Naomi Judd Was Open About Mental Illness, Thoughts of Suicide

The country music world and many beyond are in shock after the sudden and unexpected passing of country music icon and Hall of Famer Naomi Judd of The Judds on Saturday, April 30th at the age of 76. Though Naomi Judd had experienced health struggles throughout her life and career, including a diagnosis of Hepatitis C in 1991 that ended full-time touring of the duo, it’s the ominous statement from Naomi Judd’s two famous daughters—fellow Judds member Wynonna, and actress Ashley—that has many especially saddened and concerned about the situation.
“Today we sisters experienced a tragedy. We lost our beautiful mother to the disease of mental illness,” Wynonna and Ashley said in a joint statement. “We are shattered. We are navigating profound grief and know that as we loved her, she was loved by her public. We are in unknown territory.”
Though it’s easy to speculate about what this statement means, the truth is that we do not have any confirmation at this moment (at the time of this post) that Naomi Judd died of suicide. What we do know is that Naomi Judd struggled publicly with mental illness throughout her life. But instead of hiding it, she tried to use her experience with the disease to share her wisdom, and inspire others to work through their struggles, and spoke openly about suicide and how it is preventable.
In December of 2016, Naomi Judd published a memoir on her struggles with mental illness called River of Time: My Descent into Depression and How I Emerged with Hope.
In the book, she chronicled her battles with depression brought on by a childhood in a family with many secrets and haunted by the death of one of her young siblings while receiving little or no emotional support within the family structure. Later Naomi found herself reluctantly married and expecting her first child when she was just 17. Four years after, she was a single mom with two young children who had survived being beaten and raped, and ultimately abandoned without financial support. After attending nursing school, Naomi eventually decided to start The Judds with Wynonna, where she finally found stability, and eventually popular success through country music.
But this was in no way the end of Naomi Judd’s emotional problems. Though she battled through her Hepatitis C diagnosis to eventually become free of the disease five years later, after finishing a reunion tour with daughter Wynonna in 2011, Naomi Judd suffered the worst health crisis of her life. She was diagnosed with Severe Treatment Resistant Depression and anxiety, suffering through ineffective treatments and therapies including antidepressants and other drugs, ultimately resulting in thoughts of suicide when she felt like she had no other choice.
But Naomi Judd persevered, eventually penning River of Time: My Descent into Depression to hopefully help others find a way out of the severe depths of depression she found herself in.
As Naomi Judd explained about her illness, “I literally couldn’t leave the house for weeks. I was completely immobilized and every single second was like a day. It’s so beyond making sense but I thought, ‘Surely my family will know that I was in so much pain and I thought they would have wanted me to end that pain [through suicide].’”
In October of 2018 during Mental Heath Awareness Week and in the wake of Suicide Prevention Month, Naomi Judd, along with physician Daniel R. Weinberger, M.D., penned an open letter addressing the suicide epidemic, stating, “suicide is actually one of the leading causes of preventable death among these mental illnesses.”
The open letter said in part,
For everyone mourning the death of someone who committed suicide, an inevitable question arises: Why did this happen? Unfortunately, we don’t have very good answers. We do know that suicidal behavior accompanies many behavioral brain disorders such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and depression. Suicide is actually one of the leading causes of preventable death among these mental illnesses. Addiction is another common brain disorder in people who commit suicide …
Currently a disproportionate amount of research focuses on suicide as a sociological and psychological phenomenon, but the latest studies on aggression and impulsivity may give us better answers...
It is also clear from many studies that suicide runs in families and has some genetic roots. In fact, studies of twins show that 43 percent of the likelihood of committing suicide is determined by one’s genes. While it remains unclear which specific genes contribute to risk of suicidal behavior, family studies have consistently found that suicidal behavior is partially explained by transmission within families of impulsive and aggressive traits. And relatives of suicide completers have been found to have elevated levels of impulsive-aggressive traits and are themselves more likely to have histories of suicidal behavior.
To understand this issue better, we have to bring the study of suicide into mainstream neuroscience and treat the condition like every other brain disorder. People who commit suicide are experiencing problems with mood, impulse control and aggression, all of which involve discrete circuits in the brain that regulate these aspects of human experience, but we still don’t understand how these circuits go haywire in the brains of suicide victims.
Refocusing suicide research necessitates public and private collaborations. Right now about six times as many people in the United States die by taking their own lives as do from HIV/AIDS or heart disease, but the money to study suicide is lacking. In a recent column for the New York Times, Dr. Richard Friedman highlighted this funding disparity, noting that heart disease researchers receive 29 times the amount of federal funds than suicide and suicide prevention scientists. In fact, the federal government spent more money last year to study dietary supplements than to understand why Americans decide to take their own lives.
It’s about time we do better.
