
August 20, 2024 @ 8:21 am
I love the song and hearing it in college bars late at night and singing along are fond memories for me
The article is not about David Allan Coe I know, but his relationship with Tyler is sad to me. I know we all have issues with relatives, frankly you’re the weird one if you don’t think you have weird relatives but still.
Very challenging stuff and a good reminder to appreciate these people for their talents but never make them into hero’s and role models. That should be reserved for people you know
JPalmer
August 20, 2024 @ 1:26 pm
His son is just an internet troll who even made a podcast to troll bands and musicians.
James
August 21, 2024 @ 9:12 am
One of his podcasts is, as you say, a troll site. But his C & R podcast is pretty great. Especially Season One
Fm to C
August 20, 2024 @ 8:42 am
Prine, Coe, and Goodman are three of the giants whose work still isn’t as appreciated as it should be. Prine’s late-career resurgence helped but he still remains the kind of artist country music nerds try to convince casual fans about. Coe’s more famous than appreciated, I think: his Rides Again LP is one of the top 5 country albums of all time and his 70s work is as strong as that of his more name-dropped contemporaries. And Goodman will always be remembered for this and City of New Orleans but has a lot of other great songs too.
CountryDJ
August 20, 2024 @ 8:43 am
Columbia released two versions of this song.
The original album version from the Once Upon A Rhyme LP had a running time of about 5:15
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4pZFsEdP3Y
In the mid-70’s the duration of most country singles seldom exceeded 4 minutes. To shorten the song to a more acceptable “radio friendly” length, Columbia excised one verse and a chorus .The edited 4:02 version was issued as the single and was played by most radio stations at that time. But so far the single edit has not been issued on a CD or as a download. In recent years the complete album version is the one played by country oldies stations & internet streaming channels.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJsRqSDpQBM
FT
August 20, 2024 @ 4:04 pm
Nice, I didnt know this. I just checked my vinyl copy and I have the 5:12 version.
Wesley Gray
August 20, 2024 @ 9:45 am
it came on the radio while I was closing up shop the other day and I was working alone. sang it at the top of my lungs with a shit-eating grin on my face, as always. 👊
LORETTA TWITTY
August 20, 2024 @ 10:42 am
It’s one of the top karaoked tunes for sure. LOVE IT!
IdahoJoe
August 20, 2024 @ 11:41 am
Amazing backstory to the “Perfect Country & Western Song”. I had no idea that is how it came to be. Glad the jukebox made it’s way to the Country Music Hall of Fame.
Ian
August 20, 2024 @ 12:13 pm
This was certainly a success for Steve Goodman but he had already had songs covered by Jimmy Buffet (for one) and had been the cache to get Kris Kristofferson to come out and see Prine in Chicago and get him signed. Goodman was also a hell of a good lead guitar player as demonstrated on his own albums and albums of his friends (Jimmy Buffet for sure). I just got a bunch of Coe and Goodman vinyl and it has been great listening to deep cuts this past few months!
Sllofoot
August 20, 2024 @ 12:34 pm
The next time I see a Prine anecdote that disappoints me will be the first.
Thanks for this article. It got my listening to David Allen Coe today and that’s a good thing!
Myron
August 20, 2024 @ 1:58 pm
Always loved this song, but they used to play the last verse at 5 O’clock on Friday on one of the Portland country stations. Perfect start to any weekend!
Justin
August 20, 2024 @ 4:31 pm
Goodman was not a happy camper with Coe after taking liberties on the last verse when he first heard it. After venting his frustrations toKris Kristofferson, Kris basically told em that it was a good thing that country radio was getting to hear his name hourly being played over the radio.
trevistrat
August 20, 2024 @ 4:58 pm
According to the “Always Jukin’ Guide to Collectible Jukeboxes”, this is a World War 2 era “Victory” cabinet (all glass and wood- no plastic or metal) with 1941 Wurlitzer model 750 guts. Holds 24 78’s,only plays one side. VERY collectible.
Trigger
August 20, 2024 @ 5:13 pm
Yes, then you put this story behind it, I can’t imagine what the value is. Good on them giving it to the Hall of Fame.
bigtex
August 20, 2024 @ 5:23 pm
Get on youtube and look up Steve Goodman singing “The 20th Century Is Almost Over,” before a live audience. It’s as good as it gets.
Luckyoldsun
August 20, 2024 @ 5:50 pm
I did. It gave me a headache.
Tunesmiff
August 20, 2024 @ 5:29 pm
First time I heard this was after work one night when a bunch of us parked down in a gravel lot behind the Caterpillar dealer, along the Chattahoochee River (before Alan Jackson made it famous), blaring it from the radios in two or three pickups, drinking beer and eating Doritos and pimento cheese dip by the glow of headlights… takes me back every single time I hear it…
Proofreeder
August 20, 2024 @ 9:02 pm
The over/under line is 3 for how many times a day this song will be played at the Florabama. It will get a rousing response every time.
Sam Cody
August 21, 2024 @ 6:30 am
Actually, it was not the perfect country & western song, because it did not mention chugging White Claws, shopping for cowboy crocs, screwing in the cornfield, or acting like a baby and throwing furniture off a roof…
WuK
August 21, 2024 @ 7:54 am
It was a great song when released. It is still a great song. It has stood the test of time well. I once saw David Allan Coe on tour in the UK and it was a bizarre performance. He sang and when he did he was very good but most of his act was fairly poor magic tricks. Very odd.
Confederate Railroad Fan
August 22, 2024 @ 11:11 am
Similar concert in Illinois about 20 years ago. But no magic. He might have sorcerer stoned, and was certainly drunk. Wandered off stage midsong and never returned.
Jumbo Shrimp
August 21, 2024 @ 8:09 am
Like a lot of others I have soooo many good memories that have that song as a soundtrack.
Thanks for bringing them back to mind this morning.
Woogeroo
August 21, 2024 @ 9:40 pm
I still belt it out at top volume when I listen to it.
Roger
August 21, 2024 @ 11:30 pm
I play music for a living as a solo act in the Florida Keys…when I start that song by singing “It was all….that I could do…to keep from crying” it’s like turning on a switch to have people sing along! It’s an interesting classic song and I love playing it!
Rich
August 22, 2024 @ 9:31 am
About 6 or so years ago when I finally discovered independent country music I decided I needed to bone up on country music history and googled “songs every country fan must know to not feel stupid when everyone else is singing along”. Of that list which included songs like Family Tradition, Ring of Fire, Long Haired Country Boy, Are You Sure Hank Done it This Way, etc…. the only two I was really familiar with was this one and Jolene. So that says something about how recognizable this song is. It’s still everywhere and many country or country-adjacent cover bands that I see close the show with it for good reason.
goldenglamourboybradyblocker71
October 13, 2024 @ 10:51 am
You learn every day,and who’d have believed this “perfect Country song” was been written in Gotham’s ritzy Waldorf Astoria hotel,but “You Never Even Called Me By My Name” is one of the great (as well as criminally underrated) Country songs in the genre’s history,and it buttressed Steve Goodman’s already superstar writing chops. DAC homered (a FIVE HUNDRED FOOT blast !!!!!!) with that hit,which will never be forgotten.RIP,Steve,now 40 years deceased but very much alive in Country fans’ heart.