The Stunning Impact & Surprising Complexity of Toby Keith
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Toby Keith was a country music star, and one of the most important and successful to ever do it. In the first decade of the 2000’s, there was no country music artist that was more commercially successful than Toby Keith, both as an entertainer, and as a businessman. Keith put 20 #1 singles on the charts during an eight year run, and had another seven #2’s during this same period. Toby Keith was mainstream country music in the aughts.
Toby Keith was an American, and perhaps one of the most outspoken, supportive, and high profile champions of the American ideal and those who were sworn to protect it in flesh and blood than anyone else in public life. Like so many Americans enraged about the sucker punch of September 11th, 2001, Keith put those emotions into song in ways that embodied the very emotions people felt, and in paramount and unprecedented ways, pushing the envelope of acceptable parlance.
But most importantly, Toby Keith was a human. This was brought into stark contrast recently after years of slowly fading away from the country spotlight like so often happens with aging country stars, while also slowly deteriorating due to the ravages of stomach Cancer. The illness took a man who was once a tower of a person to just a frail, hollowed-out version of his previous boisterous self, putting Toby Keith’s humanness on full display for both his supporters and detractors to see in ways that drew sincere concern and empathy across cultural and political divides.
Now Toby Keith is gone, and all that is left is a range of emotions that for many might be as strong as the ones people may feel for a close friend or family member, while for others they will be as complex as the man’s legacy itself. But like Toby Keith did throughout his career, his death will make you feel something, and strongly. Because that’s what Toby Keith did. He took the emotions we all feel in the deepest moments of passion, and brought them to the surface.
“Should’ve Been a Cowboy” was the first single from the Oklahoma native in 1993, and it was a massive one. Now a country music standard that’s Certified Triple Platinum, it announced what would be a career that will eventually land in the Country Music Hall of Fame, and it did with with a traditional country song that helped define the ’90s country era.
More hits would come in the next eight years for Mercury Nashville, but the fact that the label put out a Greatest Hits compilation on Keith in 1998 tells you a lot. At that time, they thought Toby Keith was done. As we would see in the coming years, he was just beginning.
2002’s “Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue (The Angry American)” written in direct response to 9/11 is what would go on to define the career of Toby Keith, as well as popular country music for the next decade. The stark language in the song drew its opponents, but that polarization only lent to the song’s popularity. “Beer For My Horses” with Willie Nelson in 2003 not only put a country legend back on the charts, it continued the type of sabre rattling songs that would become Toby Keith’s signature.
2003 saw Toby Keith’s album Shock’n Y’all, whose title exploited the fact that Toby Keith’s stark Americanism drew the ire of many. But unabated, Keith redirected the criticism into a point of pride.
Though Keith would be considered the seat of American jingoism for many in the post 9/11 world, his actual political legacy was significantly more nuanced. At the time “Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue (The Angry American)” was released, Toby Keith was a registered Democrat. Though Keith will be criticized for performing for Donald Trump, he also performed for multiple Democrat Presidents as well.
Above political party or personal beliefs, Toby Keith was an American, and one whose support for American troops was well beyond pro forma, with his USO commitments and charity work verifying Keith’s sincerity as country music became a bastion for sometimes symbolic and even exploitative “support the troops” sentiments in Toby Keith’s wake.
Many remembrances will list Toby Keith’s accomplishments. But two things are in danger of being overlooked in their proper context.
First, Toby Keith was a songwriter. Dissimilar to many country music stars of the present—and on a unprecedented scale in the modern context—Toby Keith wrote most all of his own songs, including, if not especially his hits. Brushing aside Toby Keith the performer, Toby Keith the songwriter is one of the most successful of the era, and one of the most successful to ever do it in country music.
Speaking of success, another significant element of Toby Keith’s career was his role as a label owner and entrepreneur.
When Big Machine Records CEO Scott Borchetta was forming the label in 2005, Toby Keith, who at the time had a license to print money from all his chart success, wisely invested in a label that was initially supposed to be a joint partnership with Borchetta. However the partnership didn’t last long, and by 2006 Borchetta had spun off what became Big Machine, and Toby Keith became the owner of a label called Show Dog. Show Dog merged with Universal South in 2009, and became known as Show Dog-Universal.
Through his ownership of both Show Dog-Universal and his minority stake in Big Machine, Toby Keith regularly appeared or topped the Forbes list of highest paid country entertainers for a given year, even well after his chart success started to subside.
The fading of Toby Keith’s popular music career happened rather quickly once it commenced, perhaps fueled in part by the polarizing nature of his music and persona, which the country music industry was ready to distance from after the cancellation of The [Dixie] Chicks, who were one of Keith’s biggest opponents. Toby Keith would become a favorite whipping boy of certain politically-motivated characters, including Dixie Chicks front woman Natalie Maines, who wore a shirt emblazoned with “F.U.T.K” at the 2003 ACM Awards.
Actor Ethan Hawke once penned an embellished story for Rolling Stone about a confrontation between Keith and Kris Kristofferson that both men denied, with Keith supposedly saying to Kristofferson, “None of that lefty shit out there tonight, Kris.” Keith didn’t do himself any favors by trying to hold onto his radio relevancy and releasing his final major song, the Triple Platinum and silly “Red Solo Cup” that even Keith admitted later on was a stupid song.
But before Toby Keith would ride off in the sunset “Just like Gene and Roy,” he’d have a resurgence, and reconciliation with a lot of listeners.
Two days before Clint Eastwood was to start filming on his movie The Mule—which incidentally was two days before his 88th birthday—Eastwood was golfing with Toby Keith in a charity golf tournament at Pebble Beach. Keith marveled that the elder Eastwood was still able to get about, let alone work. Eastwood said to Keith, “I just get up every morning and go out. And I don’t let the old man in.” Toby Keith knew immediately he had to write a song with that line.
The song ended up being used in Eastwood’s 2018 movie, but went mostly ignored by the country industry at large. But on an otherwise mediocre People’s Choice Country Awards in September of 2023, the then 62-year-old Toby Keith performed the song in the midst of his effort to come back from stomach Cancer and being honored during the presentation. He floored the crowd both in attendance and watching on television, and “Don’t Let The Old Man In” went viral, giving Keith one last hurrah in his legendary career.
Toby Keith lived a complex life that saw both adulation on a scale rarely if ever seen for a country star, along with villainization that in the passing of a person always seems petty and silly, at least to those with a conscience.
Toby Keith will go down as a towering figure in the realm of country music, American culture, and life in the post 9/11 world. How people feel about that legacy will be as complex and diverse as the man and his legacy itself.
But what will be inarguable is the incredible, crater-like impact Toby Keith had in ways that unalterably influenced culture, and that will continue to resonate past his lifetime, and likely, the lifetimes of us all.
Robert
February 6, 2024 @ 8:18 am
That 1998 Greatest Hits CD was the soundtrack of my life for the following few years, and I would just grab his new stuff as he released hit after hit. I wasn’t a fan of the overly patriotic stuff but I didn’t hold it against him either.
It seems a lot of the polarization around him at that time is resurfacing this morning on social media with news of his death. Thank you for writing a proper and balanced look at Toby – I knew it would be great, but it even exceeded that.
James
February 6, 2024 @ 8:21 am
This is a pretty spot-on assessment of his impact and career. I hated a couple of his songs, but cannot deny the greatness of his others, especially I Should’ve Been a Cowboy.
One point I will disagree with you on: I don’t think he will end up in the Hall. Ever. He had a strong career, but not a Hall-worthy one.
Michael
February 6, 2024 @ 8:32 am
It will be a few years, but Toby Keith will absolutely be inducted into the Hall of Fame. The man had 20 number one hits and 12 platinum albums, including two of those albums going 4x platinum. If that’s not a Hall of Fame career, I’m not sure what is.
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 8:36 am
Toby Keith will be in the Country Music Hall of Fame in the next few years, and I would put money on it.
In fact, his death at this moment might be causing a conflict since the Hall of Fame is voting as we speak on the 2024 inductees, Keith is likely (and rumored) to be on the final ballot, but there is a provision saying you cannot be put in the year after your death to discourage sympathy votes. This creates a strong urge to vote artists in that are dealing with health issues before they pass. My guess is Keith will be #1 or #2 in the Modern Era voting for 2024.