Compounding the concern and grief felt at the death of Naomi Judd is that she was scheduled to be formally inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame in the institution’s annual Medallion Ceremony on Sunday, May 1st—the day after she passed. Though it’s comforting to many country fans to know that Naomi Judd was still alive to enjoy the honor of becoming a Country Music Hall of Famer, some wonder if the pressure of having to appear, perform, and speak might have been too much for her.
But the induction of The Judds into the Country Music Hall of Fame was the country music community coming together to honor Naomi and Wynonna for their contributions to popular American culture, including the duo’s perseverance through adversity, which is so integral to their story. This year’s Hall of Fame Medallion Ceremony is certain be a sullen one, but inducting The Judds was most certainly the right move by the Hall of Fame, and not too soon.
Naomi and daughter Wynonna also both recently performed their song “Love Can Build A Bridge” written by Naomi Judd, with Paul Overstreet and John Barlow Jarvis on the 2022 CMT Awards on April 11th. The song was one of the duo’s final hits in 1990. On the same day, the duo also announced they would be embarking on a 10-date “final tour” starting on September 30th.
That tour will now no longer happen, but country music fans can feel sated that before Naomi Judd passed, their debt of gratitude to her and The Judds had been paid through the Hall of Fame recognition. And through Naomi’s words and experiences with mental illness that she was so open and expressive about, hopefully others can find hope and perseverance through this most tragic illness in Naomi Judd’s memory.
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If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
April 30, 2022 @ 6:32 pm
What a thoughtful and poignant essay you have written to address this tragic loss. I’ve commented in the past about the quality of your obituaries and the grace with which you mark these passings. This piece may be your finest and most cohesive yet. Thank you.
April 30, 2022 @ 10:59 pm
I don’t know if anyone else Saw or felt like this when they last performed just days ago, but I thought something doesn’t look right about her and I told my wife I don’t see how she will be able to do that last good bye tour that was to happen. Well bless her heart she is in God’s hands now. She was a great talent and a even greater person to boot. May she rest in peace and may God be with the family, friend’s and us fans that loved her….
May 1, 2022 @ 9:31 am
Yes I thought it was just me. ????
May 1, 2022 @ 1:33 pm
I agree. I felt the same. Bless her heart. She is resting in the arms of Jesus now.
May 4, 2022 @ 4:23 pm
LISTEN FOLKS
Though I am sorry this lil’ country singing drama queen self proclaimed princess died…
GET THIS- NOBODY THAT COMMITS SUICIDE(a very final & selfish act hurting surviving loved ones for the rest of their lives) and I mean nobody EVER GOES TO HEAVEN OR gets to SEE JESUS or our lord and maker!
Its my guess she committed suicide as a side-effect of any and all nasty brain altering Anti-depressants, which warn on each label and inside the packet of multiple warnings and dangers(especially for children, young adults and seniors) of suicidal thoughts and increased anxiety, along with sleep disturbances etc. WAKE UP WORLD!!
My heart goes out to the family that did not cause or deserve this irreversible loss, shock, heartache, shame, and ultimate self-blame – though nobody is ever responsible for someone selfishly taking their own life.
I refused to take anti-depressants anymore (20+ yrs ago)when these death pills made me gain 20+ pounds, created what is now life-long insomnia, had me crying more than when not on pills, having total break-downs and bouncing off the walls- then contemplating suicide as a solution to stop the not so merry go round and dazed fog of a lifeless existence i had while on them.
It took the courage, honesty, and ethics of my E.R. doctor & I.C.U. nurse friends to admit the truth- “Anti-depressants do not work and often make some people worse”! They advised me to get off anti-depressants and all mind- altering Rx- we mostly treat doctor-prescribed medication reactions and overdoses in the E.R.- just as much as gun shot wounds or more”!
PEOPLE there are a plethora of other natural & holistic things to take or do to treat depression and anxiety without causing more anxiety, depression, psychosis, or suicide and the numbing and dumbing down of humans to the point of suicide like: getting off all chemicals, preservatives, food dyes, MSG, Aspartame, specialized nutrition, Organics(NO PESTICIDES) Increased Vitamin B’s and D, Brisk Walking *daily*, meditation, yoga, writing, painting, comedy, spending time with friends and family, Kava Kava, Sam-E, Calm (Calcium Magnesium), Guided Imagery, Reiki & healing massage, psychotherapy(NOT PSYCHIATRY & pills that KILL and show no proof in 50+ years to ever heal depression, anxiety, or stop a pewrsons will to die and be gone. (see The Psychiatry of Death movie- where a conference group of 200+ psychiatrists admit “anti-depressants & mind-altering drugs do not work”yet that’s all they know to prescribe!!
WE as a society have to stop being sheep following the greedy doctor$ off the preverbal cliff with these pills the industry absolutely knows are dangerous if not lethal and do not cure anyone!