David B
February 6, 2024 @ 9:49 am
Trigger,
It is my understanding if he’s already on this years final ballot he could be elected this year (like Tammy Wynette in 1998). If not, at the earliest he could be in the class of 2026. If he’s not elected this year there must be a one year waiting period. This happened In the cases of Webb Pierce, Faron Young and Wilma Lee Cooper. Of course Webb and Faron were eventually elected. Wilma Lee and husband Stoney have never been back on a ballot, according to my sources.
David B
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 10:08 am
Thanks for the clarification David B. Looking back, I believe you are correct. I guess since folks have already voted, his death wouldn’t directly influence it.
Jo Nelle Johnson
January 9, 2025 @ 7:04 pm
Toby Keith was the BEST!!!!!
CJ Ellis
February 6, 2024 @ 8:39 am
Toby will definitely get in someday. Should’ve Been a Cowboy was the most played radio single of the entire 1990s and only Tim McGraw and Kenny Chesney (both HOF bound in their own right) rival his success during the 2000s. One of the biggest names in the genre is absolutely getting in, and with Hank Jr. and Jerry Lee Lewis getting in recently, I don’t think any personal distaste for Toby will keep him out.
Indianola
February 6, 2024 @ 9:10 am
I liked that TK’s music and performances weren’t homoerotic, unlike Tim and Kenny.
Andrew
February 6, 2024 @ 8:45 am
His ’90s output alone made him worthy of the Hall. His death will likely just lead to his induction coming sooner than it otherwise might have.
Luckyoldsun
February 6, 2024 @ 11:35 am
There is no question that Toby Keith had a Hall-worthy career. .You might not like him or his music–that’s fine. But in terms of what determines a H-o-F’er–hit songs, album sales, concert ticket sales, songwriting, impact on American (not just country music) culture, longevity, Toby meets and exceeds the minimum requirements by so much that it’s not debatable.
It’s called the Hall of Fame, not the Hall of Artistry or Hall of Musicianship or Hall of Critical Acclaim. (I take it those are areas where you believe Toby doesn’t measure up.) The Hall of Fame is an institution dedicated to commercial country music. Toby. By dint of willpower, ambition, and knowing how to use the talent that he had, made himself into one of the superstars of the genre.
I believe there’s a one-year freeze after an artist dies, but Toby Keith should–and I predict will-be elected when he’s next eligible.
karl
February 6, 2024 @ 11:47 am
All those hits, that he wrote. His patriotism. He will be in.
BillyMac
February 7, 2024 @ 12:20 am
The generation’s Jimmy Buffet, more so than Chesney. Great songwriter – middle of Big Dog Daddy – white rose and wouldn’t want to be ya are classic and set the tone for red dirt country. Huge influence on turnpike, reckless Kelly, and more without a doubt.
SMarco
February 7, 2024 @ 4:53 am
This is interesting. Buffett, like Keith, was a talented songwriter and serious artist before amassing a flock.
Then he started writing and recording songs like “Math Suks” and “What if the Hokey-Pokey is What It’s About.” Like “Red Solo Cup” or whatever.
They both eventually ran out of creative authenticity, probably due to all the dough they were making, and morphed into over-sized, bland caricatures of themselves who occasionally still managed to pen a solid tune.
That said, I wouldn’t say Keith has a following anywhere as loyal as Parrottheads…
Cool Lester Smooth
February 7, 2024 @ 9:14 am
Sure, Hope on the Rocks doesn’t have a single gimmick song!
Banjo
February 6, 2024 @ 8:21 am
Never was a huge Toby Keith fan until I saw what he did for Merle at the concert where Merle was too sick to sing. He earned all my respect and forgiveness for the “Who’s Your Daddy” and “Red Solo Cup” type songs.
Been revisiting his catalog this morning at work – I forgot how good of a song “Who’s that man” is.
Rest in Peace Mr. Keith
Jon
February 6, 2024 @ 9:27 am
Outside of music he seemed like a good guy. There’s a lot of stories of him providing signed memorabilia for any kind of auction/fundraiser in Oklahoma and Arkansas.
Also right next to the Oklahoma Children’s Hospital is the OK Kids Korral.
“OK Kids Korral is a haven for the entire family
as a child with cancer receives treatment.
Proudly supported by the Toby Keith Foundation.”
Banjo
February 6, 2024 @ 9:34 am
Yeah, I always liked Toby Keith as a man. He seemed like a really stand up guy. His music just wasn’t always my taste, but everyone has got to eat and it provided him a great life.
Everyone writes horrible songs to survive (Looking at you Jamey Johnson and Chris Stapleton)
Thom's Country Bunker
February 6, 2024 @ 8:25 am
I may not have agreed with everything the man said and did but by God he could write a country song.
Rest well, Toby.
PeterD
February 6, 2024 @ 8:26 am
This left liberal english guy loved Toby Keith, from his first to his last, through Bus songs and Incognito Bandito tracks to the hits. Toby was everything in country music to me and in this house he will be hugely missed.
Tom
February 6, 2024 @ 8:28 am
Minor point of order: “Beers Ago” didn’t sell as many units as “Red Solo Cup,” but was certified gold and went higher on the charts so I might argue that it was his final major song.
He was part of Mercury’s Triple Play back in 1993. It was a marketing gimmick where they released debut albums from Toby Keith, Shania Twain, and John Brannen at the same time and promoted them together. I remember a magazine article where Toby Keith described himself as pretty traditional vocally but not so traditional musically, Shania as more traditional musically but less traditional vocally, and John Brannen as not very traditional at all. Although Shania became an international star later, her debut was a flop. John Brennan’s entire career was a flop. But Toby Keith hit the ground running. I was in radio at the time, and because our FM station was 100% automated I was given the promo CD with all three artists. I think (hope) I still have it somewhere.
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 8:31 am
Chart placement aside, “Red Solo Cup” is the last well-recongnized Toby Keith song before “Don’t Let The Old man In.” But I agree it’s an arugable point.
Tom
February 6, 2024 @ 9:11 am
I just think the line between “Beers Ago” and everything that came after (no more top 10 or Gold/Silver) is sharper than the line between “Red Solo Cup” and “Beers Ago.” But “Red Solo Cup” is definitely at another level in terms of pop culture impact.
If he were a baseball player and I was looking at the stats on the back of his card, I feel like “Red Solo Cup” would have been his last MVP season and “Beers Ago” would have been his last All-Star season before closing out his career with a string of ordinary years.
Confederate Railroad Fan
February 12, 2024 @ 6:09 am
Hank Aaron 75-76 Milwaukee Brewers DH.
Special l
February 6, 2024 @ 8:28 am
I always liked Toby Keith. Regardless of his political and mainstream songs, his music always brings me back to some of the good times I’ve had in the past. RIP Toby, will always remember jamming out to I love this bar after a good night with friends.
Di Harris
February 6, 2024 @ 8:28 am
What a gorgeous write-up Trig.
Thank you. ❤️
Indianola
February 6, 2024 @ 8:28 am
Most Oklahoma conservatives were still Democrats of the Yellow Dog variety in the early aughts. Even people who liked Republicans had to register as Democrats if they wanted any say in state and local elections, as the Democratic primaries almost always decided the election winner.
Fuzzy TwoShirts
February 6, 2024 @ 8:29 am
‘Anybody can write ‘we’ll put a boot in your ass’
But not everybody knows when to.
Toby Keith was not some Jason Isbell, some Roger Miller, or some John Moreland writing from a point of philosophy, or trying to show us the world the way he knows we can’t see it by ourselves
He wasn’t a poet seeing the world through different eyes
He was an average guy with average perspectives. And he knew what average people felt. Few celebrities are so in touch with the every day moods of the common people. It was as if fame and success never turned Keith into someone else
That’s what people like about him, more than any one song
Maybe anyone could have written a line like that, but how many people could have known that’s what everybody already wanted to hear
Casey
February 6, 2024 @ 10:21 am
Your comment does a great job of summing up my feelings about “The Angry American.” I can see why some people wouldn’t like the song, but going back to 2002, this was just after Alan Jackson’s “Where Were You When the World Stopped Turning?” If the first two stages of grief are denial and anger, these two songs worked together to express the emotions associated with those stages. First, you had your shock, fear and “hope it never happened.” Then you had anger. As you said – Toby nailed what many were feeling at exactly the right time in that song, and I think that’s why I loved it then and still enjoy it whenever I hear it.