I’m so sorry you have to go through this Ashley and Wynonna- or any other person who has lost someone to depression(rather the pills and potions that historically do not cure anybody or anything0 and have left you feeling angry, sad, and in shock. ITS NOT yOUR FAULT PEOPLE its the greedy big pharma and demonic self-serving doctors making $200,000-$500,000 a year profiting as they continue prescribing addictive & brain-altering, spirit & motivation killing & energy and life sapping pills they know are not the answer.
Why do you think doctors carry so much liability insurance these days?!
Wake-up world. God gave us a brain to take care of not suppress with
DRUG that KILL.
I’m just saying….
May 5, 2022 @ 11:34 am
Sometimes people opinions should be kept to themselves…
May 7, 2022 @ 8:59 pm
Edm
No wonder you won’t publish your name!!! You’re a foolish person…… you’re a blatant hypocrite!!!!!! God is Love. And the Bible speaks plainly of persons that can’t see the board in their own eye for the speck in someone else’s eye!!!!! Who made you “a god” (must have been a demon) to say such things as you posted about mental illness and such you show your total ignorance to life on earth……
Judgement that you have cast is more evil and vile than anything that tells of God and His Love and Mercy.
If you had a terminal physical illness …would you deny a medication that would possibly give you a hope to live or would you just die!!!!!! You get a physical TERMINAL illness you better pray you can have some mighty powerful pain medications. Do you live under a rock and sit on the front pew of the church you might attend or just make life up as you go and as you see it!!!!! God is the Judge ….. not YOU……
Your post is outrageous and insane….. you seem to need some psychiatric medications as your rant on a subject that you apparently are totally ignorant about is so horrible. Yes all need to get on there knees and if at church any person feels led to the altar to pray to God for anything that they need to pray to our Lord and Savior about that’s what they should do. You should plead for mercy after the most judgmental post about mental health issues and treatments are concerned.
God Bless your soul And you wake up! You never know what might come into your life in the form of an evil illness …. It may be physical or mental but no one is exempt from either. Take a dose of your own medicine but you might choke on it!!!! You cast the first stone if you have no sin!!!! To have no sin or sickness you are Jesus or you have died already and your madness that you posted came not from heaven but the pits of hell……
May 10, 2022 @ 12:00 pm
Really you aren’t Naomi you have no idea what was going on with her Jesus teaches us judge not or you will be judge None of us are in her body we don’t know how she was feeling but when no one has any answers for you and you go to doctors and they tell you take this you will be better she would never want to hurt her family she tried to fight her feelings for so long obviously Naomi will dwell in the house of the lord forever she will hurt no more
May 12, 2022 @ 11:32 am
You started out not making sense and ended making even less with your comment “IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT PEOPLE.” If it wasn’t her fault, why would a just God shut the door in her face if she’s found in the book of life? Are you the self-professes judge for everyone’s eternity or just Naomi’s , oh compassionate one?
May 13, 2022 @ 7:14 pm
Being that God is imaginary, nobody goes to heaven, so who gives a crap? Also, if it is an effect of medication, how is it a selfish act?
May 16, 2022 @ 12:25 pm
You’re wrong,
God recognizes and blessed individuals with Mental Illness and Emotional disorders,which Borderline Personality Disorder is.
It is one of the cruelest disorders a person could have,it destroys hope,sense of self,and leaves those suffering with it,and we are truly suffering,with the belief we are unlovable,undeserving,worthless and useless.
People we with B
May 16, 2022 @ 12:35 pm
People with Borderline Personality Disorder exist in a real world of literal pain.
The brain is in literally changed,we live in fear,the greatest being that of abandonment,which Naomi suffered from intensely.
There are no medications that treat it,but the other disorders can be, which helps a bit,but the suicidal ideation remains.
We don’t want to die to escape,we truly and fully believe that the world would be a happier place without us.
May 1, 2022 @ 4:08 pm
I thought the same exact thing. She did appear as if she had as not fully present. I thought so beautiful to your as mother daughter one last time but I just didn’t see her as well enough to take something on like a tour looking not herself. RIP beautiful Naomi.
May 3, 2022 @ 9:58 am
I agree I have bipolar 2 , anxiety, ptsd and boarderline personality disorder. She looked like she was extremely depressed and in psychosis.
May 28, 2022 @ 8:34 pm
Good for her. Suicide Awareness is very important. I first tried when I was 8 due to childhood trauma. Awareness is SO SO important and reasons behind it. Since then I’ve tried 10 times and I believe I was saved every time because I have a higher purpose.
April 30, 2022 @ 6:41 pm
Rest in Peace Naomi… Godspeed on angels’ wings.
April 30, 2022 @ 7:11 pm
I was so sad reading this news tonight. Naomi and Wynonna were some of the greatest in the industry. Her unfortunate sudden end to her career after getting diagnosed with Hepatitis C was unfortunate but her fighting for mental illness was also inspiring. As another great once said, “Who’s gonna fill their shoes?
April 30, 2022 @ 7:14 pm
Depression is so unhealthy. A trusting friend helps. I live this daily. God hear our prayers, rest your arms around Naomi. Amen.