CountryKnight
February 6, 2024 @ 11:25 am
The only people who don’t like “Courtesy of the Red, White, & Blue,” are the cowards that General Patton warned us about.
It is an iconic song.
Strait
February 6, 2024 @ 12:15 pm
I dislike having to play that song now in bands. I used to be pro-war in the 2000’s but I’ve grown to see how corrupt the US military industrial complex is and how it’s status quo to bomb the shit out of foreign countries for resources. Not trying to derail things here but 9/11 was absolutely an inside job. I cannot connect the all the dots and I’m not making that case here. I understand the sentiment and hurt of the time right after 9/11 but I’ve since opened my eyes to how bad the Republicans and Democrat establishment really is. Toby Keith’s American Soldier is a much more lasting song. I wish bar bands played that one instead.
thegentile
February 6, 2024 @ 1:39 pm
people don’t like pandering song and that apparently makes someone unpatriotic. also, someone can’t connect all the dots on something yet is 100% sure something happened.
these are the loonies that vote conservative.
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 1:43 pm
Folks let’s please not veer too deep into politics or conspiracy theories here. This is has been a great conversation so far around Toby Keith’s legacy. Let’s please not derail it.
Luckyoldsun
February 6, 2024 @ 7:40 pm
Trig, you leave a statement as fking outrageous and, frankly, idiotic as “9/11 was absolutely an inside job” up on the board, then you can’t reasonably say “Let’s not veer too deep into politics or conspiracy theories.” That’s going Titanic-deep into whack-job “conspiracy theories.”
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 9:16 pm
Luckyoldsun,
It is the policy of Saving Country Music to censor comments only as a last resort. So in lieu of removing comments, warnings are first issued to commenters. Then if they continue to post in lieu of warnings, those comments are then deleted. Multiple comments have been deleted off this very exact thread because they continue to violate this policy. So comments are being censored, and those people are angry with me, as you are angry that other comments are NOT censored. This is a lose/lose situation for everyone involved. The way to solve it is for people to not post divisive and off-topic comments.
Cody
February 6, 2024 @ 8:29 am
His early albums were great. Songs like “Who’s That Man” were superb country songs. Although he did release some sub par songs such as “Red Solo Cup” and “I wanna talk about me”, I feel like most of his catalog was solid. He will be missed for sure.
Karen Stanley
February 8, 2024 @ 4:16 am
Your comment is irrelevant. We are honoring Toby Keith.. NOT politics…
Interstate Daydreamer
February 6, 2024 @ 8:30 am
I always thought Toby’s earlier work was better…up through GHV1. He had some enjoyable songs after that and he certainly had star power. I wasn’t as much a fan of the How Do You Like Me Now era, as I call it, but again, there were some good songs there, and as his career continued on, I think he edged back into better music again.
Jeff
February 6, 2024 @ 12:51 pm
Agree completely. Too much fluff in that era. Talk about me, how do you like me now, stays in mexico, up thru red solo cup, was just chart-bait drivel with silly videos to match. But his output in the 90s and early 00s was great stuff.
Strait
February 7, 2024 @ 5:01 pm
How Do you Like Me Now is one of my favorites. It’s just a fun song that doesn’t lean too heavily into stupid.
Karen Stanley
February 6, 2024 @ 6:00 pm
I love these two songs. They both represent America. He had Thank You,Toby We will hold you and your loved ones
Safe journey…
Kevin
February 6, 2024 @ 8:37 am
Toby’s run in the 90s gets overlooked but so many great songs. And I always respected how he wrote the majority of his songs. He was a special talent and could write a hell of a song when the mood struck him.
His relationship with Merle haggard always seemed so cool to me. I remember a cmt call in show Toby was doing and Merle called in and asked him to play Okie. The way Toby helped Merle during one of his final shows was all I needed to see. Not only did he help, he stood back and let Merle and the band do their thing and only jumped in when needed. When Merle asked him what songs of his he knew, Toby said I know them all.
He seemed like a genuine down to earth guy and his work with the military and charity shouldn’t go overlooked. Definitely a great talent who will be missed.
Thomas
January 3, 2025 @ 1:05 am
I am just a Toby Keith fan, period. I consider myself to be a patriot and still get goose bumps when I hear “we’ll put a boot in your ass”. I respect a man who says what is on his mind. I’m a fan of one with the balls to say what’s on his mind in a song for all the world to hear. I’m sure he knew there would be those who find the song insensitive, toxic, or any other words that describe how a song hurt their feelings. This song could have tanked on the charts or his career, he had no way of knowing what the reaction might be. Honestly, I don’t think he wrote or released this song for any other reason than expressing his patriotism. No one has had a career with every song being a hit. I didn’t care for red solo cup, but many people liked it, end of story.
His music videos were pretty good as well. The video to the song ” it’s a little to late” is quite funny.
I did not know Toby personally. I certainly wish I had met though. He was the kind of man others should strive to be like. Not because of his politics or who he donates to. It’s because he was honest about who he was and what he stood for. He was a man of strength and courage the kind we should all admire. Even at the end when he was only a frail shadow of what he once was, he came out on stage and performed like there was nothing wrong. He flew into combat zones to perform for our troops, a risk he didn’t have to take. He gave so much of himself in many ways and that is what we should focus on.
It bewilderes me when I read negative comments posted to a story that is basically an obituary. Why should anyone need to remind others to keep their comments more civil. There is an old saying “if you can’t say something nice, say nothing at all”. Part of me thinks this will only fall on deaf ears. Another part of me believes there is still hope, we just need to keep trying.
With that said, I think we lost one of the good ones. My prayers go out to his family who I know are still struggling with their loss.
God bless all.
Cee Cee Bee
February 6, 2024 @ 8:44 am
As a somewhat liberal country fan, I almost always roll my eyes at what many times feels like “fake” patriotism in country music. Toby never get an eye roll from me. His love for this country and his support for our troops were genuine.
I owned all of his records. I was especially fond of his early work. He had a beautiful voice. He also had a wonderful personality. I never once saw him do an interview when he didn’t make me laugh at least once.
My children grew up listening to his music. My youngest still plays “American Ride” and “Getcha Some” on repeat. My husband says “Good As I Once Was” is his theme song. For me, I play “My List” whenever I feel overwhelmed by my work and my responsibilities.
Like you said, Tony’s legacy is complicated. But his talent, contributions, and impact are undeniable.
RIP, Toby. Thankful for the time we had you.
Cool Lester Smooth
February 6, 2024 @ 9:42 am
It’s such an important distinction from a lot of the modern chest-thumpers that Toby Keith walked the walk – the man did 11 USO tours and was extraordinarily generous in terms of charitable giving.
…and that’s before you get into the fact that I’m not sure he released a single bad song in the 1990s, and had a lot of great album cuts even during the Red Solo Cup era.
He’ll be missed.
RD
February 6, 2024 @ 8:47 am
“Should’ve Been a Cowboy” is one of the best leadoff singles of any artist. I wasn’t a fan of his overtly political songs, and many of his more braggadocios tunes, but the guy was a huge, impactful figure in country music. The fact that he wrote most of his own material is also a big factor in the assessment of his overall career. It was very sad to see him a thin shell of a man after he had been such a big hoss in his heyday. Although he was never one of my favorite artists, I have to admit that I was greatly saddened to hear that he had passed. Requiescat in pace.
StraitOuttaNashville
February 6, 2024 @ 8:48 am
Whether you like or dislike Keith is one thing. If you think Toby Kieth won’t be in the Country Music Hall of Fame you’re not paying attention. Keith will be in before we get to 2030 if not way sooner.
Suburban Cowboy
February 6, 2024 @ 8:50 am
This one hits hard. His music was such a big part of my 20s and 30s. When thinking of name for my son my wife and I went back and forth on many different options but could never agree. Then while listening to a Toby Kieth song together I suggested Toby for the name of our son. We both looked at each other in agreeance. I always tell my son that story when he ask how he got his name. Thanks for the memories Toby Keith RIP.
Jerry
February 6, 2024 @ 8:50 am
He was truly larger than life. Can’t believe he’s gone.
CountryKnight
February 6, 2024 @ 8:53 am
Dixie Chicks fans are celebrating on Twitter.
Truly, it was better for country music when they left.
hoptowntiger
February 6, 2024 @ 9:15 am
The [Dixie} Chicks fans are celebrating on Twitter.
I see a lot of posts on Twitter saying Dixie Chicks fans are happy today, but those are being posted by shit stirrers. I know this because they using the name “Dixie Chicks’ and not “The Chicks” (like any fan would) in the post.
This is the left and right stirring the pot and you should be smart enough to not fall for it or promote it.
MH
February 6, 2024 @ 11:01 am
One of the shit stirrers was congratulated and promoted by CMT’s Leslie Fram for winning a “She Rocks” award at NAMM by Women in Music.
thegentile
February 6, 2024 @ 1:42 pm
he’s that special kind of smart where he thinks he is, but isn’t. very dangerous.
Steven
February 6, 2024 @ 5:09 pm
Why don’t you just piss off to the Taylor Swift fanpage?
thegentile
February 6, 2024 @ 5:54 pm
when are you really going to start boycotting the nfl? will a girl finally ruin it for you? :’’(
weak ass men.
Chris
February 6, 2024 @ 3:15 pm
Stans are scary in general. Their opinions do not necessarily reflect those of the artists they idolize.
Every post I’ve seen from a celebrity “on the other side of the political divide,” including Ty Herndon and fellow Oklahoman Kristin Chenoweth, has been respectful and complimentary of Toby Keith and his talents.
This liberal wasn’t crazy about “Red, White and Blue” or his goofier novelty songs, but liked much of his ’90s material and especially that voice, which was one hell of a powerful instrument. “He Ain’t Worth Missing” in particular still gives me chills and brings back a lot of fond memories of the ’90s country era.
DC
February 7, 2024 @ 5:19 pm
No true country fan is celebrating this. I am a huge fan of The (Dixie) Chicks and also TK. You can be sad about Tony and still like Natalie and what she stands for.
Get out of here with this pot-stirring shit. We lost a legend, great it as such.
K
February 6, 2024 @ 8:54 am
This is the best obituary I’ve seen yet for Toby Keith. He may have made his name with jingoist songs with Hollywood western-style violence. But “I Love This Bar” and “Don’t Let the Old Man In” are gems that will stand the test of time.
CountryKnight
February 6, 2024 @ 8:57 am
That was a nice Memoriam, Trigger, especially since you were pretty ragged on Toby when his career declined.
Toby was my first favorite country artist.
It is a Toby day at the office, and my coworkers have no choice.
Toby was just a good old boy from Oklahoma who wrote as the average man felt. I will take him over the ivory tower Americana crew any day.
thegentile
February 6, 2024 @ 1:45 pm
you putting your wants and needs over coworkers? not caring about the opinions of others?! get out of town! shocked.
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 1:56 pm
We’re not doing back and forths between you two in these comments.
This is an obituary.
Lil DL
February 6, 2024 @ 10:09 pm
I implore you to seek help man, whether internally or with external help. This is not how normal functioning people interact.
RabidWolfe
February 6, 2024 @ 8:58 am
I recall hearing an NPR music critic mocking Toby Keith as someone who could write novelty songs but had no real depth. However, it seemed “Weed with Willie” and “The Angry American” were the only two songs the critic knew at the time. It was just an NPR apparatchik mocking the acceptable targets for acceptable reasons.
For me, “Who’s that Man?” from 1994 is an amazingly profound song that manages to capture all the pain and heartbreak of divorce better than nearly every other country song on the topic. To dismiss the guy who could write both “Who’s that Man?” and “The Angry American” (and, hell, even “Red Solo Cup”) as having no depth, misses that he had both depth and breadth as a songwriter.
VernTobyTrace
February 6, 2024 @ 9:15 am
you forgot ‘wish I didmd know now’ that song is the bomb
Cool Lester Smooth
February 6, 2024 @ 9:48 am
And Toby didn’t even write Red Solo Cup – he heard the demo and thought it was funny, so he cut it!
I’m not sure there’s been a single better writer of Heartbreak Songs in the mainstream in the last 30 years.
FLPanhandler
February 6, 2024 @ 9:04 am
I’ve always enjoyed his songs, especially the ones peppered with humor. Certainly, one of the greats of post-1990 country music.
It’s a shame that, what is now considered a “complex life”, used to be considered normal in American culture — specifically, standing up for your country.
Rest in Peace Toby.
Adam S
February 6, 2024 @ 10:08 am
“standing up for your country.”
There is a difference between patriotism and jingoism, and he rode that line constantly.
Di Harris
February 6, 2024 @ 12:41 pm
“There is a difference between patriotism and jingoism, …”
There Certainly Is.
Adam S
February 6, 2024 @ 1:48 pm
Yes, and some of his actions crossed that line, especially with regards to the Chicks. Others did not, and his respect for the troops and ability to articulate the anger Americans felt after 9/11 certainly can’t be questioned.
Penn Central
February 6, 2024 @ 5:34 pm
Except TK was an example of taking accountability for what he said instead of playing victim – saying what he felt (and what others may have felt) without fear of backlash or criticism; a rare trait in today’s “socially aware” environment.
I didn’t agree with most of his politics, but I admire his integrity, his artistry and his love of our Country and dedication to our Troops. (caps mine).
His fortitude in fighting cancer is(was) immense, doing his thing until he couldn’t. As a 3 timer myself, I get that.
Rest in piece and thanks for the legacy you have left us.
hoptowntiger
February 6, 2024 @ 9:07 am
TK had so many comebacks and I thought he was going to pull the greatest comeback of all time before finally succumbing to cancer.
After a stellar debut album, Keith’s career was on life-support by 1999. At the time, TK and Terri Clark were the perennial opening acts with radio filler middling success. Then Keith (without having to rename or rebrand himself) hit the reset button and skyrocketed into country music stardom.
It was a rare second act in country music and phenomenal to watch unfold.
I feel in love with TK from going to his concerts 2002-2006. During that time, TK was a summer staple at local Star Lake Amphitheater. We’d go early and stay until the golf carts chased us out. TK during that remarkable run defined a fun, carefree, brash time in my life to never be recaptured.
This morning, I tried posting on social media the clip of TK’s final televised performance from the People’s Choice Country Awards from 4 months ago and I kept getting a violation of community standards notice: “You’re content couldn’t be shared, because this link goes against our Community Standards.”. Is this Universal Music crackdown on social media? FUUMG!
The ignorance on twitter started early this morning. I hate them all from both extreme sides. Like you pointed out, TK was very complicated. TK and Natalie Maines were polarizing figures. And BOTH benefited from the controversy. But everyone has a narrative to shape and egos to stroke.
RIP TK
Janice Williams
February 6, 2024 @ 9:09 am
Trigger, you condensed all my mixed-up thoughts about TK into a beautiful, readable, relateable piece. Thank you for all your great writing. I’ve admired Toby Keith for his Oklahoma roots and all he did to help after the Moore tornadoes. And a song that hasn’t been mentioned that is my go-to and always on my playlists is “A Little Too Late.” It’s been my private divorce anthem for many years. Relistening made me even sadder this morning. The lyrics “It’s a little too late, I’m a little too gone, a little too tired of this hanging on, so I’m letting go while I’m strong enough to.”
SMarco
February 7, 2024 @ 7:25 am
This really is a great obituary. I’ve read my share, and after the obit Garrison Keillor wrote for his nephew, this is the finest I’ve seen.
Nice work, Trigger.
JB-Chicago
February 6, 2024 @ 9:17 am
I’m deeply saddened to wake up to this news. His performance at the People’s Choice Country Awards was one of the most touching, gut wrenching, and sincere songs I’ve ever seen sung in my life. If that didn’t touch you, you’re not human. In Toby’s honor, now and forever, I won’t let the old man in.
Harris
February 6, 2024 @ 9:22 am
I remember well Toby Keith’s 90s radio hits. Some of those songs are so great obviously should hav been a cowboy but who’s that man, dream walking, I wish I didn’t know now. A great country singer and songwriter.
The first time I watched the news was on 9/11. That is still the most significant day of my life. And boy did I love courtesy of the red white and blue when it came out. But as I’ve grown I’ve learned how terrible that era of country music was. How that song and Toby’s persona spawned a terrible era for country music but the country as a whole. As awful as 9/11 was the response made it even worse. The terrorists won because 9/11 ruined this country. And while Toby Keith was obviously just a small part of that man he was right there embodying the absolute worst aspects of that terrible era we are still dealing with.