April 30, 2022 @ 7:26 pm
Naomi had a hard life and certainly an abusive young childhood. That is something that is hard to get away from. So sad all the way around.
May 1, 2022 @ 11:08 am
Saw the Judds performance at Bush Gardens Williamsburg in 90. Great show. She is beautiful women. Great women raised 2 beautiful talented women
Sad day for family friends and fans
Rest in peace your music will live on Linda and Jerry Swartz
May 1, 2022 @ 1:42 pm
Growing up in that same region having a hard time growing up is a real bad problem there. You never really get over it. Money, success and fame can’t overcome the bad things that happen when you’re really young.
April 30, 2022 @ 7:27 pm
DEPRESSION is SATAN’S TOOL to fool them. So many people have depression with COVID, did not help at all 2 years ago! Wish I could help Naomi Judd; praying for people need help of suicide help is there for HOPE of JESUS CHRIST!
April 30, 2022 @ 9:04 pm
She was a very important part of the music of my youth.
She had everything. Yet menal illness plagued her.
To the poster above, this had nothing to do with Covid. She wrote extensively about her struggles way before Covid. As someone with a disease that leaves me immuno compromised, I lived in strict isolation for almost a year. And yes. I was depressed.
But being depressed is different than suffering from chronic depression.
Don’t blame Covid for this.
Naomi deserves to have her story told and not to be a dart thrown in our political culture wars.
May 1, 2022 @ 4:02 am
Not COMPLAINING COVID at all, CeeCeeBee; I watched several years ago with Wynonna & Naomi’s 2 buses, not one bus, but 2 buses with Wynonna & Naomi because of “mental illnesses” or called it “DEMONIC POSSESSION” ON tour with Wynonna & Naomi bickering with each other, which I did not know at all, which was too bad. Naomi did have her therapist, too; but too late, sadly. Wish Isaiah Saldivar, Daniel Adams, or Bob Larson of DELIVERANCE of Jesus Christ could save Naomi Judd aka Diana Judd come out, but she allegedly come suicide.
May 1, 2022 @ 9:39 pm
Good lord, Roxanne. Get professional help and find someone with a higher IQ to point out scriptures that refute the nonsense that you spew. Depression is not demonic depression. ????
May 2, 2022 @ 3:46 am
Afraid it IS, Jimmy! JESUS IS COMING SOON OF REPENT OF SINFUL WAYS. Praying for YOU, Jimmy.
May 7, 2022 @ 9:45 pm
Absolutely Jimmy….. these folks spewing ignorance is putrid and definitely not Biblical!!!’ Edm and Roxanne are showing only what they know and to say what there minds are messed up with and their fingers can peck.
Let it be a physical illness and worse a terminal illness….. these ignorant IQ Bible reading one verse and not the full chapter or even the full Bible Roxanne and Edm know nothing of God in the Bible I read….. KJV ….. God is Love! We live in the world and the world is not with out sin and because of sin it effects ALL (repent or not…. No one is exempt from evil). Physical or mental illness are both evil. I bet if (it maybe already has) but let a terminal illness come knocking at her door….. would she go to the dr and take a medication prescribed or just say here I am Lord …. like a lamb to slaughter…. I repent and I believe so I don’t need any medication to help me because I repent Lord you will keep me from dying!!!! Nope that’s not the way it works nor does the Bible teach. Spouting out at the mouth as judge and jury us detestable by God. God is Love….. and satan is the cause of all things evil ….. sickness both physical and mental. If you’ve never been physically sick ….. you will be one day and you will hope for a medication for relief….. even if it’s a yeast infection!!!! If it be worse yes you’ll take pill to get well. If it’s a physical terminal illness, you’ll beg for a pill to keep you from pain and agony and then you will die….all die and God Loves ALL who love Him as Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Yes Roxanne REPENT…. You speak as a hypocrite….. such is not of heaven to cast stones at others …. Look at your own self Roxanne. Shame on such vile and wicked talk that you know so little of. Life on earth is real. The flesh is flesh …. Only God knows what our minds even think we might comprehend (that is little too even the greatest theologians know little) ….. I dare you know as much as you spout!
May 4, 2022 @ 1:53 pm
Treatment resistant depression is a brain chemical disorder it has not one damn thing to do with religion. It has to do with science and medicine.
As I mentioned, I had a friend who had it. She was smart, successful, absolutely gorgeous and had a lot of friends who loved and supported her. She still hung herself.
So please, stop with this nonsense. It’s disrespectful to the people suffering from this awful disease.