Not to mention it’s hard to respect the corporate machine he became. The truck commercials, the I love this bar and grille stuff, he was so focused on money and leveraging his persona. Not to mention ripping off Robert Earl keen with bullets in the gun and saying how he didn’t get the point of making lsu if he wasn’t going to be making hits.
Rest in peace. I don’t hate the guy and he wrote more great songs than most country singers. I’ve been listening to them all morning. It’s weird to think Willie Nelson and Clint Eastwood both outlived him. I’m sad because he was such a big part of the formation of my tastes. I miss 90s radio and that time.
kross
February 6, 2024 @ 9:25 am
just saw where the Dixie Chicks are trending because people are already dancing on his grave. people are stupid. anyways top 5 Toby songs in my personal opinion. no particular order. Not even sure if he wrote them all. I don’t care. they are good songs. the kind of songs he should be known for.
1. Who’s That Man
2. Dream Walking
3. Wish I didn’t know now
4. What She Left Behind
5. Beautiful Stranger
CountryKnight
February 6, 2024 @ 11:17 am
The Dixie Chicks wish they had Keith’s legacy or talent for songs.
Travis D
February 6, 2024 @ 1:59 pm
I will add a VERY close 6th;
Does That Blue Moon Ever Shine on You?
This is the one song of his that radio has not killed for me.
WuK
February 6, 2024 @ 9:36 am
Very very sad news. Great songwriter and a great singer who spoke his mind and said what he meant. He leaves a catalogue of great songs and performances and will be much. My condolences to his family.
SnarkyAnarky
February 6, 2024 @ 9:42 am
nicely written piece, trigger
Rackensacker
February 6, 2024 @ 9:43 am
Toby Keith said on multiple occasions he was influenced by traveling here to Arkansas and being inside his grandmother’s bar in Fort Smith. I think his album “HonkyTonk U” was influenced by that.
Another great story I heard him tell was the origins of “Should’ve Been a Cowboy,” which he wrote in the bathroom of a motel in Dodge City so as not to wake a friend who was sharing the room.
Some of my favorite Toby songs, in no particular order:
Should’ve Been a Cowboy — One of the greatest country songs of the ‘90s, and that’s saying something.
Who’s That Man? — I heard him perform this live in Nashville while attending Ralph Emery’s show on TNN. A wonderful song that describes the complexity of life after a divorce.
I Love This Bar — The instrumentation is wonderful. The humming, the whistling, the simplicity of the lyrics, it’s timeless.
Wish I Didn’t Know Now — A great country heartbreak song.
A Little Less Talk and a Lot More Action — “The look she shot me through the glass refraction” is one of my favorite lines in a country song.
My List — As I have gotten older, this song has meant a lot to me and has become quite relatable.
Bullets in the Gun — This is one of those storyteller songs I can’t help but enjoy.
Timothy Woodward
February 6, 2024 @ 1:51 pm
Toby’s version of little less talk and a lot more action is leaps and bounds better than Hank Jr’s version
GAviaLA
February 6, 2024 @ 9:46 am
Props to Trigger for another great article. And because I’ve yet to see it referenced here, “The Lonely” is (to be said in my best DAC voice) the “perfect country and western song.”
Cool Lester Smooth
February 6, 2024 @ 9:53 am
Absolutely devastating news to wake up to – the first “new” country album I bought was Hope on the Rocks (which had some killer tracks, even if it fails to live up to his earlier work).
Brilliant obituary though, Trig – more than anything else (and he had a HELL of a voice!), the man was a songwriter.
Just a massive, massive loss at far too young an age.
Fm to C
February 6, 2024 @ 10:25 am
Was always a fan, and one of my few disagreements with this site was how hard it often was on TK. But this is the best obit we’ll likely see. Red Solo Cup may be silly but I bet you all can sing its chorus right now. 35 MPH Town is another overlooked recent song. By all accounts he was a first-class human being, which our genre can’t always claim about its stars. RIP Mr. Keith.
Keepin’ it Country
February 6, 2024 @ 10:26 am
Toby Keith was part of my childhood growing up. I remember those videos in the top 20 countdown as a kid, as well as my dad getting the new Toby Keith CD for birthday or Christmas. My Dad was a big fan of him. About a year or so ago I remember seeing him leaving a local bar in Stillwater Oklahoma. It was really shocking news to me. I was hoping to catch him in concert. I didn’t expect Hank and Willie to outlive him…. I don’t know if anyone can have a career with as many comebacks as he did. It’s a sad day.
Gena R.
February 6, 2024 @ 10:27 am
Not one of my faves, but his run of hits (especially in the ’90s) was incredible; besides many of the favorites that have been mentioned, I was partial to “How Do You Like Me Now?” and his recording of Sting’s “I’m So Happy I Can’t Stop Crying.” Plus, his appearance on Stephen Colbert’s Christmas special was a hoot:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Colbert_Christmas:_The_Greatest_Gift_of_All! (2008)
RIP Toby. 🙁
Aaron
February 6, 2024 @ 11:36 am
I think people are overlooking how important How Do You Like Me Now? was to Toby’s career revival, because it gets lost in the shuffle with the post 9/11 Angry American stuff. At the time, Toby’s career looked to be done. His last 4 singles had been bombs, the highest peaking at 18. Mercury was done with him. That launched him. Without HDYLMN, Toby might’ve been in the Tracy Byrd/John Michael Montgomery level guy
Jacob
February 6, 2024 @ 12:04 pm
How Do You Like Me Now primed the pump for Courtesy of the Red, White, and Blue. Had that not hit as big as it did setting the tone for Keith’s personality and showcasing the chip he carried on his shoulder, Courtesy would have been shocking in light of his earlier releases.
Convict charlie
February 6, 2024 @ 4:55 pm
He took a chance on himself. He had given mercury that album to fulfill his contract. They proceeded to drop him. He had to buy it back from them.
Lake Erie Brown
February 6, 2024 @ 11:45 am
I think a huge part of the controversy around “Courtesy of the RWB” stems from the fact that it was written as a reaction to 9/11 but was released during the buildup to the war in Iraq. Few people had a problem with the US going after Al Qaeda targets in Afghanistan, but when Bush shifted focus to a country that wasn’t involved with 9/11 and built support by getting a little fuzzy with the truth, Keith’s song seemed more like propaganda than the emotional response to real events that it was. That was hard to see at the time for a lot of us, even Keith admitted later on that he took it too far in his dispute with Natalie Maines (not sure if Maines ever accepted the apology).
But I remember wanting to dislike the guy back then and then every time I read an interview with him I walked away impressed. He later did some great work with Stephen Colbert and spoke admiringly about Barack Obama. He played Trump’s inaugural, but never commented (to the best of my knowledge) one way or the other on Trump’s policies. He was, as he says, an American first and foremost…which is refreshing in a day and age we have now where both parties seem to trash this country every chance they get.
MESS
February 6, 2024 @ 8:13 pm
You are 100% correct about the timing and the song getting people riled up to support the war in Iraq. Which had nothing to do with 9/11.
MEM
February 6, 2024 @ 11:51 am
I’m politically moderate and more alt-country than mainstream in tastes, so there were moments when Toby Keith wasn’t among my favorites. But the man wasn’t all talk … he spent a lot of time visiting and entertaining troops when he could’ve been richer and safer back home. He wrote most of his own material, so he was willing to live & die by his own creativity and personality. Some of his stuff was genuinely funny and relatable … not everyone can do haunted-and-heartbroken like Hag or Hank and that’s OK. And even if I didn’t always agree with him, someone with an actual point of view is often more interesting than the interchangeable party-boy singers that came in his wake. RIP and way too soon.
Cool Lester Smooth
February 6, 2024 @ 1:06 pm
And even if he wasn’t quite Hag or Hank…Keith did haunted and heartbroken as well as anyone else on a major label.
Dennis Reynolds
February 6, 2024 @ 12:09 pm
He certainly has a complicated legacy but there can be no doubt that he made some great tunes, especially earlier in his career. It’s a fucking evil disease and a tragic end to a life.
Hal
February 6, 2024 @ 12:31 pm
This may be the finest piece of writing you have put on SCM, Kyle. Journalism 101. Thank you
BD
February 7, 2024 @ 6:59 am
Yes Hal …So many fine pieces of writing on SCM and this is one of them. I’ve been thinking,…who will be able to write an obituary for Kyle that matches his insights, skill, abilities, etc, etc. Since I hope he outlasts me, — I’m saying it now while I’m still around — thanks Kyle for all that you do. In this case, showing all of us how losing Toby Keith can be treated in a way that brings various polarized perspectives together in a mutual appreciation of life & others — in this case, Toby Keith.
Trigger
February 7, 2024 @ 8:09 am
I appreciate all the compliments on the obituary. All I can say is weighty moments inspired good writing. The simple truth is that a lot of outlets write obituaries for artists before they pass. Most every major outlet has their obituary for Willie Nelson already written, because once the inevitable news breaks, they want to be timely about reporting it. I don’t do that. I want to be in the moment. I think that’s the key to writing a good obituary, along with having personal knowledge on the subject as opposed to just cheating off the Wikipedia page.
BD
February 7, 2024 @ 8:43 am
Oh my, in my opinion no one could write like you do. (& your handling of comments is beyond amazing). It’s not somebody writing for you that I’m concerned about. It’s who will be capable enough to write ‘your obituary’ when that time unfortunately comes. You can’t prewrite it and also be in the moment ( which makes you the special person you are). So…the ‘while alive obituary’ (oxymoron? Lol) contribution from me: Kyle, the person who shows by example that critical analysis combined with an attitude of respectfulness is what the whole world needs more. (There are sooo many other things that could be said, but I’m sure appreciation of who you are and what you do would be prominent). Cheers to you from Canada.
Cooter Brown
February 7, 2024 @ 8:47 am
I assumed you pre-wrote these obits like everyone else. It’s damned impressive that you don’t.
I’d somehow missed the other reference to the Eastwood connection to “Old Man” here. I’ve seen it mentioned in a couple of other places since Keith’s passing. I wonder how many of those picked it up here?
Florida Cracker
February 6, 2024 @ 12:40 pm
I don’t really pay much attention to the music charts any more, but I really hope that “Don’t let the old man in” gets a ton of air play now on mainstream radio and pushed to number 1. Such a beautiful and powerful song and it means so much to me personally. Probably too serious and poignant for commercial success but it would be nice to see.
Rest in peace Toby and thank you.
Jimmy
February 6, 2024 @ 1:17 pm
RIP Toby. He was one of a kind. The man had the balls to share his opinion (right or wrong) without worrying what anyone thought.
RedDirtCyclone
February 6, 2024 @ 1:24 pm
Few songs make me feel 19 again like “Beers Ago”
Not the biggest TK fan in the world, but he does have special meaning for me.
The few albums I ever remember my Dad buying were Dwight Yoakam’s Greatest Hits, Creedence’s Greatest Hits, and Toby Keith’s Greatest Hits.
Indianola
February 6, 2024 @ 9:25 pm
Similar here. He was my Dad’s favorite. Dad, who passed in 2010, loved his songs from the 00s, and his favorite place to take people to dine was that bar in Bricktown. When passing through OKC, I sometimes stop at I Love This Bar to remember him. And TK wasn’t my favorite, but I did like a lot of his stuff from the 90s.
RebJas
February 6, 2024 @ 1:28 pm
I was never a huge fan, but his music was always around during my childhood and into my 20’s. Upstairs Downtown is an incredible song.
SageWestyTulsa
February 6, 2024 @ 2:34 pm
Dammit. This is occupying a lot more space in my brain today than I thought it might. As an Okie who entered college at OSU in the fall of ’94, Toby’s songs were constantly playing in the dorms during the week, and at parties and the Tumbleweed on the weekend. I spent a good deal of time listening to “Boomtown,” and “Victoria’s Secret” remains one of my favorite deeper cuts of his.
All that said, I absolutely loathed the jingoistic bro-country bent he adopted in his later years, especially as I traveled and matured and began to shed the trappings of my ultra-conservative upbringing. The “boot in your ass” stuff just rang hollow, as did the dopy party songs he kept cranking out. Coupled with his tacky restaurants and efforts at building a wholly obnoxious global redneck brand, I got to where I just couldn’t stand the guy.
And then, three or four years ago, my daughter came home from her mother’s house with a story. She’d been at Sunday dinner in Norman with my ex-wife and her parents, and they noticed that Toby was dining at a table nearby with his family. My ex-father-in-law was pretty sick with Parkinson’s Disease at that point, and after lunch the family was having a particularly difficult time getting him into the car. Without a word, Toby appeared from across the parking lot and helped him get into the vehicle and safely situated. He wished the old guy well, and walked back over to be with his family, leaving my daughter and the other folks stunned and grateful.
It was pretty hard to hold an ill opinion of Toby after that. Godspeed, Mr. Keith.
Hardcore Troubadour
February 6, 2024 @ 2:39 pm
Toby Keith was the artist that got me into country music, and music as a whole, when I was a young child, and he’s still one of my favourites, if not my all-time favourite artist. Excellent tribute Trigger, especially considering that I know you weren’t the biggest fan of his music, but always gave him credit when deserved. Rest In Peace.
Brad in Utah
February 6, 2024 @ 2:41 pm
As a music fan, it’s always been interesting to me that with Toby Keith he has songs I love (e.g. I Should Have Been a Cowboy) and others I absolutely can’t stand (e.g. Red Solo Cup.) It’s odd to be so hot and cold on the same artist. Aside from his being performer, from all I’ve ever read he seemed to be a really good guy. Not a ton of those in the entertainment business. Sorry to see you go so early, Mr. Keith.
Ben Parks
February 6, 2024 @ 2:44 pm
I wasn’t a huge Toby fan in his hayday during the 2000’s but he always seemed just like a good guy who loved his country. I graduated in 2005 and “Good As I Once Was” was a staple on the radio that summer so it always bings back good memories. I seem to like more of his singles that weren’t huge hits “Big Blue Note”, “It’s alittle to Late”, “Get my Drink One”. Prayers to his family, 62 is way to young
MESS
February 6, 2024 @ 8:20 pm
I was wondering if anyone else remembered Big Blue Note. That song found me at a really pertinent time.
Steve C.
February 6, 2024 @ 3:02 pm
“Who’s That Man” and “I’m So Happy (I Can’t Stop Cryin’) were the first two TK songs I ever heard. It just so happened they were pirated and stashed on a network PC. I was estranged from my wife and, honestly, those songs made me long for home—and we reunited and never looked back.
My kids were not country fans, then along came (irony alert) The Dixie Chicks. On a trip after 9/11, my oldest fell in love with “Courtesy of the Red, White, and Blue.”
We saw Toby in concert (Blake Shelton opened) and he was brilliant. We were huge fans. He was as *real* as they come. When we saw him play “Don’t Let the Old Man In,” my wife said, “He’s not going to make it.”
Sadly, she was right.
As a veteran, I know how much his trips abroad meant to the troops. Not many would do what he did. He was American to the bone—and I love that about him.
Gary Schnabel
February 6, 2024 @ 3:41 pm
No one, and I mean NO ONE, Composes more
Thoughtful, thorough, ‘warts and all’ tributes than you Trig.
I’ve only seen TK perform once. It was in 07 at Cabo Wabo in Mexico. Sammy Hagar’s Annual Birthday Bash. He performed Ted Nugent’s Stranglehold with Ted on guitar, Chad Smith from Red Hot Chili Peppers on drums and Michael Anthony on bass.
He sang the SHIT outta that song!
RIP
#fuckcancer
CountryKnight
February 6, 2024 @ 3:47 pm
Country Universe is censoring comments on their Keith page. KJC there can’t handle disagreements and he is a teacher. His poor students.
Toby wouldn’t approve.
SCM remains superior because of the comments section.
trarmer
February 6, 2024 @ 3:59 pm
Probably a bigger fan of him than his music. The entire 90’s country sound just didn’t do it for me. But the dude was a great man. He was married to the same woman his whole life who met long before being rich and famous. He adopted his step-daughter as his own. He said and sang exactly as he saw it. He worked the oil fields and then chased a dream. He genuinely gave support, aid and comfort to our soldiers – not the politicians who pushed for the wars. He gave mightly to children suffering cancer. He was American to the core. So is his music. I’ll fire up spotify and give his music – his enduring legacy of greatness – another round. May God’s Peace be upon Toby Keith and family.