May 1, 2022 @ 4:39 am
Ceeceebee I don’t think she was actually blaming Covid – Covid just amplified things
May 1, 2022 @ 7:51 am
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May 1, 2022 @ 11:47 pm
Last name checks out
April 30, 2022 @ 7:42 pm
I read Naomi Judd’s book, A River of Time, a couple of years ago. Her book revealed her very difficult struggles with depression, severe panic attacks and suicidal thoughts. She really tried hard to overcome these.. She was so honest about everything. At the end of the book, she had an appendix which listed various organizations and methods to help others with depression. She admitted she still struggled but was better. I am sad to hear Naomi Judd is gone. She was a beautiful person and a very talented artist. She loved her family and knew she was loved in return. I pray she is at peace with her heavenly father. And may her family be comforted.
May 1, 2022 @ 6:53 am
Perhaps all the trauma of her youth ????my heart goes out to her girls and her family ❤️
April 30, 2022 @ 8:12 pm
Mental illness and depression are no matter what so misunderstood and unrecognized as the major issue that they are. Such are not like physical illnesses. No cast, operation, antibiotic, treatments can truly cure what goes on in the brain ….I’ve seen it all my life. I do agree for so many it is a genetic disorder. 3 uncles and a 1st cousin committed suicide and others I’m aware of aunts and cousins suffered or suffer from severe depression. All the mental illness and depression issues I know of in our family are without a doubt a connection as I have observed other behavior issues. Obsessive disorders, anxiety and panic attack disorders. Aggressive, impulsive, anger and countless what most consider as “not normal” yet @ “what’s normal” is a big question if to be born with these genetics and it’s the only “normal” you know.
Society put mental health issues and illnesses on the back burner so long ago as it was once to hide. So many were institutionalized and many unnecessary.
Yet there are degrees of mental disorders that are like stages of cancer or many terminal illnesses …. but the mental health system treats all as the same stage. So many with severe mental illness issues need a safe, secure environment to live and if more than one medication is needed a big problem arises. A severely mentally ill or depressed person cannot be responsible to medicate themselves properly with out help and constant supervision. If you are not a celebrity, you are shunned by society and often times family too. It’s a never ending battle that reeks havoc in a family. It takes a strong family to deal with the never ending UPs and DOWNs of a family member or members suffering with a mental issue that to get the family member help requires a court ordered paper to have the person picked up by untrained law officers that often times treat the mental crisis situation as a crime. Yet they take your family member to the hospital ER to be accessed to send to a so called “stabilization facility”. Rarely if ever have I seen any family member in our family or extended family be released any where close to stable. It’s a viscous cycle until the next time! I truly believe there still should be some permanent places to house severely mentally ill or depressed persons. Yet there are few to none unless you have a lot of financial resources which is more often than not the case! The other issue is the MANY with mental and emotional disorders that it’s as it seems impossible to expect to house the multitudes. The answer is hard to even expect a good sound answer…. I don’t see there to be one. Many with severe mental issues end up in jail or living in the streets! No help for the so many that are suffering with such issues and society today to have housing for so many and health care givers for such is impossible. Another issue would be “Rights” …. If one is housed then the others not suffering with severe needs would be going to the court system for rights to fair treatment. I see mental health issues as a no win situation for society, families and most of all persons that need help for severe mental diagnosis.
I’m sure many will disagree with my opinion and more than my opinion….. I’ve seen so much in our family s and extended family. I’ve dealt with a brother that 47 years was plagued with mental illness and our parents and then we grown siblings fighting a harder than hard system to get true help for our brother. I can hope the attention and rights to help a person with severe mental issues can get the recognition it needs for those persons. Those with such issues often don’t recognize their severe mental illness. Severe depression is often recognized as did Naomi Judd but it’s as her comment a deep dark place that you see no way out…..please help those who need help and leave off so much Ted tape…. It all that is too often too little and too late!
Rest In Peace Naomi
May 1, 2022 @ 8:09 pm
I agree with you completely Teresa D. Our mental health care system is broken. I live in California, and here, the politicians still blame Governor Reagan for closing down the psychiatric hospitals, even though they’ve had around 50 years to reopen them! Instead, we have mentally ill and drug addicted homeless walking around here like The Walking Dead. Then, when they try to put forced treatment into place, people scream “that’s inhumane!” I’ll tell you what’s inhumane, letting poor mentally ill people walk around in a mental fog, like aliens from another planet, living worse than dogs. Now there’s so much money in place for the mentally ill in California but it’s helping no one but politicians and whoever else can get their hands on the money – certainly not the homeless. I have a son who clearly needs medication but won’t listen to me or anyone else and without it is doomed to a terrible existence. It makes me despair. For anyone who suffers from mental illness or has a family member who suffers, I feel nothing but compassion for you. I certainly feel for Naomi, her daughters and all of her friends and family.
May 1, 2022 @ 8:19 pm
Teresa you’ve said it all! I too am realizing I am dealing with depression that has gone untreated for many years. Having experienced so much difficulties as an adult and reflecting on the emotional and physical abuse I suffered as a child is now coming to head. I’ve accepted this harsh reality because my friends and some family members have told me to seek help in very unsavory ways adding to the emotional pain, and stigma that revolves around mental health. Thanks for taking the time to write about the experiences you’ve had while being there for your parents and a sibling dealing with mental health. I find it mind boggling and intresting regarding how little of an attention is being given to mental health crisis despite all the preventable deaths by suicide that have been and are continuing to occur lately. I am afraid to seek treatment because of the stigma and all the problems that go along with having a medical record, and yet I know that needs to be done. I have thought of suicide at times, but I know that’s not the answer and so I continue to suffer in silence. I am thinking of seeing a Psychiatrist hopefully soon despite my fears. Naomi Judd reconized her mental and emotional disorder for what they were, but for some of us sufferers we’re still fighting it by being in denial. You mentioned you weren’t aware if there’s a fix to the mental health crisis pleaguing so many, and I’m here to say a resounding yes there is a fix! There will be a time right here on earth when all illnesses whether physical, emotional or mental will be done away with forever by our Creator Himself! If you are a Bible reader please join me in taking comfort in the words found at Isaiah chapter 33 verse 24, and Isaiah 65 verse 17! A BRIGHT future awaits all sufferers of depression and any illment that is being experienced. Thanks so much for inspiring me to want to seek help so it doesn’t become to late.
May 3, 2022 @ 6:23 pm
Please reach out and seek help. We have several family members with the disease, and by the Grace of God found help and so far doing good.
Several ways to start, is going to any 12 step group. I found Alanon incredibly helpful. Helped me cope with childhood abuse and many many other issues.
Blessings to you, have peace.
May 27, 2022 @ 8:05 am
Everything is not mental illness.
There is a deliberate attempt to get people into the mental health facilities, hospitals , or jails.
It’s called trauma based mind control.
May 28, 2022 @ 8:47 pm
WHAT?????? mind control. I truly don’t believe you said that. Have you been beat and raped as a child. I certainly hope NOT. learn what you’re talking about
April 30, 2022 @ 8:32 pm
What a beautiful and insightful tribute to Naomi Judd. May this profound essay help others to recognize how debilitating depression and mental illness struggles and their outcome can be for both those who suffer and for those who love them. Rest In peace, Naomi Judd, and let your beautiful soul shine in song.
April 30, 2022 @ 8:34 pm
You are totally correct. Depression will absolutely eat you up! The dark feelings, the sadness, the absolute hopelessness cannot be described in a way that will cause a never-depressed person to understand. Only a person who has experienced it will ever know what it feels like. And if you haven’t felt it, count your blessings. Good luck to you all…
April 30, 2022 @ 9:03 pm
Mental illness and depression are no matter what so misunderstood and unrecognized as the major issue that they are. Such are not like physical illnesses. No cast, operation, antibiotic, treatments can truly cure what goes on in the brain ….I’ve seen it all my life. I do agree for so many it is a genetic disorder. 3 uncles and a 1st cousin committed suicide and others I’m aware of aunts and cousins suffered or suffer from severe depression. All the mental illness and depression issues I know of in our family are without a doubt a connection as I have observed other behavior issues. Obsessive disorders, anxiety and panic attack disorders. Aggressive, impulsive, anger and countless what most consider as “not normal” yet “what’s normal” is a big question if to be born with these genetics and it’s the only “normal” you know.
Society put mental health issues and illnesses on the back burner so long ago as it was once to hide.launch. So many were institutionalized and many unnecessary.
Yet there are degrees of mental disorders that are like stages of cancer or many terminal illnesses …. but the mental health system treats all as the same stage. So many with severe mental illness issues need a safe, secure environment to live and if more than one medication is needed a big problem arises. A severely mentally ill or depressed person cannot be responsible to medicate themselves properly with out help and constant supervision. If you are not a celebrity, you are shunned by society and often times family too. It’s a never ending battle that reeks havoc in a family. It takes a strong family to deal with the never ending UPs and DOWNs of a family member or members suffering with a mental issue that to get the family member help requires a court ordered paper to have the person picked up by untrained law officers that often times treat the mental crisis situation as a crime. Yet they take your family member to the hospital ER to be accessed to send to a so called “stabilization facility”. Rarely if ever have I seen any family member in our family or extended family be released any where close to stable. It’s a viscous cycle until the next time! I truly believe there still should be some permanent places to house severely mentally ill or depressed persons. Yet there are few to none unless you have a lot of financial resources which is more often than not the case! The other issue is the MANY with mental and emotional disorders that it’s as it seems impossible to expect to house the multitudes. The answer is hard to even expect a good sound answer…. I don’t see there to be one. Many with severe mental issues end up in jail or living in the streets! No help for the so many that are suffering with such issues and society today to have housing for so many and health care givers for such is impossible. Another issue would be “Rights” …. If one is housed then the others not suffering with severe needs would be going to the court system for rights to fair treatment. I see mental health issues as a no win situation for society, families and most of all persons that need help for severe mental diagnosis.