Stephen Reed
February 6, 2024 @ 4:02 pm
Tony Keith and Garth Brooks are the earliest country artists I remember hearing on the radio, and arguably what got me into country when I was little. While I fell away from Toby Keith after his big post 9/11 hits were overplayed, I was getting back into his music after Trigger wrote about Don’t Let the Old Man In.
This death hit me as badly as Neil Peart’s did (another childhood favorite).
Blackhat
February 6, 2024 @ 4:03 pm
Too early but some people deal with greif by bad humour:
He ain’t as good as he once was.
Also:
How do we like him now?
David
February 6, 2024 @ 6:27 pm
A different set of lyrics keeps running through my mind today.
I wish I didn’t know now what I didn’t know then.
I wish I could start this whole thing over again.
Myron
February 7, 2024 @ 9:20 am
Movin up stairs, down town
Life’s too short to be hanging around….
…he’s gettin out, while the gettins good.
wish I could believe this right now.
David:The Duke of Everything
February 6, 2024 @ 4:20 pm
Very sad news this morning. And quit calling red solo cup silly. I personally liked his more comedic and patriotic songs over a lot of his other stuff. Not every song needs to be about losing or getting a girl, or driving down a dirt road. I wasn’t his biggest fan but I was a fan. I had hoped he was going to win this battle at least for a few more years. With cancer, it almost always seems to come back. People that take pride in other people suffering are the worst. They don’t deserve any respect. Far as the hall of fame. He should easily get in as a writer, probabl should have already been in for that. One more of the great ones gone. May he rest in peace.
Kevin Carlson
February 6, 2024 @ 4:25 pm
I just dusted off the Honky Tonk University album when I read about Toby Keith’s death today. This album was my traveling companion for many miles in 2005. I’d forgotten how good this album was.
SRAvery
February 6, 2024 @ 4:51 pm
I knew you’d knock this one out of the park, thanks! Hard to imagine anyone not smiling when he says “E-e-easy now” in Talkin’ ‘Bout Tonight.
allcanadianamericanboybrady
February 6, 2024 @ 4:56 pm
With his robust physique (he was a derrick hand,and football player),and dude-oriented songs”Should Have Been A Cowboy,”A Little More Talk,A Lot More Action”chief among them,Toby Keith was the ultimate Country singer we boys could admire,but who was also popular with the ladies.I wish his cancer hadn’t ended his great career,then his life,but his legacy in Country music will be eternal.RIP,Toby,you’ll be a cowboy in the Pearly Gates Rodeo!!!!!!!
Mary K
February 6, 2024 @ 4:59 pm
I recall seeing Toby at the start of his career at a small venue at a fair. We rocked, had a blast & I told my friends, “This guy will be big one day” What an understatement. On that day I became a LONG TIME fan, followed his career, attended so many concerts I lost count, made so many friends from all over the country through his fan club of Toby Warriors. Had the honor of a few M&G’s and every mile on my vehicle, every airline trip, every hotel expenditure, hours of lost sleep etc was worth it all. I have memories I will always hold on to. He stood strong in his beliefs and convictions and I had total respect for that, along with his love for his family & our military. He never declared to be perfect but he was THE BIG DOG DADDY RIP & say HI to Merle for us.
Rackensacker
February 6, 2024 @ 5:13 pm
In addition to his music, do not overlook the humanitarian work he did to help rebuild Moore, Okla., after multiple devastating tornadoes.
Rich
February 6, 2024 @ 5:46 pm
My entry point into country, and specifically Red Dirt, was well past Toby’s heyday but I feel for all of you guys whom his music meant a lot to. Growing up in Northeast Ohio in the 80’s and losing Michael Stanley a few years ago hit me really really hard. I’m sure many are feeling the same today.
Rolling through his songs today I am ashamed to say I thought several of them were actually Brooks and Dunn songs. Shame on me for my complete lack of 90’s country knowledge. But I did stumble on Toby’s excellent version of “Oklahoma Breakdown” being a Red Dirt standard made famous by Stoney LaRue. So I now officially have one Toby Keith song in my library. RIP Mr. Keith
Bert
February 6, 2024 @ 6:17 pm
Toby was indeed a complex person . I remember him saying he had seen the Chick’s Movie “Shut up and sing” and recommended that people go see it.
David
February 6, 2024 @ 6:23 pm
Even though Dream Walkin’ is one of my all time favorite songs, and I like a several of his songs, I never really considered myself to be a big fan of Toby Keith. So when I heard the news this morning on the way to work as stations were playing his songs, it surprised my how hard it hit me. As I was thinking about it today, I remembered one another time Toby Keith hit hard.
A few years after it was originally released, the video to “Upstairs, Downtown” came on CMT when I was in college. We often had the TV on CMT just for noise, but this time both my roommate and I were focused on the song. I was a boy from the country living on the 9th floor in a dorm room, and probably 18 or 19 at the time, and the lyrics, “Living upstairs downtown, life’s too short to be hanging around. She’s 18 and it’s time she got back to the woods,” really struck me. After the song ended, I mentioned to him how much more relatable the song was to me then than when it had been released. The shocked look on his face had already told me, but he confirmed that he was thinking the same thing during the song.
As I look through all the songs he released, and heard several of them on the radio today, I’ve realized he was much bigger than I ever understood. And the sadness I’ve felt every time I’ve thought about it tells me I was a much bigger fan of Toby Keith than I thought.
Big A
February 6, 2024 @ 6:24 pm
I’ll never forget the patience he showed a certain drunk college kid stumbling around Key West on spring break in the early 2000s. I approached a very tall, very curly-mulleted man with a smoking hot woman at Rick’s and said something along the lines of “I’m sorry if I’m wrong but are you Tony Keith?” From there we had a nice conversation about how he was in town “recording at Buffett’s studio” (based on the timing, I believe it may have been “Hey Good Looking”). Hard to believe they are now both gone. May both those fine gentleman throw an epic party in the stars tonight.
BD
February 6, 2024 @ 7:21 pm
Love how this obituary for Toby Keith shows why Trig & SCM are highly respected. The comments are also wonderful to read … various divergent perspectives expressed respectfully.
Phil
February 6, 2024 @ 8:47 pm
Back in 2001, I was working in downtown Chicago. I heard that Toby Keith was doing an in-store CD signing at the Tower Records a few blocks away. I figured I’d pop over there on my lunch break and get a CD signed for my mom who was a big fan. I was not familiar with his music or his popularity back then (this was before the whole “Courtesy of the Red White and Blue” persona took over is career). I was surprised to find a line stretching for blocks! I called out sick the rest of the afternoon to stand in line and get my mom that autograph. The line took a long time to move because Toby literally had a conversation with every fan. When I finally got to the front I explained I wasn’t into his music but was there for my mom and he asked me a ton of questions about her and seemed genuinely interested…eventually signing the CD I bought and a poster that he retrieved from behind the table he was sitting at…both made out to her. Say what you will about his music, but he was really nice to his thousands of fans that day. After that I paid attention to his music. He wrote a ton of great songs.
Bibs
February 6, 2024 @ 9:35 pm
I admired that he respected the older guys. I read that Merle Haggard had a show somewhere and couldn’t make it through his set. Toby was there and offered to finish it for him. Supposedly, someone offered him chords charts for the songs, and he told them he didn’t need the chords that he all of them from memory. That’s pretty impressive. I know most singers use the guitar more as a prop these days, but I saw Merle about this time and his band was so stripped down, I don’t think it would have been feasible for him to not play.
Trigger
February 6, 2024 @ 10:50 pm
You can read that story here (shameless plug):
https://savingcountrymusic.com/the-last-concert-merle-haggard-ever-gave/
Bibs
February 6, 2024 @ 9:44 pm
Also, as others have commented, this is a great article. It’s fair, respectful, but also points out the negative aspects of his career in a respectful way.
Keepin’ it Country
February 6, 2024 @ 10:19 pm
I’ve been getting drunk listening to Toby Keith. I’m drinking a 12 pack, 7 in right now. Raising one to a lengend.
Diamond Girl
February 7, 2024 @ 5:55 am
I agree Trigger with the comment crater ;like impact, this is a deep deep crater like hole in the fabric of our country music to lose Toby. Y’all need to go deep into his catalogue of songs, not just what got released. He had many gifts but the best is songwriter. The wonderful ballads did not get get enough attention. He was a real man that could write about human life and struggles, and also the fun and party lifestyle music. His greatest songs are the ones for America and our real life heroes, the soldiers who sacrifice it all. His Love for America and those who protect her go deep in the songs.