I’m sure many will disagree with my opinion and more comments I have made. I’ve seen so much in our family and extended family. I’ve dealt with a brother that 47 years was plagued with mental illness and our parents and then we grown siblings fighting a harder than hard system to get true help for our brother. I can hope the attention and rights to help a person with severe mental issues can get the recognition it needs for those persons. Those with such issues often don’t recognize their severe mental illness. Severe depression is often recognized as did Naomi Judd but it’s as her comment a deep dark place that you see no way out…..please help those who need help and leave off so much red tape (HIPPA should be a non issue with severe mental illnesses). It is so often too little and too late!
Rest In Peace Naomi
April 30, 2022 @ 10:52 pm
This was beautifully and respectfully written and I hope it’s seen by many.
May 1, 2022 @ 12:09 am
To be depressed constantly is probably one of the worst illness a person can experience. I cannot snap out of it as suggested. It remains with you always. I understand why a person wants to end the pain.
For those people who have never experienced depression, consider yourself lucky.
Rest in Peace.
May 1, 2022 @ 9:05 am
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER DAUGHTERS AND FAMILY! I KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO LOSE MY MOM AND TO HAVE A MOTHER THAT STRUGGLED WITH MENTAL ILLNESS. PRAYERS ARE WITH YA ! I LOVE YA ALL VERY MUCH AND AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!! JUST LEAN ON GOD AND HE WILL HELP YA THROUGH! I PROMISE !! LEARN TO FORGIVE EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING ESPECIALLY YOURSELF!! KNOW THAT IT WAS COMPLETELY OUT OF YOUR CONTROL! WILL CONTINUE PRAYING FOR YA ! AND MAY GOD LEAD EACH OF YOU BY YOUR HEART AND YOUR HAND ! WHEN I FEEL SAD AND MISS MY MOM AND AM RIDING DOWN THE ROAD I WILL PUT MY HAND OUT THE WINDOW AND JUST FEEL THE WIND AND LOOK AT HOW I FEEL IT EVEN WHEN I CANT SEE IT !!! THATS THE SAME WITH OUR MOMS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT!! GOD BLESS YA ! XOXO
May 1, 2022 @ 9:26 am
Very sad to see of her passing, not going to speculate the cause. Far as suicide and depression , it’s a hard subject to address and far harder to solve. I don’t feel that suicide is really a preventable death. In a lot of specific situations it may be but overall suicide has been with us since human life has been on earth. Whether it’s genetically passed down, I can’t say. Though it would make sense those that are predisposed to more severe depression could pass that down like they do other traits. There are so many factors that go into severe depression, mental illness, and suicide. Too many to get into here. Also no amount of money or facilities is going to fix it though we can do better. But I’m one of those people that feel that people have a right to make a personal decision of suicide. In most situations I don’t see it as a cowardly act or an act of selfishness like some do. There generally is nothing easy about getting to that situation, it didn’t happen over night in most cases especially when we are talking about severe depression. May Naomi rest in peace however she died.
May 1, 2022 @ 11:25 am
I heard about her death yesterday. She was an amazing lady, artist, and devoted Mother. I saw her and her Daughter in concert years ago. It was probably one of the best concerts I’ve seen. Unfortunately, couldn’t bring a camera inside, but that’s okay. The pictures are still alive in my heart! I am so glad I had the opportunity to hear them live! I used to watch their ” Love Can Build a Bridge” concert on DVD over & over! She will be deeply missed. God be with her close friends & Family in this sorrowful time.
May 1, 2022 @ 12:41 pm
I didn’t know Naomi suffered from treatment resistant depression and anxiety.
I sought help for depression and anxiety decades ago and have been on a meds regimen which lets me live a normal existence.
But treatment resistant depression requires heavy medical artillery, which doesn’t always work. I feel very sorry for people who suffer from it. And suicidality is another animal altogether. My brother hanged himself last year after never recovering from mental health and substance abuse problems.
Losing Naomi Judd is so sad. I’ll miss her.
May 1, 2022 @ 4:55 pm
She was 76. Imagine your grandmother or great-grandmother killing herself.
May 1, 2022 @ 7:48 pm
Rest In Peace Beautiful Naomi ????????????
My sincere condolences to her Daugthers and Husband.
You are now an angel with beautiful wings, no longer held down in the physical world with depression, You are free now, never to feel a nother minute of the pain of depression.
Sending Prayers to Naomi’s Beautiful Daughters and Husband ????????????????????????????????????
May 14, 2022 @ 10:54 am
EDM — If you read the Bible, you would know that there is only ONE unforgivable sin and suicide isn’t it. You also don’t know the love of God and His mercy. He can see the one who has a mental illness, He sees the heart of that person, and He understands the pain. Suicide is a desperate attempt to end the pain. God doesn’t like a sin a person might be committing, but He LOVES the sinner. He is very merciful and kind. Apparently, you don’t know that. Even Billy Graham put out an article on suicide basically saying what I just did. Since you want to condemn someone you know nothing about, how do you think God will judge you after you die? Again, if you read the Bible, you would know that EVERYONE will be judge. I’m going to keep praying for you that you will encounter the Lord God and His Son Jesus. God knows who you are.