Read what his fellow artists and friends have said about him, Kix Brooks says it well that Toby relentlessly participated in every aspect of his life. True. Ronnie Dunn says he was an Outlaw with a Big Heart True. Teddy Gentry from Alabama Band says Toby had the Trifecta, songwriter, singer and Big Heart. All True. And I will add to that Soul and spirit and a reverence for Country Music and those that inspired him. He got to be friends and work with Legends, Willie Nelson, Merle Haggard, Mel Tillis, Glen Campbell, Chris LeDoux, Jimmy Buffet, Clint Eastwood. In his shows he would honor his friends . I think he sings the best Merle songs. As Toby would say, Godspeed, but man this hurts and will for a long while. Prayes for his family, his friends, his band, all of his military friends. I hope artists will continue to play his music in their shows and learn and grow from what he showed the world.
North Woods Country
February 7, 2024 @ 9:05 am
People tend to forget that there is more than one kind of great songwriter. Toby Keith wrote in ways that transcended the intellectual faculties of the listener. The brainiac and the intellectually limited (not referring to handicapped folks, just folks that aren’t intelligent) could connect with his music. So could all of the people in-between. He deserves any honors he receives posthumously.
Taylor ????
February 7, 2024 @ 12:10 pm
It hit hard yesterday morning when I woke up and saw the news. Toby was a favorite of my family’s in the 90’s and the 2000’s, so naturally, his music was a huge part of my childhood. He was so loved, and will be greatly missed. ????
NPC
February 7, 2024 @ 12:48 pm
While other ’90s country artists have passed away, Toby is arguably the biggest loss to date. In terms of songwriting credits and showmanship, it is as though we lost Alan Jackson.
Toby always sang with passion, energy, and conviction. Whether it was “Should’ve Been A Cowboy”, “How Do You Like Me Now?!”, “Dream Walkin’ “, “Who’s That Man”, “Cryin’ For Me”, or any other of his dozens of hits, he always sang it like he had actually lived it. So many modern, male country singers fail to emote through their music, whether in their voice or in their stage presence. Toby’s love for music, performing, and especially songwriting was never in doubt; he even sang the Oklahoma News 9 jingle like it was the National Anthem: https://www.instagram.com/news9/reel/C2fcbrSLFEq/
Rest easy, Toby, and many prayers to your family, friends, and fans. Thanks for your contributions to country music and to so many lives.
Myron
February 7, 2024 @ 2:25 pm
A great write up Trigger, I just have a bone to pick with one sentence – “2002’s “Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue ……. would go on to define the career of Toby Keith”. That’s only in the minds of people that are hung up on it and are open minded about many things, but not patriotic music. I happen to think he was defined by his many hits and boisterous attitude, but also by the many more thoughtful songs he wrote.
Some of my favorites are Should been a cowboy, Movin upstairs Downtown, Does that blue moon ever shine on you, dream walkin, Honky Tonk U, My List, whiskey girl, and many others.
I do throw up in my mouth when I think about “I wanna talk about me”. And we all love Sting but Country wasn’t ready for him in 1998. Sad to see him go so soon.
Trigger
February 7, 2024 @ 2:57 pm
Sure, I think Toby Keith fans know the depth of his catalog. But I think to general popular culture, he’s the “boot in your ass” guy for better or worse. That said, I’ve seen a real good reconciliation with his legacy through the news of his death. A lot of the media and fans are really digging deeper, and that’s good to see.
Bigfoot is Real
February 7, 2024 @ 3:35 pm
Just finished watching Stephen Colbert’s tribute to Toby Keith and it was a wonderful reminder as to how we ought to treat one another. It made me appreciate the good in both men.
ChrisP
February 7, 2024 @ 3:59 pm
To be honest, this passing hit me a lot harder than I thought it would. I’ve had a love/hate relationship with Toby Keith throughout nearly my entire life. Should’ve Been a Cowboy released when I was two years old, and was, without a doubt, my favorite song up until I was about eight or so. I still remember taking enormous flak as a second grader in Las Vegas for saying I liked country music.
Later on, I bought an anthology CD of Toby’s, which I listened to heavily in my crappy Chevy Cavalier on the way to school and work. To me, Toby Keith was country and as traditional as it got. As time went on, however, I stopped listening to his music. His old stuff was okay, but the new stuff was awful, and I’d found better artists to listen to (many through this website). I hadn’t given old Toby a second thought until that legendary performance of Don’t let the Old Man In; I nearly cried listening to it.
While I’m not a fan of his music as much these days, I attribute much of my love of country to Toby Keith and his decent output in the 90’s. In that sense, I’m truly sad to see him go.
DCinOK
February 7, 2024 @ 4:59 pm
How anyone, let alone any AMERICAN, can be offended/turned off/disgusted/horrified by the phrase “we’ll put a boot in your ass, it’s the American way” that is sung in a song released by an America-loving American a year after 2,977 innocent people were slaughtered by the evil that is Al-Qaeda is incomprehensible to me. I’m so glad you knew Jesus, TK. He’s got you now.
CountryKnight
July 3, 2024 @ 4:05 pm
There are many Americans who have been trained to hate America.
Sam Sanchez
February 7, 2024 @ 5:22 pm
While in college back in the early ’90’s, danced many times with lovely young ladies to Toby Keith and Easy Money, his band at the time, at a country bar called Cowboys in Las Cruces, NM. Peace and prayers to him and his family in this difficult time.
Clay Bowman
February 7, 2024 @ 10:00 pm
What a beautiful written piece. Thank you to the author for summing up how so many of us feel right now. You had me sobbing on my laptop.
DC
February 7, 2024 @ 11:21 pm
As a fan of Toby and the Chicks, I think it’s important to include this statement he made a while back, which speaks to Toby’s complexity as layer out perfectly in Triggers article:
“I’m embarrassed about the way I let myself get sucked into all of that. I disappointed myself,” he said, according to CMT.com. “I didn’t disappoint anybody else. Everybody else loved it. They wanted me to attack that. But I probably disappointed myself more than anything, because I’m better than that. It got pretty vicious sometimes, putting her and Saddam Hussein up on the screen. That was funny for a night or two, and then it was a little over the top for me. I’m not that mean.”
He was a good man and he stood for his beliefs, and recognized the bad parts of the controversy he was apart of, without fully denouncing his own beliefs. A class act even if he didn’t always look like it. R.I.P.T.K
Dave Cooper
February 9, 2024 @ 2:20 pm
Triggers article referenced Natalie Maines wearing a FUTK t shirt. About 20 years ago I watched Barbara Koppels Dixie Chicks doc “Shut Up and Sing” and as I recall, my memory may be hazy, her T Shirt was actually in response to Toby Keith wearing a FUDC belt buckle. Maines jokingly said her shirt stood for “Friendship Unity Togetherness and Kindness”.
Jan Pitts
February 8, 2024 @ 10:12 am
The Chicks were on TV today still attacking Toby. Totally wrong and uncalled for. They really want to throw their second shot away
Quang Nguyen
February 9, 2024 @ 5:15 am
Unfair and harsh assessment on the impact of Red Solo Cup. Look at all the social media and real world tributes to his passing, majority are toasting him with this symbolic song. Heck, ppl in Oklahoma are placing a red solo cup in front yard as a tribute.
rightmom
February 9, 2024 @ 9:19 am
My husband and I watched an interview Toby gave to Channel 9 late last year. It’s totally worth the hour to watch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KO_57iSfaJo
Wesley Gray
February 23, 2024 @ 11:46 am
Great writeup. I work and live in his hometown of Moore, Oklahoma which is famous for tornados and Toby Keith. In fact, my work place is at the base of that big, egg-shaped water tower y’all have seen in countless twister vids. I was never a huge fan of music but he always seemed like a cool person and all the locals that had partied with him and went to HS with him loved him. it was a very sad day in Moore on the morning of the announcement of his passing. You could feel a heavy-hearted feeling everywhere you went. RIP to a legend. great article, Trig.
Country Charley Crockett's Butter
March 10, 2024 @ 1:12 am
Paying my respects to the Big Dog.
Beautiful tribute K-Dog Trigger ❤️