May 16, 2022 @ 10:17 am
To Cee Cee Bee
I read your comment and do agree with some. As far as Covid19 and quarantined- to be away from the people, and life as everyone was used to I’m quite sure was difficult to say the least- I’m not judging any of the comments because I’m not any of you. I will say that for a person who does suffer from this horrible disease (I myself suffer from this with suicidal idiations, then add to that with autoimmune diseases for over 10+ years…I say plus years because it’s difficult to be diagnosed. Now that I have educated myself, I understand that I had this horrible disease a lot longer before an actual diagnosis was made years later. I would experience gradually it’s signs and or symptoms that made my family to think I was crazy, that’s one of the wrong words to say to anyone suffering, and for that I do apologize. And yet THAT is how I felt, had been told by people I loved dearly and still do. They didn’t feel how I felt which led me to stop talking about it and stuffed it away. Fndings about mental diseases, I realized I had suffered for years, on into my adulthood. My other health problems play a big role with my own depression and if anything, such as Covid19 brought on a huge cloud that hovered over me and in some of the things Naomi spoke about openly I can relate; having a hard time doing regular things, I felt paralyzed inside, that is the only way that I know to describe it. I’ve learned it isn’t like being down, or sadness. (Please know that I am not discrediting anyone else’s feelings, we are all different, we all experience things as individuals). Getting back…when autoimmune diseases flare, it’s simply because a trauma exacerbates symptoms of the diseases that I wouldn’t wish upon anyone. Having all together is inexplainable. I was recently in a bad car accident, being air lifted to a hospital an hour from where I was originally taken due to the seriousness of my injuries. I don’t say that I was lucky, I was blessed. I run off the road avoiding a dog, a fox…something. Lost control of my car, which I vaguely remember and ran straight into an embankment. I still didn’t know what happened only that I was screaming in pain, and I knew I’d been in an accident. The entire windshield cracked and both airbags deployed were a hint. (Afterwards, I’d seen the pictures of what was my car that’s how bad it was). Other than that I was in more pain than I think I’d ever been in. I do remember someone, or at least I thought a person was at my driver side (I NEVER seen the person, it sounded like a man’s voice and told me to stay in my car, 911 was called and the ambulance was on it’s way which seemed like an eternity). I suffered spinal injuries to my C1, with multiple fractures, a burst fracture in my L2-basically crushed with the amount of fractures. They did scans, tests I only remember a few I was highly medicated for my pain to which I’m thankful for. My sternum had been crushed by the seatbelt, two fractured ribs on my left side, and lots of bruising. I was surprised I had not one laceration. I am still experiencing pain, I’m in a C-collar that I cannot remove, and a back brace I can only remove lying in bed for a bath. The trauma of my accident caused my Fibromyalgia into one of my worst flares! I know that it’s just a vehicle and can be replaced. My depression, anxiety and pain from my injuries are at a level that I can’t begin to explain. I feel so confined. Having to rely on my 79 year old Mom, who is now taking care of my 83 year old Daddy who has Parkinson’s alone. I was the one there helping. It has made me feel useless, thoughts go through my mind, “why didn’t I just die” So depression is very real. A lot of people say suicide is a selfish act, leaving loved ones and friends behind. If only those who think that, could experience for just a day (again I wouldn’t put that on anyone) in the mind of someone that has severe depression and a ton of other health problems would be able to understand but that’s a day not years. My head feels as though it will explode. You just want it to stop. This is coming from a devout Roman Catholic Christian. I remind myself on a daily that MY Cross is a splinter of the cross He carried after being beaten almost to death and then to carry the heavy cross that I’m quite sure dug into His open flesh from the horrible act from the soldiers. I imagine His mother, Our Holy Mother watching this unable to do anything. And yet Mary had the fortitude I cannot fathom being a mother myself. Nor can I begin to understand being told of the prophecies of the pain she would endure, and in the life of Her son, Our Savior.
Prayers for anyone experiencing depression, anxiety or any other diseases of the brain. Trauma at any age can surface rearing it’s ugly monstrous head spinning you out of control…many turn to drugs, prostitution, and so many that are incarcerated could have a Mental Disease that was never diagnosed or given a wrong diagnosis. I’ve experienced that firsthand after my younger sister lost her oldest, a daughter, 31) my niece, thinking she was getting heroin as usual but the dead speak…the M.E. said that she had nothing but pure fentanyl, I’m sure the synthetic street version. I have a 27 year old son who has overdosed before, and my older Sissy’s eldest (Son, 40) that uses too. You’d think that both seeing their cousin lying in a casket would be that wake-up call.
Love and Prayers